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writes:ok im 15 and i had un protectedsex about 4 times and i dont know if im pregant i wanna know how do u know if ur pregant when u have sex like every day what sign should i look for right now im so stupid i just need help and with my mom moving out of state with her ex who abused her and me living with my dad im going trough alot right now so some one tell me what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): I can understand your emotional turmoil; if you have already missed a period you should do a pregnancy test immediately; if negative do one again in ten days;
If positive, you should consult your doctor or family planning clinic;
I am adding this link; it explains all the pregnancy symptoms very well;
http://www.womens-health-questions.com/pregnancysymptoms.html
Even if you are not pregnant; You should have yourself tested for STD'S and AIDS;
I suggest you contact your family planning clinic or doctor to assist you with this;
I can understand that all this is creating extra stress on you BUT you have to take good care of your health;
You need to stay FOCUS on what is important for your health and do what is best for you and your health; DO NOT allow your emotions to get the better of you; no matter how difficult it might be always remember you deserve the best and you are not responsible for the problems in the lives of others BUT you are responsible for your own behaviour and actions; DO take good Care of yourself.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 You know what.? You would never really know without a pregnancy test. That is because most of the sex After effects feel like pregnancy. Like, breast gets sour in pregnancy but it might also be a reason of rough sex. You will feel a lot of fatigue if you are pregnant but fatigue could be because of having a lot of sex or due to the stress you're going through because of the FEAR of getting pregnant.. Urge to pee is another pregnancy sign but it can also be the sign of an STD.. Increase in weight relates to pregnancy but when we have sex, we eat more.. It might also be the reason of a big waist line..
Even the Most Accurate sign of missing a period can turn out to be fake as the FEAR AND STRESS OF GETTING PREGNANT CAN DELAY YOUR PERIOD..
In short, the only way to know is a pregnancy test.. Take care..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): Ermm if you keep throwing up, if your period doesn't come and later on you getting bigger...
As Country Woman has already said, you need to get yourself a pregnancy test or see a doctor to find out whether you are.
If you didn't want to get pregnant, why the hell didn't you use a condom!- no time for lectures, not part of your question. Just use them next time.
Have some self control!
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reader, yukiakashi  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 you should get those pregnancy kits from the nearby pharmacy. The instructions are included. But tell tale signs are that your period is late and not there in that month. Your breast will enlarge with milk.
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 Sweetheart you need to go and get yourself tested or buy a home kit test as they are normally pretty good at checking. What I don't understand is why did you have unprotected sex 4 times if you weren't trying to get pregnant as condoms don't cost that much these days.
I realise you are going through a lot with your family right now but you must get tested and you need to get to a clinic or something to know for sure.
How you missed any periods yet at all?
Changes in your breasts and how you feel in your self are signs together with perhaps a small discharge which can be clear like jelly with a maybe a thread of blood in it, this normally comes after about 6 weeks after getting pregnant though.
Without a test though it is really a guessing game. However if you are starting to feel sick in the mornings or can't face certain foods or drink then again this is where hormones are changing in the body.
If however it has only been a short time since having sex then it may be too early to tell. Could you not have taken the morning after pill or anything?
I think if you are not pregnant then you need to get to your doctor and talk about going on to the pill but also get your bf or any other guy to wear a condom as well as being on the pill alone will not protect you from any sexually transmitted diseases so make sure you are in control when having sex as it is so risky sweetheart. You need to take care of you and that is the most important thing to remember.
If you are pregnant then you need to talk to both your mum and dad if you can as you will need all the support you can get, again if this is the case then you need to know in your own mind what you are going to do but without knowing for sure you are just putting yourself through a lot of stress without confirming it.
Get a test or get a blood or urine sample taken at your doctors or clinic to know one way or the other. Make sure that if you have close friends or other family members that you get support and comfort from them as well. Stop having sex until you know for sure and make sure you get protection from now on if the test is negative OK.
Here anytime as we all are OK.
BFN
Country Woman
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