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anonymous
writes: What do i do? My boyfriend has videos of me doing things, and he says if i leave him or don't take naughty pics for him - he's going to upload them to porn sites. If my family ever found out they'd be so mad :( I don't know what to do :( I'm only 16 :( Please help!
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reader, cashello  +, writes (12 August 2010):
tell him its illegal to upload porn of anyone under 18 so he will be in serious trouble,
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): send a virus to him. :) that'll get rid of them.
and seriously. get your mum. i know its really embarrassing but its happened to all of us and she'll understand.
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reader, Wegro101  +, writes (13 August 2008):
i think its a crime to have "videos" on sites with people under age 18. so he can be sued i think
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reader, CupidsSidekick +, writes (10 August 2008):
 i would suggest going to your mother as its the best thing to do, 2 heads are better than 1 and you`ll have more support. i also suggest going to the police as this form of blackmail is surely not legal as your 16.
good luck x
Cupids Sidekick ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): Let him post the pitcures and videos... he'll be the one getting ass-raped in prison for taking pornographic pictures and vidoes of an underage girl.
How can you take his threat seriously... he might as well blow his own head off if he's gonna post child porn about.
Remind him of that and tell him if those pictures and videos are not handed over to you, and ALL copies he may have made, then you will ensure that the Authorities know thst he committed at least statuatory rape.
The boy has no power here.
Destroy his life and let him pick the pieces up and reform them into something even slightly human.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): I also support the having him beaten option.
DO NOT allow him to take anymore photos of you. Realise you are being severely manipulated and this guy is the one with the problem, not you (because he will probably pull out the "no one else is gonna want you but me" thing outta the bag too).
Is there any way you can get your hands on his phone or laptop or wherever they are and get rid of them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): I suggest you DO NOT give him any more nude pictures or videos;
I think you should try and scare him off; tell him you have told your parents and that they are going to go to the Police if he should try and use the photos on the internet.
Stop having contact with him ; find somebody who will respect you; this guy is trying to manipulate you and are using you;
Take good care of yourself;
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): Don't make any more videos and take this as a lesson, never make any porn videos unless you keep the tapes yourself, you never know down the line if you and your partner split. Now, what I would personally do is wait till he comes back to see you and get hold of those tapes, and destroy them. If he wants more, just say no and threaten to tell the police if he says he's going to blackmail you to send pictures
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reader, yukiakashi  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 i think you should tell your parents and contact the police. It is considered harassment.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 This boy sounds like pond scum. I support the having him severely beaten option ...
I'd take a bet that he doesn't back up his hard drive. Does he have a laptop or a desktop? If a laptop then if you ever visit him then take it and have someone format the whole thing.
OR, say that you are missing him so much that you need to have some pictures or video of him ... you never know he might be dumb enough or egotistical enough to fall for that.
Finally, there is SO MUCH porn of every kind on the internet that however cute you may be I very much doubt that anyone is going to be much interested in video of you masturbating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): I dont have abrother or a sister :( im 16 but i have very large breasts so i can pass as an older girl which is why im afriad these videos could get on site, plus i dont watch porn so i have o idea what sites he'd put them on. i just dont know what to do, if i giv e him the pictures he'll be happy for a few weks butthen it'll be back to this again :( and theres no one i can tell, because it could always get back to my parents :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): He also says he loves me and needs me that why he has to make me stay, i do love him too but i feel i dunno trapped but im scared of leaving because of his threats :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): They're just mastubation videos but im scared they could get back to my parents somehow, i only made them because his family moved away so we have been apart for many months and he said that they would be nice to have cause it was like being together, theres no way i can delete them beause he's still far away :(
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reader, justaguy999 +, writes (9 August 2008):
 Your boyfriend is obviously sick and using you for his own desires. My first question would be how naughty are the videos? If he is threatening to upload them to porn sites, unless your parents look at porn themselves it is unlikely they will find out. However, that isn't the point. Is there anyway you can get hold of the videos and pictures? If you can get them out of his hands, then get out of there as fast as you can you should be alright. I would strongly recommend leaving him as soon as possible as he is obviously a rotten little b*****d.
Whatever you do, don't let him take more pictures. The more he has, the more power he feels he has over you and the worse the situation will get. I really hope this works out for you. If you need anymore help, just reply back and i'll try my best.
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