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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Would I be better off on my own?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have been together for 6 years and have two small kids a baby and a 2 year old, lately it seems like we just talk bout the kids or house, I feel like I do everything with the kids on my own he works long hours but would never help at night and has even taken to ... (133 words)

How does he get away with cheating and then get the perfect girl and relationship and I'm left looking like the big bad wolf.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm probably going to get a lot of hate over this but this is why I'm writing, for help and advice. Around 19 months ago I had an affair with a guy 11 years younger than myself who was in a relationship with an extremely beautiful girl at the time. When I say extremely be... (614 words)

When she goes cold, what would you suggest I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

10 February 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone About 7 months ago i met a great girl. I really like her and i believe she likes me too (sometimes). She goes hot and cold. I know she is very stressed with her work, has trust issues and currently works as an au pair and hates that she doesn't have any time t... (520 words)

When do you tell a guy you are a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, first time poster. I keep having a problem here and I guess my main question is when do you tell a guy you are a virgin? I oviously shouldn't shake a boy's hand and say, "hi, I'm Carey and I'm a virgin." but a lot of boys, after I have been talking to them and after a ... (800 words)

Wouldn't most parents be thrilled to have a kid like me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

10 February 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - My mom and I are having problems right now and I don't know why. I will probably graduate at the top of my class in May. No drugs, gangs, or anything I like that. I am managing money for my dad and his partners and collecting nice management fees. I am doing some buying and ... (246 words)

My gf is texting another guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I've been with my current girlfriend for over a year. At first, we started off as casual. During this time, she hooked up with two different guys and then met her ex girlfriend for Valentine's day (she swore nothing happened). I accepted it because we weren't in a ... (249 words)

2nd time wedding blues. His wants vs my wants

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I are starting to plan our wedding. This will be my second marriage and second wedding. I had the traditional wedding experience with my first wedding and am unsure of the proper etiquette for a second wedding. His family wants to parake in all the traditional ... (215 words)

Does anyone have any advice for the eternal commitophobe? Or should I just give up hope now and start investing in my cat collection now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I recently split up with my boyfriend of 2 months. Which isn't very long I know, but it's been playing on my mind. I'm usually the sort of person who can cut someone off at the drop of a hat, and I've had to do that to survive in the past. But this guy is so d... (227 words)

Should I give my shy crush a Valentine's card?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Should I give my shy crush a valentine's card? Im almost certain he knows I like him, as other agree it's been made obvious- but he also knows I'm shy.. BTW I don't know this guy as a friend yet, although he does always make shy conversation, and he doesn't with any... (153 words)

What is crossing the boundary between an attached guy and his female friend? Please enlighten me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, a female friend called my boyfriend about a personal issue. She was talking about a guy whom she slept with and did not want to pursue anything beyond FWB with her. They used to be colleagues, but by the time this call took place, they actually hadn't seen each other ... (237 words)

Why is he so attentive to his ex and not to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My BF and I have been in a LDR for almost three years. We're moving together this year. I have always been very nice to all of his family members (he has a huge family compared to mine). I will get presents for every little neice and nephew and cousin etc. I will help with cho... (257 words)

What's going on with me, and with us? We are FWB, but we can't get enough of each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

10 February 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a woman that I absolutely LOVE to have sexual relations with, I mean, I feel almost addictive about it. We are friends, and we hang out. But the sexual tension is unlike anything I've ever experienced before and our sex is just unbelievable. Mind blowing. There's just an ... (292 words)

Does my professor like me? She appears to like my company

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure but I think my professor likes me, too. She's 45. I'm 25. We don't talk much but when we do, I get the sense that she likes me. Sometimes she touches me when we talk. She rubs my back or my shoulder. I've had feelings for her for well over a year now. She's ... (309 words)

Guy touched butt on 1st date. Will he not call me again because of how I reacted?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a first date with a guy on Saturday. He was nice but he touched my butt.Not grabbed, but knowingly touched it. Aafter we kissed, he tapped it. Not slapped it but tapped it with his hand. Nervously, i didn't know how to react and didnt say anything in those ... (298 words)

A threesome has turned into a disaster. My wife wants to spend the night with guy without me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

10 February 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife and I have been married for twenty three years, recently she said she wanted to try a mmf threesome. She met a guy online who is older than her and after getting to know him we agreed to do it. The first two times we all had fun, the third time I felt like the third ... (166 words)

I have a foot fetish and want to suck my wife's toes. How do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

10 February 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Might be a weird question to some.. I have a foot fetish, I would love to suck on my wife's toes during sex but for fear of looking weird I never told her. 6yrs later we are married and I still would like to do this. But how do I bring it up without it making her freak out? ... (62 words)

Why does he keep flirting with me when he is married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Guy at work was flirting with me for about 6wks then I asked him out for a drink. He refused stating if he was not married he would, than proceeded to let me know how flattered he was,and lets continue to be friends. So I said I was sorry for putting him in that position. But ... (78 words)

Is it a turn off if a girl has a very high sex drive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

10 February 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all, I have a slightly weird question. I'm 18 and have a very high sex drive, I have a boyfriend if 4 months and he is now realising how horny I am. At the minute he seems fine with it but Id just like to ask is it a turnoff? I'm literally willing to go anywhere at any time ... (92 words)