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writes:So I'm very self consiious of my body (can't even spell it ) and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend. I must admit my vagina is what is the issue seeing as it looks like it could talk to you. Lol I hate it but I keep comeing so close to him but pull his hand away from there because I'm afraid he'll b disgusted n want to stop. Am I overreacting or should I b concerned bout this??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): u are def overreacting. of course when i was ur age i had the same fears and issues, but u shouldnt feel worried at all. first of all there is this website u should look at which will make u feel much better about ur body
http://www.the-clitoris.com/
its a very insightful and explanatory website that will help u understand ur body better. it also contains a gallery of pics of different womens vaginas. like some dude said, every vagina is different. some women have inner lips that stick out, other have larger than normal clitorises etc etc
dont feel ashamed of ur body. if u have ever seen porn the first thing u must know is that many porn stars have actually had surgery to make their vagina look a certain way, but thats because they do it for their field of work. i mean, the business is competitive and they undergo surgery to look more desirable and to get more work.
it doesn mean ur vagina is ugly or unnatural. and as for ur bf, well i think he wont care what ur vagina looks like. i mean hed prob be more interested in "playing" with u than in judging what it looks like. and if u are confident it will not matter how ugly or unnatractive u are. the key is to accept urself and to feel comfortable with who u are. if u are comfortable with ur body, ur physical flaws will not be a huge issue for the other person.
just please experiment sexually when u feel ready and comfortable with the guy. u shouldnt rush into anything and feel pressured to do anything u do not want to do just because ur guys wants to do it. maybe u should take more time in developing ur relationship and getting to know him more, that way ud feel way more comfortable in showing him ur body.
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reader, happy140 +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Ah a favorite topic-women will NEVER KNOW (unless they are bi) how different vaginias are-some are tight, some natureally loser than others (NOT IN A BAD WAY!!!), some are longer between the clitoris and vaginia, some have thick lips, some thin, some dark lips and some lite. Any man you doesn't see the beauty of the female pussy is stupid. They are truly a work of art the way they look and work. NEVER worry about what it looks like-to you it may be "ugly" (not a friggin chance) and yet it may be the prettist he has ever seen. A penis is the same way some find a foreskin discusting, yet to me that I don't understand, why a woman would say I know God put it there and it has a lot of nerve endings but cut it off without anatestia anyway--we all have preferences-instand of finding it's faults take a mirror and look and touch it and then see how beautifull it trully is!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): It's perfectly natural to feel the way you do. To some degree, everybody else feels the same way.
Being nervous this way could also mean something else - that you're not really ready to take that step.
Talk to your mom, and older sister, aunt or trusted friend about this. Hash it out with someone more experienced and make sure that you're ready.
There's no rush. You truly don't want to make a decision that you'll regret!
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reader, witch-fire  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 If he really likes you that won't bother him. You just have to keep in mind that he likes you and wants to sleep with you.
Vaginas aren't meant to look pretty. Think all of us would want things to be different up there lol.
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