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writes:i recently graduated from hs. there was this girl who ws infatuated with me since 8th grade except i didn`t know her as well. we had classes together she was shy. one day she told me her feelings but i didn`t respond it caught me off guard. i guess she thought i rejected her and she has low self esteem. then she randomly tried to ask me for my number but i wasn`t interested and lied. point is every since i graduated hs i keep having different dreams with her in it not in a sexual way she`s just there. it`s creepy but its the subconscious what else could this mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyep appreciate the interpertation ron. well hopefully i can have more entertaining dreams instead of this haunting chic. but thanks once again.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 I am inclined to think it is not guilt. For some reason your mind has selected her as a tool to try and represent something to you... That's just my two cents worth.
It is possible that something from your past, perhaps closely related to those days, is on your mind. Our dreams are rarely so clear as to offer a discernable message. We often walk away scratching our heads.
Last night I dreamt I was sleeping on a bed in my ex-boyfriend's front lawn and then I took my daughter to school (still in the dream). The night before, I dreamt about having the power to travel through time and space.
I would not worry too much about it.
Sorry I could not be more helpful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionheres a update to be more specific addressing the issue. in the dreams she is either giving advice or watching me from afar. in reality when i was in school she was just there in a semi-stalker/coincidental way. yep just trying to understand why she reoccurs majority of my dreams. thanks "lola" for allowling me to be more specific.
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reader, Lola1 +, writes (6 October 2009):
Its possible she is a symbol for something else. Your mind, trying to tell you something in your sleep, picks up the best symbol it can to represent the message.
We'd only be guessing, but our guesses may be more accurate if we knew how you feel about her (guilt, curiousity, creeped-out, etc.) and in what capacity she is "there". Is she just watching you? Is she engaged in other aspects of the dream somehow? Are there other circumstances going on? Are you back in the school you met her in?
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reader, witch-fire  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 maybe you're scared of her. sounds like this girl is a bit stalkerish. not my best advise. I just got this impression from your description.
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