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*qualad96
writes:I have been dating this guy since November, we are not official yet but have told one another that we aren't talking or interested in other people. Lately we have been fighting, fights that I may cause but its because of how he talks to me. For example before he goes to work he has a lot of things to do, I'll ask and more times than not I'll get back its too much to type. So yesterday when he said he has a lot to do, I said let me guess too much too type lol. I hurt his feeling and we began arguing, he's also really short with me and gives me one word answers but says but I always hit you up. That's like going to work and not doing work but telling your boss but I'm here. He knows things haven't been ok, he says he knows its his fault, and says its something he needs work on. He's a wonderful guy I just don't know what to do :/ Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (29 January 2016):
 Back when dinosaurs had to use phones and not text, they were able to convey with verbal communication of a few short minutes more than a text message convo could ever convey.
My advice to you would be to stop texting in the morning when he's going to work.
Why haven't things been ok, aside from your need for a lot of text messaging?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 January 2016):
 If you are constantly texting him while he is a work, I understand why he gets mad at you.
HE doesn't go to work to CHAT with you, but to do a job and MAKE an income so HE can live.
I say CHILL with the texting when he is at work, if he doesn't WANT to text while at work I think you ought to respect that.
I bet that would fix a LOT of the issues. He wouldn't be abrupt with you and you wouldn't get your feelings hurt.
There is SO much more to having a good healthy relationship than texting.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (28 January 2016):
 Perhaps you need to relax a little; allow a little more breathing room; let him come to you... If he has work commitments and you are frustrating them then obviously he might get short with you.
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