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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have feelings for a guy that I work with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I have feelings for a guy that I work with!! On our works Christmas party we kissed, before this we had a laugh and banter together. Since the kiss, we have spoken everyday since. Just general chat, the odd compliment, generally just getting to know one another. It wasn... (260 words)

I feel like his mom always comes first!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can I have advice on how to deal with my husband and his mother, she has always been very reliant on him but in the last few months since he became a house husband, he spends all his time on the phone to her and going round to her (she lives 5 mins away). Everyday ... (167 words)

Am I silly for being disappointed and upset that my much richer boyfriend got me absolutely nothing for Valentine's Day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to two years. I am upset , disappointed he didn't get my anything for Valentine's Day. I got him a cute bag with his favorite candy , card , along with shoes. I would of been happy with a thoughtful card. SOME kind of effort. I ... (212 words)

I'm worried I don't fit in with the crowd

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a really social person, and I've always tried to chat with girls who are at my lecture. They are basically a group of girls, and they are just not my type, but i have no choice or else I'll just end up alone. I do have lots of other friends but they are outside my uni and ... (352 words)

Is sorry ever enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I really would like your advice. I did something hurtful and rude to my friend. It was an impulsive act and I regretted it immediately. I mailed her two weeks ago to apologise. I would like to apologise in person too. Though not the best of friends, we have been friendly the... (182 words)

How do I get over shock divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I am still very distraught and sad over my divorce that happened over a year ago. Mainly because I did not want the divorce to happen, nor did I see it coming. I was very much in love with my husband, we were married for 3 years and together for 5, and have a beautiful 4-ye... (288 words)

We've been dating for 2 years and my jobless girlfriend depends on me for everything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - Here it is! My girlfriend and i have been together for two yrs. She has no job, no car, and depends on me for her children's appointment s or shopping and the like. I have no problem helping her as she had let me stay with her in the begining of our relationship. She helped m... (166 words)

How do I politely tell this man that I don't wish to stay in contact?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I let someone know politely that I don't want to be in contact with them any more? So there's a guy who I used to be kind of friends with in another city. I've met up with him a handful of times and we chatted occassionally on skype. For the past couple of months, I've ... (224 words)

My husband has started texting women he's met through facebook. Should I worry?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together about 7 years and he has recently been texting women through Facebook. He says it’s all innocent flirting. These women are in other countries. I expressed to him that I was uncomfortable with him talking to these women. What he told me is ... (174 words)

Boyfriend demanded sex, I refused and broke up with him. I'm confused!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship now but not up to a year, truly when we first started I did not have feelings for him but wit time that we both get to know each other so well that I fall for him. after like three month of our dating he started demanding for sex ... (353 words)

Why does my boyfriend have reminders of his ex wife all over his house? Should I end things with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there, i maybe sound so silly, but i cant help it. thats the reason im here, cos i wanna feel better. i have a boyfriend.we are now almost 9 months in relationship. we are not living together, cos our city are more than 2 hours drive from each other. he come to me when he ... (653 words)

Should I ask if he feels the same as me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like some advice about this guy I'm dating. We've been seeing each other about once a week, sometimes twice a week for 10 weeks. I haven't felt such a strong and genuine connection with a guy for a long time and I'm certain he feels it too. He makes an effort to see m... (443 words)

How can I deal with my demanding mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My mum is sometimes difficult and has found her children leaving home and major life events quite hard work due to a difficult marriage and childhood that has effected us all (violent and absent husband - our father). I have done my very best to support her, make her feel lov... (319 words)

Is it love or just habit? Can a husband truly love his wife if he cheats for years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) age 36-40 - Can a man cheating on his wife for four plus years really love her? Even if he was straying because of sex- something that he is not getting in his marriage? He doesn't love the other woman- don't know if he cares for her or just using her for convenient sex. But he goes out of ... (114 words)

I feel ignored and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) age 41-50 - How would you feel if you had a husband who constantly was on viber to some of his family members and friends and when I say constantly I mean sometimes a two hour convo to one friend and then to another; and two hour convos to his mother on a daily basis also. When we go out ... (137 words)

Why do some folks gossip so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) age 36-40 - Why do folks gossip so much? Heard a couple of women from work gossiping about our Manager and her estranged relationship with her husband. Am not a fan of my manager but these two women did grow in the organization because of her- where is the loyalty? And why gossip any... (69 words)

Trapped by love I can't return

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with this girl for over a year. She loves me like no one has ever loved me before. She wants children with me and wants a life with me. We've travelled together and we get along great - we have fun together. She can make me laugh, I can make her laugh. She accepts ... (276 words)

Where do I draw the line with LDR BF who is becoming provocative and sexually disrespectful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I’m after some advice about a new relationship. It’s long distance and we met online. He’s a bit older than me and has been married before. He’s not really my type but pursued me, was incredibly lovely to me at the beginning, we have tons in common and things just ... (360 words)

No sex and he's suffering

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - How important is sex in a marriage? I suffer from dyspareunia and because of this I'm not interested in sex at all. My husband understands my situation but I can see that he is suffering. What should I do? I don't get horny at all. The thought of having sex turns me off. Pls ... (58 words)

Is this what I have on offer? That, if he doesn't find someone else, he'll "settle" for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help getting over an ex. I don't know what's wrong with me or why I can't let him go. We were great in the beginning, I really thought I had found the one I was meant to be with for life. Then my issues of insecurity came up and he basically did the opposite... (569 words)

Have I already given my ex too many chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

17 February 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in and out of a relationship with a girl for about 7 years now. We met back in high school. Back in Dec 2014 I proposed to her but she said no. Shortly after I found out that she was having sex with one of her co-workers. she confessed to me after I found ou... (366 words)

What can I do about this situation? My male friend is too controlling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

17 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My male friend is very controlling I think. He wants everything to be on his terms. He decides when and where we hang out. If he doesn't have time, we don't do anything and won't even try to compromise. I was having a party last week and he said he won't come because he has a... (132 words)