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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:HeyyyySo i have this girl problem...with my friend that is.we started being really close friends this year, sophomore year. we were always together and i considered her my best friend. i cared about her alot and i loved our friendship because we shared the same interests and such...when school ended though, she finally got up the nerve to text this guy she was liking for a while now, and of course, with her luck, he asked her out.since then she stopped texting me ( she used to text me everyday alot!) and when i would try to get in touch with her, she would respond with short answers and slightly rude remarks like " at dance, cant talk " . i let that go...when i left for vacation for a month she didnt even say goodbye to me (A MONTH !), and thats when i started to worry,... i kept telling myself, she is just busy, with dance and her boyfriend you know blah blah blah...so i wrote her an email while on vacation asking her why she was acting so distant , and after like 2 weeks i get a reply COMPLETLEY not answering my question, and telling me all about her and her new boyfriend.I get back from my vacation (overseas , btw ) and i text her, you know, saying hey! whats up !? and when to hangout youknow.she says "im booked for the week, but could you stop by my house and drop off my sunglasses in the mailbox, even know im not going to be at home "at this point , im pissed and i text her " hey girl, if you have something to say, say it . "this last week ^^^yesterday i text her asking if everything is all right, because at this point im scared im really losing her and i really dont want to :(she writes " hey, yeah everything is great for me... but as for our friendship its not going too good...im having a hard time being your friend because im not really sure who you are ...and i have a hard time trusing you... im sorry but that just the way i feel..."OMG!!!!I felt crushed and hurt and sad all at the same time and i had trouble sleeping,because all of a sudden my BEST FRIEND whose told me all her secrets and trusted me , now DOESNT TRUST ME ?!?!And i dont even know what i did wrong ...I asked her if it was something i did but she still hasnt answered...Please let me know what i should do, becuase i really dont wanna lose my "best friend " but im seriously clueless on what to do. Thanks.
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reader, yukiakashi  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 i had this same experience, but she didnt tell me. I had to find out from my good friend. I found out she hates me cos someone bad mouthed me so i'll it straight to the point, he she's a true friend she will run back to you but he she isn't look for mew friends, she isn't your god
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