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writes:Ooops i just got played like a fiddle where my young daughter is concerned. Split from someone some time ago. My choice. We have just managed, months later to be ok with each other as mates. My daughter adored his daughter, but they havent seen each other for a couple of months. All the while we were on civilised terms, he was all for them seeing each other again. Tomorrow was suppose to be the day they saw each other again for the first time in 2 months and my daughter has been excited about it. I guess he never actually let his daughter (whos the same age) know, because as he was getting in a cab with a playa 10 yrs younger than him tonight, after getting a cab home and pretending to go to bed, but actually coming back half hour later to pick her up. I saw out my window. I txt him and said does this mean my daughter wont see yours again? His reply was of course. I thought that meant of course they will. So i said thats ok then, i didnt want her used as a pawn in a game. And to have fun tonight! Got no delivery report. Then i realised this actually probably meant of course they wont. But when i txt again asking if thats what he meant, i didn't get a delivery report again, so he had switched his phone off by then.What do i tell my daughter?Do i go to his daughters house and speak to her mum or do i let this go and try and explain to my daughter that it wont be happening now? Reply to this Question
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reader, yukiakashi  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 i dont really have a clue what you are talking about but i think you should ask him for clarification and tell your daughter
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): Tell her that they felt like then was not the best time and that they will possibly meet again another time.Or something close to that if you don't feel that's the best thing to say.But don't make it sound too dramatic or likeit couldn't possibly be ture.I hope I helped and wish you the best.x
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