I'm young and in love!
Q. Hi. Im turning 15 in august. And im falling reall hard for somone who is 19 . He is an amazing person. He knows just how to make me smile and he has his life in track. But, the only problem is the age gap. he doesnt beleive me that people do this ...
A. 27 June 2010: Firstly, there are these few words which I want you to repeat to yourself everytime you are troubled by this situation. Yes, they are "I am not alone". It may be hard to believe but when you really open your eyes, you'll realise the number of girls ... (read in full...)
If she is engaged, why did she initiate the date?
Q. hey there, yesterday i was busted more than ever... i had a date with the woman whom i have known for a month....we had a nice talk, i found that she almost makes up my dream girl,our interests almost match, i told her she is amazing and she also...
A. 20 April 2009: Hmm, I have to say, you're absolutely right about trying to accept the fact that she's engaged and stay away from her. I seriously haven't got a clue what she's trying to do or prove but I think the best solution is to talk to her about this and ask ... (read in full...)
She thinks that she's the tops of tops and I only a miserable being.
Q. Hello dear friends, This question I am asking is not really a love, dating or sex question but rather a matter that is troubling me a lot. I have a big sister and we were never in good terms. Today we share no relationship at all. She has always ...
A. 25 March 2009: Please do not think such. Have patience and toss aside stupid remarks such as you being deformed and what not. She has no right to call you that because you do not belong to her and to me, even parents have no right to that so yea, get what I ... (read in full...)
We broke up but he's a part of me and I can't get over him...
Q. I broke up with my bf 6 months ago and I didnt know it was gonna be this bad, I'm very depressed without him and i want him back, but i dont think he would want me back because hes been single for that past while and hes loving the single life hes ...
A. 17 October 2008: I understand how you feel. It's sad and the first love is always the one which hurts most. It's truly normal. After that, most people think the second love wouldn't reall hurt as much. Hang in there, sweetie. I assure you, after some waiting and ... (read in full...)
True Friends?
Q. I was just responding to a question about friendship and I couldn't help but think of my own friends and how I've grown apart from them but I'm glad of it. I haven't really talked to anyone about how or why it is so this is kinda pretty long ...
A. 8 October 2008: Nice article.... (read in full...)
I need help, I am obsessed. I want relief please.
Q. Hi, there. I love a girl so badly. I am obsessed. I cant think anyone else. I guess that I am so weird. She doesn't even love me but I am the one waiting for her for long. She acts wid me so normally,but i believe i can wait for her my whole life.i ...
A. 8 October 2008: A similar scenario with a guy from my class. But it's not as though I've never experienced this before. I liked this guy for 8 YEARS! It seemed like a never ending crush. There was a time when a lot of people were against me for god knows what ... (read in full...)
Is he..straight, bisexual or gay?
Q. My best friend and I live together. We love each other very much, to the point that we function as each other's significant other. Many of our friends (and enemies) think of us as a couple. This has only been going on for 6 months. We are also in a ...
A. 8 October 2008: no problem. I hope you guys keep being friends... (read in full...)
Is he..straight, bisexual or gay?
Q. My best friend and I live together. We love each other very much, to the point that we function as each other's significant other. Many of our friends (and enemies) think of us as a couple. This has only been going on for 6 months. We are also in a ...
A. 6 October 2008: Uh let's see... You're bi, no? Well from what you've written I gather you're a bi. So anyway, the point is that you love your friend and he loves you back and you have foreplay, just that he makes it seen he's bi. Why don't you ask him? He obviously ... (read in full...)
Am I just being pathetic? I think I should have moved on by now...
Q. hey, I was my girlfreind for about 5 months, shes my best freinds sister and we were in secret for literally the whole of the relationship. A lot of people had worked it out, and obviously we both told our close friends. The problem is my be...
A. 30 September 2008: Hm, if she's really blunt with everyone, chances are that her friends won't be much help at all. If you really love her, why don't you ask her what's wrong? Get a day for just talk and more talk. Who knows? You might get together. Hope this helps... (read in full...)
Whats going on? why is he acting this way? and what does my mate mean when he says he probably hasn't admitted it to himself? is this all because he likes me but is confused??
Q. hey ok could you explain this for me please. Basically theres a lad i like and in the past i thought he liked me because he was always staring at me, showing signs and people seemed to act like they knew that he liked me or knew something about us, ...
A. 30 September 2008: i think he likes you but he's too shy or maybe not ready to get a steady girlfriend. He may have had experiences in the past that made him scarred or could he could be just shy. ... (read in full...)
People are rude to me and I feel horrible about myself!
Q. so ever since 9th grade peolpe were rude to me in school.im shy,i had cricked teeth, ut than i got braces, ther off now! thank god!one day at a party i made out with this one guy cuz he was hot an he would always flirt with me and the next day at ...
A. 30 September 2008: He did that because he was mad at you for telling on him. Some people just don't know how to let go! So relax, if you really are pretty, go ahead, strike a pose! He doesn't have any right to get you tied to this mess and emotionally damage you. Look ... (read in full...)
Are my friends jealous of me or is it my imagination?
Q. I'm the thinnest one in my group of friends. I'll admit, I can be annoying but I know when to stop, my friends always say I'm annoying but we can still get along great when I'm controlling myself. I'm the only one that wear a bikini and my friends ...
A. 30 September 2008: I think they are just jealous. It may be that your friends are just "friends", if you get what I mean. Well do you have other friends? If you do, hang out with them. Show these fake friends that you aren't just a pitiful girl that needs to be taken ... (read in full...)
Likes me, likes me not?
Q. my childhood friend is also my crush and his friends tease me and says he likes me. Does he? Okay, i'll go into details. His friends always say he likes me, his sms replys are becoming more and more "instant" than usual, i caught him starring at me ...
A. 13 September 2008: i meant to say:interprete this signals. at the end. Anyway, since you are already reading this question, it would be great if you could answer this too. My ex best friend thinks he likes her and talks about him non stop and irritates him. I wanna ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or not or is this wishful thinking on my part? Please help.
Q. Hello Everyone! How are you all doing? I have a bit of a dilemma. It may seem a bit juvenile but I'm really frustrated and irked by it. Anyway I have a major crush on this boy. He's rather cute and we are both in the same grade (9th) and share a fe...
A. 1 September 2008: i'm in your same position. Hi-5. I have totally 0 advice but i just wanna assure you that there are other ppl experiencing it and you are not alone ... (read in full...)
Does feeling up your boobs cause them to grow?
Q. hiia, i recently herd off a friends mum that feeling and playing with your boobs stimulate the cell tissue and makes them grow, is this true? i was just wondering because she always says to my friends who have bf that there boobs have bin man hand...
A. 23 August 2008: my mum says that too... (read in full...)
Why does he lie about who sends him messges? What should I do?
Q. my boyfreind to whom i am pregnant lies to me, he always lies over who is texting him and who has sent him mail, it is sometimes girls who text or mail him and i do not have a prob with that but as he lies and i know he does it makes me wonder why? ...
A. 11 August 2008: maybe he is texting his friends and doesnt want you to know? There are millions of possibilities. Could you give us examples of the messages?... (read in full...)
How do I steal him away from her?
Q. I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend. How do I steal him away from her?...
A. 11 August 2008: okay now i get it. Ha, proclaimed expert, lol. You got a decision, 1. Get on with life to piss her off. 2. Get someone she likes. 3. Steal him anyway. Since i dont need to tell you for the first 2, i'll skip it and get to 3. Get him in private, tell ... (read in full...)
He wants me to get bigger boobs and blonde hair and tells me if I get fat, he will leave! What should I do?
Q. Hi my boyfriend of 5 yrs wants me to get plastic surgery for my breasts and wants me to bleach my hair. I was always happy with my breast but he says they should be bigger and higher...he also wants me to become a blonde.....which I dont think would ...
A. 10 August 2008: why doesnt he get a big fat barbie?... (read in full...)
Could those be signs of pregnancy?
Q. Okay heres my problem. The last time i had sex was around 3 weeks ago and i used a condom. After me and my babe did it I didnt check the condom so I don't know if it broke. So this past week i've been noticing that my breast have been tender and ...
A. 10 August 2008: hmm... You might be. Run to the nearest pharmacy and get a pregnancy kit. Or go to the clinic for a scan... (read in full...)
I just got played like a fiddle where my young daughter is concerned. Now what do I tell her?
Q. Ooops i just got played like a fiddle where my young daughter is concerned. Split from someone some time ago. My choice. We have just managed, months later to be ok with each other as mates. My daughter adored his daughter, but they havent seen each ...
A. 10 August 2008: i dont really have a clue what you are talking about but i think you should ask him for clarification and tell your daughter... (read in full...)
A golden shower? Is this normal?
Q. My partner wants me to urninate on him while we are having sex. He also wants me to urinate on him. What does this mean? Is this normal? I have never heard of this activity? sincerely...
A. 10 August 2008: bathe and disinfect yourselves!... (read in full...)
How do I steal him away from her?
Q. I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend. How do I steal him away from her?...
A. 10 August 2008: i got my bf stolen. I cried for months, thinking of killing that girl but i found out that his parents forced him to so it wasnt anyone's fault. But i refuse to get over it. Since that guy and the new girl had nothing in common, they split. How do ... (read in full...)
Does he like me too, since he blushes when I am near and laughes at my jokes?
Q. Dear Who ever answers this, I like this boy. I'm not going to say any names but I love him!! He's smart, intellegent, funny, athletic, and handsome!! He is in 3 of my classes but if you count gym, he is in there to. I to...
A. 10 August 2008: he likes you thats for sure. But i'm uncertain if its romantically or friendship wise so look out for flirting and blushing isn't good enough. I have a friend who can fake blush and he does that around girls to tease them.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a porn addiction. He does't seem to find me sexually attractive.
Q. I have a problem and I really don't even know what to think of it anymore. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He's kind, intelligent, gentle, loving, and generally amazing to me. The only problem is that he has a porn addiction. He's ...
A. 10 August 2008: good luck! I hope it all works out! Adios!... (read in full...)
A message to all people reading our answers:
Q. I try to answer as many questions from other teens as I can. However, the question I have seen the most since I joined a few weeks ago is “I am afraid of rejection. How do I ask him/her out?” Well unless I’m mistaken there is no magic way to ask ...
A. 10 August 2008: i totally agree with you. So if any readers see this, listen up. Our advice can only help so much but what can really do it is yourself.... (read in full...)
I feel crushed and hurt...my best friend told me she doesn't trust me!!
Q. Heyyyy So i have this girl problem... with my friend that is. we started being really close friends this year, sophomore year. we were always together and i considered her my best friend. i cared about her alot and i loved our friendship becau...
A. 10 August 2008: i had this same experience, but she didnt tell me. I had to find out from my good friend. I found out she hates me cos someone bad mouthed me so i'll it straight to the point, he she's a true friend she will run back to you but he she isn't look for ... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me more than just a friend?
Q. i've known this guy since kindergarten and we are the best of friends but i liked him since the day we met cos he's so sweet to me. He goes all out of his way to help me. All his friends tease me cos i like him and among his friends is my ex who ...
A. 10 August 2008: as in, "not bad, most girls dont admit they like someone, haha"... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me more than just a friend?
Q. i've known this guy since kindergarten and we are the best of friends but i liked him since the day we met cos he's so sweet to me. He goes all out of his way to help me. All his friends tease me cos i like him and among his friends is my ex who ...
A. 10 August 2008: thank you everyone! He is sort of my brother as in friend bro. But i dun mind whether brotherly or boyfriendly i just want to be his friend. And i have told him that i like him. His reply was that most girls dun tell boys... (read in full...)
Did I fall in love with a slut without knowing it?
Q. Alright, My girlfriend and I sort of met one night while we were both out drinking, we ended up having sex that night, either of us knew anything about each other really more than our names. Yes, a one night stand. We both were extremely dr...
A. 10 August 2008: she's probably curious about sex in her other relationships. Drop it... (read in full...)
I'm worried that having braces may have discolored my teeth!
Q. okay well i had braces for 18months now, and am getting them taken off next week. Im a bit woried tho that i might have lots of stains on my teeth from where the braces were/weren't. so i was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to whiten my ...
A. 9 August 2008: lucky you. I want braces. My sis has a couple of friends with braces. Unless you smoke there shouldn't be stains... (read in full...)
I have a white bump near the shaft of my penis ~ Is there a way I can remove it ?
Q. I'm 15 and have noticed for a while that there is a white bump near the shaft of my penis. I have read up on it a little and it isn't an STD, but is there a way i can remove it ?...
A. 9 August 2008: i agree, it's sensitive a hell lot. Go to the doctors chop chop!... (read in full...)
Muslim and unsatisfied with how I am and what I do lately... I am in complete fiasco!
Q. my problem is that i am big mouth,,i always say sth and i dont do it,,i am in relationship with someone ,,i dont know if i am in love with him or not,,i am still virgin but i hate that he kissed me or huged me,,i feel it is sin since i am ...
A. 9 August 2008: i'm muslim too. So i.ve never experienced this but my question is, have you been praying. Maybe go to a mosque and talk to the imam. He should be able to help you. Good luck... (read in full...)
I'm thinking about a baby. If I just stopped taking my pills without telling my boyfriend...?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years I am 22 and he's 21. We live together as well as his brother in a 2 bedroom apartment, but in about 2 months we will have an actual home. Their dad is buying it and we are renting it from him. my guy ...
A. 9 August 2008: you should explain the whole situation with him. I mean yea, he wants a child. But if he doesnt know when it might be a shock for him. Tell him nicely and ask if he wants the baby. If he's not ready, continue the pills till he gives you the green ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a porn addiction. He does't seem to find me sexually attractive.
Q. I have a problem and I really don't even know what to think of it anymore. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He's kind, intelligent, gentle, loving, and generally amazing to me. The only problem is that he has a porn addiction. He's ...
A. 9 August 2008: i'm not sure how to put it but i think your boyfriend should love you for you. Even if you are not attractive, he should still love you. Porn can never replace true love. Maybe he thinks sex with you is boring. Try spicing stuff up with candlelight ... (read in full...)
What signs should I look for that would tell me I'm pregnant?
Q. ok im 15 and i had un protectedsex about 4 times and i dont know if im pregant i wanna know how do u know if ur pregant when u have sex like every day what sign should i look for right now im so stupid i just need help and with my mom moving out of ...
A. 9 August 2008: you should get those pregnancy kits from the nearby pharmacy. The instructions are included. But tell tale signs are that your period is late and not there in that month. Your breast will enlarge with milk. ... (read in full...)
I feel my BF should be with a "normal" girl...
Q. hi, i feel really abnormal i have really small boobs and I'm 16 my boyfriend says he likes them but when i see other girls on tv and things i always feel like he should be with a normal girl, am i abnormal help me i hate looking at myself i have ...
A. 9 August 2008: you dont need big breast. The main point is to feed your children. It wasnt made for sex. So toss that worry into the trash... (read in full...)
What should I do?! Am I a lesbian or not?!
Q. hi i am 13 years old and i get really really horny alot and i think i mihgt like girls but i like guys to idk if its wrong?but i have a older sister who is 16 and ive seen her naked and shes hott! and i like girl a little but idk if i should tell ...
A. 9 August 2008: hey dont worry about it. I have a friend who says she's a bi but she's very straight. Sometimes your mind plays tricks with you. Even if you are a les and attracted to guys that makes you a bi which are a few ppl in my school... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has threatened to upload videos of me on porn sites if I ever leave him...Please help!!
Q. What do i do? My boyfriend has videos of me doing things, and he says if i leave him or don't take naughty pics for him - he's going to upload them to porn sites. If my family ever found out they'd be so mad :( I don't know what to do :( I'm onl...
A. 9 August 2008: i think you should tell your parents and contact the police. It is considered harassment.... (read in full...)
I get depressed about my "small" boobs...
Q. im 18 and just wondering if my boobs will grow anymore or if im gonna have to wait till i have kids or the next stage of my life? im a size. 12A sometimes 10A and i feel like i have the body of a 14 year old. i was a late developer didnt get my p...
A. 9 August 2008: trust me, big boobs suck too. I just passed 12 and i'm almost a c. I'm not fat. That is what scares me. Its painful to swim too. Be happy with what you have. Try fattening up, it might work... (read in full...)
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