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writes:So there's this guy who I think I'm in love with, but he barely knows I exist. I see he staring at me all the time, but I don't know what to do. I want to talk to him, but he's too cool to ever talk to me. I messaged him, but all he did was read the message without responding. What should I do?! Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 March 2014):
 Ouch. Maybe the best is to just leave him alone.
I was going to answer differently, I was going to say : Nonsense ! Just muster some guts and go over to him and say Hi I am Jane, - what does it mean " too cool ", NOBODY is so cool that you can't even talk to them, " a cat can look at a king " etc.
Then , in your last sentence, I see that you have already attempted your approach, and he has ignored it and not even deigned you of a perfunctory Thanks bye bye ( what did you write to him, btw ? Just curious ).
That would signal that for reason of his he does not desire to get acquainted with you . And there is a fine line between being persistent and being inappropriate / stalkerish, I am afraid that his silence shows where that line ls.
His loss :). He is so cool... that he is frosty, - you don't need that.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 March 2014):
 1. you are NOT in love with him. Having a crush or being infatuated maybe, but that isn't LOVE.
2. (no idea of the content so that can make it harder to guess why he hasn't replied BUT in general) If you sent him a message and he has read it but CHOSEN not to reply, then he ISN'T INTERESTED.
3. If he STARE at you all the time, then he knows you exist.
I'd let this one "go" and move on to a guy who is actually interested in YOU.
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