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writes:Hi, there. I love a girl so badly. I am obsessed. I cant think anyone else. I guess that I am so weird. She doesn't even love me but I am the one waiting for her for long. She acts wid me so normally,but i believe i can wait for her my whole life.i love her for 2years now.she is my first love.what should i do?i cant take her off my mind. Pls help me,my life,study getting ruined.i rely love her,really. Tanx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): hey i know these feelings kill but just rememeber we're human beings we are so complex EVERYONE gets really bad obsession these feelings will go away as quickly as anything, also it's SO common to feel more strongly about someone than someone feels about you-my advice DO NOT try and push her out your mind it wont work it will make it worse never try and suppress your feelings believe me. you need to really try and put things into perspective think of things that you are looking forward to that dont make you worry that relax and make you happy. and as for her you obviously have a big heart just pluck up your courage, talk to her smile a lot at her make lots of eye-contact, RELAX and just dont let your anxiety get the better of you every regret ive ever had is because of my anxiety. please remember that the worst scenario is she wont be interested in you and if you feel and think in your heart that you love her you will find it in yourself to trust her and take a channce-that's what it's all about. go for it good luck!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, yukiakashi  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 A similar scenario with a guy from my class. But it's not as though I've never experienced this before. I liked this guy for 8 YEARS! It seemed like a never ending crush. There was a time when a lot of people were against me for god knows what reason and he let me talk to him and he was a great listener. It was bliss for me. But I stopped liking him about a few weeks ago. It was trivial but it totally cheesed me off. As soon as my friends helped me get out of the previous mess, he left me. In a sense he avoided me and kept scolding me for no reason. By accident, one of my friends punched me. When I was about to punch him back that guy scolded me as though I murdered his mother! Then I stopped liking him. My point is that if the girl is affecting your life, after sometime, you MAY not feel sparks anymore. And if you are obsessed, there are some stuff you can do. Like, before going to school, jot down all your obsessions in a piece of paper and throw that paper away. It helps but I'm not sure why. You can try to clear your mind now and then. Good luck!
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reader, playergirl145  +, writes (8 October 2008):
that is so so sweet that you love her that much. i know how you feel. your first love is always like that. you need to the her how you feel. she will think that you are amasing. ask her out, talk to her, be her friend, do something. i know something good will happen out of it. :)
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