New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I don't know how to end this relationship. What can I do? Feels like love mixed with hate

Tagged as: Breaking up, Crushes, Dating, Teenage, Troubled relationships, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (10 March 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2014)
A female United States age 22-25, *lexsaphire writes:

I'm currently 14 I've been in a relationship for several months now.

We fight a lot I've tried to end the relationship but every time I try he hurts me badly.

He would make me feel guilty about it and then he will try to make me laugh then ignore me for days.

The next time we would talk we'd end up fighting again.

I really love him but I'm so hurt by him. Please tell me what to do I want to end this relationship, but I don't know how.

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, alexsaphire United States +, writes (21 March 2014):

alexsaphire is verified as being by the original poster of the question

alexsaphire agony auntthanks for the help :) it helped alot

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2014):

Hey doll. 14 is too young to face a relationship like that and you sound pretty serious about this boy, I wouldn't set your heart on calling it love though.

The best way to go is just tell him that you think you'd work better as friends opposed to boyfriend girlfriend, you don't have to crush his heart, just be nice about it and let him down easy. If he gets funny with you and acts like he did the other times then just walk away from the situation, let him cool down and then discuss it when he's ready but don't feel bad for him. If all you're doing is arguing then there's no point and it will impact on your grades. Stick to your school work and let him work his own life out and then who knows, maybe you'll end up friends or dating again in the future.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I don't know how to end this relationship. What can I do? Feels like love mixed with hate"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0468772999993234!