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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it normal to be turned on that your wife slept with other guys before you met her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (M)

age - When I met my new wife I had just gotten divorced. I had only been with my ex-wife so didn't have much experience. My new wife had been married twice and had two children. I'm not overly endowed so I was very nervous about having sex with her for fear of her not being pleased ... (290 words)

33 year old wife being hit on by a couple

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - oman, my husband took a promotion at work to get into management. I didn't understand why he needed to take it because he gets the jobs that no one else wants and is constantly away from home for long periods of time. This has put a strain on our marriage and our sex life. When ... (235 words)

Confront the cad or befriend the heartbroken girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - So, out of nowhere 6 months ago a random facebook friend stole my heart. He wished me a happy birthday, charmed me right off of my feet and for a few months after that we chatted incessantly, day and night. He's a world traveling performance artist and extremely intelligent, ... (260 words)

I'm living with a girl who still has boyfriend. She says she'll end it with him when things are right

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

15 February 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been seeing this girl now, but she has a boyfriend. ive been basically living at her place for a couple weeks now and she tells me she loves me and wants to be with me. Shes very close with his family and they have been together for a long time. She's telling me she ... (170 words)

I had a dream that my much older boyfriend is gay. Should I be concerned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I had a dream a couple of nights ago that my boyfriend of a year had a homosexual affair. what happened was, in my dream I visited a lad who was in my year at school whom now works at my place of work. my boyfriend arrived at the house and I hid under the lads bed. Th... (200 words)

After 7 years of only seeing his son once, my ex now wants in his life. What shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone my son is 7 years old my ex has never seen him apart from once when he was 2 weeks old I had to involve the police as he kept threatening me and even threatened to make me have a miscarriage I was willing for him to see his son but he never turned up for him now I ... (94 words)

I still have feelings for my ex 4 years later

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, im finding it hard to forget my first love. We broke up in 2012 yet i still have feelings for him. i tried so many stuffs to forget him like deleting his pictures, blocking him, going out with my friends etc but to no avail. I know he has moved on and happily ... (101 words)

Hw came in my mouth and it left a burning sensation. How long does that last?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 22 aND my bf and I gave our virginity to each other last yr. We only have had sex once sinxe and he pulled out before he ejaculatd. The other night I gave him a bj and he came in my mouth. He didn't givea warning aND held my head down so I couldn't avoid it and had ... (81 words)

How can I get my father's daughter and my boyfriend to grow up and stop trying to annoy one another?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I have share custody of my 5 year old daughter. We get along great and we do many things together as a "family". I have been dating my current boyfriend for a year and he is perfect. I've never had a guy treat me the way he does, he's romantic and seer and my daughter ... (202 words)

Could I get pregnant this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all! so, I am a 35 year old married woman- hubby and I dont want kids. I have been on the pill for 10 years and a few months I had to quit because my body was starting to feel the stress. Hubby and I have been using condoms since. Lately, though, we have started this ... (144 words)

Can I get pregnant from boyfriend having sex then taking off condom and putting himself back into me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I have been stupid and need help. Me and my boyfriend were fooling around last week after having a drink and had sex (this isn't our first time) but afterwards we joked about having children and he put it back in as a joke without a condom on. We laughed it off and ... (100 words)

How do I let go of an incident that happened to my boyfriend months ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I move on from here? A few months ago, my boyfriend and I attended a school party where alcohol was involved (We are both in university, although in different ones and yes, the students from other universities are allowed in that party.). He introduced me to... (420 words)

Should I worry about his Valentine blunder?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) age 36-40 - My BF of 3 years had to work all day on Valentine's Day. He gave me my gift and we celebrated on Friday. Yesterday we had a quick chat while he was at work. He texted me, "Be my Valentine?", and I said "Yes" and asked if he will be mine. He said "For sure" and that he like... (306 words)

Starting to mistrust these excuses

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a failed marriage for 10 years when i started dating a colleague who is 3 years younger. He was quite confident of our future at that time so i went ahead and filed for divorce with my husband. Now the guy I am dating feels that I am rushing into everything and he says... (169 words)

Can I stop friends hitting on my mom.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - its about my mom, i think she is acting insane. I am 26, my mom is 46. My parents know each other since they were 14. They got married early and had me when they were 20. lately they are though friendly with each other, live their separate lives. I live in a different sta... (405 words)

Help me with my foolish feelings

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) age 36-40 - I don't understand myself. Why do I keep thinking that someone who didn't consider my feelings/wants when we were together for four years, would consider them now that we broke up one month ago. I have not seen him and contact is minimal. There is no future with him and there ... (71 words)

Do you think my crude jokes ruined my chances during the first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy that I had been talking to for about a week. We spoke through text and calls, and finally met up for a first date last Saturday. He did not call me back after that date, so I have been analyzing everything I have said or done to make him possibly not want to call ... (306 words)

How do I tell him it's more than friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm head over heels in love with one of my friends. It all started a little over a year ago at a mutual friends birthday party. We were both drunk and ended up making out. Ever since that night it kind of just became a thing. When we were both out together drunk we would ... (324 words)

Does my friend really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry it's a long post, but I am really confused and need some help. A friend of mine told me last year that he loved me. I told him clearly that I felt only friendship about him. We went out later, got a bit drunk and we kissed each other. Life got totally complicated afte... (587 words)

I'm missing having close friends and a best friend! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am trying to figure out what to do because I have MANY acquaintances, but no close friends. Granted, my life is not bad. I have a really great boyfriend, we go to a lot of parties and outings with other people, and I do hang out with people quite a bit. Howe... (343 words)

I think my so called boyfriend spent valentines with someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I was supposed to see him on the Saturday but I never heard from him and I text him in the afternoon to check whether it was still on,he didn't reply so I tried calling a couple hours later but he'd switched his phone off.he phoned back at about 10 and said he'd see me ... (204 words)

Should I tell my ex (now friend) how his past behavior affected me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

15 February 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunties and Uncles I reacquainted with an ex boyfriend last year and its been great reestablishing our friendship again. I dont ever want to lose it again. We had been intimate but I am going to make it clear the next time i see him that I do not want to be a friend w... (312 words)