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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he rejecting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - so me and a guy have been talking for a long while. i am 19 now, we've been talking since i was sixteen. i went out once with a group of friends and he is a friend of theirs, he just showed up and we had never met before. he showed up, greeted me specifically, and later on ... (703 words)

My boyfriend is always late and doesn't see anything wrong with it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. We live 40 mins apart. I get very irritated because he is always late with me it seems. I am a punctual type of person and if I happen to run late I will apologize and let the person know and get there ASAP. To me that's ... (225 words)

Search for the "one" or love the one you're with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3214 days ago

1 February 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - My problem is intimacy. In the beginning of this relationship we fooled around almost everyday, now its extremely hard for me to get "turned on" for her. I have read countless articles about my supposed diminished libido, stress and the like, though none of it seems to ... (362 words)

don't know whether I'm supposed to reach out and contact her or just see if she contacts me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

1 February 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been talking to this girl and she's kinda gone quiet the last couple days. We slept together on Wednesday night, so I know its not like I don't stand any chance with her like that lol. But we have been sleeping together for a couple months now. And we usually talk all ... (229 words)

Am I being overly sensitive about how my parents handled the loan?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a 49yo professional woman with a stable spouse and a successful career. I have owned my own business now for 10 years. My husband and I have been married for 24 years and we have zero debt. Eight years ago, we had borrowed $100,000 from my parents with interest of ... (209 words)

Fiance talking to ex and hiding it... please help! It's a difficult situation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have posted on this website couple of times about concerns (I posted when he forgot about my birthday) I have about my fiance and coming back here to seek support and answers makes me realize how unhealthy my relationship is... but how will I ever admit that ... (1258 words)

Is this weird or am I normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Is this weird? I'm 16 and I'm horny all the time (I'm a virgin too). I've had very little to no experience with guys. All it takes is a sexual song or a male singer with a sexy voice to turn me on and then I have to masturbate, or atleast pleasure myself for a few seconds ... (187 words)

Did my friend stop all contact with me because it will never go further than friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, i am a survivor of an abusive relation ship, 8 month after the break up i met some one, we had so much fun, but due to religious issues we did not stay together as friends and we agreed on staying friends, 1 month after the agreement my friend kissed me on my ... (356 words)

I find sexual chat with men stimulating but enjoy kissing women. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

1 February 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My question is related to sexuality, and I almost feel as though I have the answers myself but I just need someone to bounce them off. From an early age I have had a pretty high sex drive. My tastes in pornography have mostly been heterosexual, but occasiona... (433 words)

He wants sex almost every night! Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - How often do couples have sex? I have been with my partner for just under 2 years and feel he always wants sex. I have a 3 year old from a previous relationship. So some nights I am just too tired and want to just sleep. Then he sulks if I say no or says things like guess you ... (181 words)

My fiancé almost never wants to have sex, is there a way we can compromise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - My fiancé and I have been together for three years and i am sure we really love eachother however there has been a reoccurring issue in our relationship for about a year now...he almost never wants have sex. we have been living together for about two years and he moved here ... (519 words)

What did my partner mean, by saying he misses me making an effort?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my partner for 6 years, the first half of which he was in the military and we had a LDR. After he finished his service and moved back to our home city, we both decided to find better paying jobs and get a house together. We've now been living together... (415 words)

How do I navigate asking to have the one child over without inviting her kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My male cousin died a few years ago. Ever since I have gotten his 4 children together for visits. They are half siblings and don't see each other unless I get them. Recently one child was placed in the custody of my female cousin (his sister). She has 2 kids of her own. How ... (128 words)

On average how many weeks should yu message someone online before suggesting meeting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a gay female,retrying online dating. On average how many weeks should yu message someone online before suggesting meeting? I have met people before online but the site I'm on now is different. We were matched 3.5 weeks ago and have been writing messages every 2... (243 words)

How could I be so dumb?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

1 February 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - How come I was so dumb, I work hard at my job, single parent, an now my teenager, had a baby, so, I take of a baby now too, I met someone, everything was going great I thought, I treated her like women always said, they like being treated, like an angel, but am hurting so much, ... (145 words)

He never asks me out just talks to me on the phone and he lies to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid, this guy i fell in love with i been talk over three years over the phone. he never ask me out all he whats to talk over the phone he tells me his marry and has kids. but hes not marry or has any kids and most of the time he likes to talk to me dirty. sometimes he ... (205 words)

Is it normal for a guy to only want anal and never vaginal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met a guy from a dating site. The first time we met, we engaged in anal sex without a condom (he had a fantasy of ejaculating inside my anus) as a way to avoid pregnancy. Everytime we meet he only wants to have anal and never vaginal. It's not pleasureable for me at ... (85 words)

I'm afraid I'm starting to get some kind of sex dysfunction but I'm not sure why this would happen

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

1 February 2016 (M)

age - 51 y.o. male here. I no my body very well and I take care of it. I workout every other day and I take vitamin and enzyme and amino acid by the handful. I use the Paleo diet, only drink mineral water, eat a lot of eggs everyday, I avoid gluten and lactose as I am sensitive and I ... (239 words)

I want a baby so badly that it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I want a baby but i do want to get marryed first but i see babys evey where i got and i almost cry when i see them i just want a baby so bad it hurts to not have one plz help.... (43 words)

What should I do about the little white lies that he tells?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3213 days ago

1 February 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - So I'm talking to a guy and I've found he tends to tell small lies, for instance, today he went to a car show and he said his phone was going to die soon so I told him I would talk to him later so he could save his battery for the last little while of the ride home, but a few ... (175 words)

When someone just disappears is it your fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

1 February 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - When you treat some one special, then they disappear, with out even a good bye, after months of pure joy, is it your fault, especially when you thought you both felt the same way... (34 words)