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anonymous
writes:Hi!I've recently become very interested in girls. I'm going out a lot more now in the hope that something might happen, or I might meet someone. But i'm not sure where to go now. Is my urge for sex wrong? Looking on a possible opportunity in the future, i'm not sure if i'd be able to go ahead with it. I'm feeling like the odd one out, not bringing anyone back to my flat after a night out; am I being stupid? Also, i'm really not used to dating/socialising. Where do I begin? Should I just take things as they come? Or should I try a one night stand with someone to see if I like it?Thanks in advance.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Dearcupid, how can I get laid.
Wrong site, try adultfriendfinder.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Do what the first poster suggests and you will get slapped accross the face... within a minute or so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): If you are not used to socialising, to have a relationship may be too much right now. Get used to socialise, get better at making new friends and interacting with others firstly. Your urge for sex is not wrong, but better cross the brigde when you get there, as they say. Choose safely and I hope you can advance to sex with someone who you have been seeing for a while. I hope you are aware that random, casual sex entails a higher risk of catching an STD. You are not stupid, but this line of thinking makes me think you can easily give in to the advice of the more 'experienced' guys that you know, and they won't always give the best advice. You alone have to know what is in your best interest and make your decisions.
Joining clubs is a good way to meet new people, for example.
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reader, witch-fire +, writes (15 December 2009):
 There's nothing wrong with you. If you find a girl you're interested in, wait till she's alone then start chatting to her. If she's interested you'll find out within a minute or so.
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