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writes:so ever since 9th grade peolpe were rude to me in school.im shy,i had cricked teeth, ut than i got braces, ther off now! thank god!one day at a party i made out with this one guy cuz he was hot an he would always flirt with me and the next day at school he was slappin my ass so i told my sis and she told his sister cuz shes friends with her. so than his mom found out. he got grounded an told me he would never speak to me. so from that day on he would make fun of me all throgh 10th grade.he called me a monster,It,ogre, an ugly.so im 18 now an to this day i see myself as that.like he made me believe that...like peolpe tell me im pretty but in my head i feel like there just makin fun of me.i dont know wat to do i always feel so horrible about myself
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to everyone who gave me feedback! my two friends dont ever give me advice, an there not comforting at all. sometimes i feel like ther happy when ppl put me down. cuz when i come to me ther just like "o really, omg that sucks". so thanks again!
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (30 September 2008):
 You have got to grow that self esteem young lady! It doesn't depend on what other people think, but how you feel about you. I was teased loads in school and had some bad times in University with immature idiots but honestly, there will be people waiting to knock you down whatever you do and wherever you go. The secret is to like yourself enough not to care what they think and focus your attentions on those people who like you just as you are. Since this guy kissed you and then called you names...what does that say about his judgement exactly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): Don't take any notice of this idiot. He is angry and is too immature to deal with it, so calls you names instead. When I was about 18/19, someone came up to me in a crowded pub and just told me I was ugly and it did really hurt at the time. 13 years later, I look back and laugh about it, as I'm not ugly at all and I'm a nice person - he certainly wasn't the best looking person in the world and a nasty person to boot! So, don't let it get to you - try and just let it go over the top of your head. You're not any of the things he's saying you are, or he wouldn't have liked you to begin with. xx
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reader, epifanatical  +, writes (30 September 2008):
 what an asswipe supreme he is! pathetic and very weak !!get this guys words outta your head immediately!! You see sweetee, ppl can only get to us if we allow them to and if we listen. You should have turned away and walked away when this was happening. You are beautiful and I dont even know you. We all have beauty inside us. Listen to your closer friends, they know the truth. You have youth, intelligence and beauty on your side so get out there tigeress and go get em!! cheers !!
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reader, Mike Wilson7 +, writes (30 September 2008):
Dont listen to others its only your opinion that matters and besides if he thought you were that bad looking in the first place he would have never made out with you
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reader, Mushgirl +, writes (30 September 2008):
 He sounds like a right gobshite, and anyone who's horrible enough to treat someone how he treated you isn't worth listening to.
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reader, yukiakashi  +, writes (30 September 2008):
 He did that because he was mad at you for telling on him. Some people just don't know how to let go! So relax, if you really are pretty, go ahead, strike a pose! He doesn't have any right to get you tied to this mess and emotionally damage you. Look in the mirror and clear your thoughts and ask yourself if YOU really think you are pretty. You can't be that bad if he wanted to make out with you in the first place. By saying you are ugly and are an ogre, he's just suggesting how horrible taste he has! In the morning when you wake up, stare in the mirror and say "You are pretty" to the wonderful girl you see. So don't be bothered about him. It's may have took you long to get over but heck with what others thing. You can't be loved if you don't love yourself. Good luck!
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