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He's found out I like him and has gone strange around me... HELP!

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Question - (14 December 2009) 12 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *itch-fire writes:

Hi.

Just wondering what other people thought; am I wasting my time waiting for this guy to ask me out. We have been close friends since September and I always got the impression he liked me back so my feelings grewbut I kept them to myself until last halloween I blurted them drunkenly out to a different person.

We were all out the other night, and this other person tried to tell my secret to the guy I like. I havn't spoken to him since the incident. He came in late and I tried saying hi earlier today and I just got a blank stare back, although he did smile. I don't know if he's guessed he was my secret crush or what but it's weird and I don't know what to think.

Would something have happened by now if he liked me back? I still catch him watching me and we got on well saturday. please help!

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A female reader, witch-fire United Kingdom +, writes (18 December 2009):

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witch-fire agony auntI got a hug. First for evrything

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A male reader, LifeSaver94 United States +, writes (17 December 2009):

Cool good luck then. I'll check your results tomorrow I guess. Well off to study 5more finals study guides!!! Stupid school....

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A female reader, witch-fire United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2009):

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witch-fire agony auntThanks, I'll give those a try.

We're all going out tomorrow night, so you never know. I'll post a result on here tomorrow.

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A male reader, LifeSaver94 United States +, writes (17 December 2009):

Well since you are it gets a little harder to express because your close friends. But I guess laugh at everything he says that I'd appropiate Ike to laugh about. Because guys who are around the girl they like always looks to see if their laughing at what he said if it was funny. Like today for me. I was in class and purposley said something completly obvious with the wrong but funny answer and the girl I liked was laughing and smiling and that made me happy to see that. But yeah try that. Also the cold/borrow sweater thing can still work. You can also try sometihing new but still you and attractive like hairstyle,etc.... And see if he notices. That's all I got right now but I have to continue studying for finals cause I slacked off playing guitar and facebooking. Let me know if you have more quesions and if I think of anything else I'll post it.

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A female reader, witch-fire United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2009):

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witch-fire agony auntWe're already past that. Any ideas for close friends?

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A male reader, LifeSaver94 United States +, writes (16 December 2009):

I think a good way to hint him is when you see him in that halls walking to your next tine and no one has time to stop and talk just when you see him walking give him a warm smile and say hi as you walk pass. That always makes me feel happy and wonder if she likes me. And you said you talk to him or something or your a friend. I'd you are or aren't if wouldn't matter o much but pull a I'm cold and ask him without being to obvious if you could wear his jacket/sweater/hoodie. Nut make it more of a question on a innocent voice/way like I'm so cold! You think I could borrow your sweater/jacket,etc.... Til the end of the day? If he says yes well it's either he's being nice or he likes you. And if u don't hang around him alot this could be a good approach. Like at the end pf the day say thank you so much and he'll say no problem. And tell him well I wish I could stick around and talk but my ride is here and I have to go. Buy I'll talk to you tomorrow and if he responds in a way were he is sure then good find him in the morning before school ( the best time on the morning is when his friends aren't there so he can't use his friends to turn away from you) and chat. So I hope this helps. Let ms know if you need anything else cause I'll be bored as he'll tonight studying for finals.

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A female reader, witch-fire United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2009):

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witch-fire agony auntand how would i hint tohim that i like him?

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A male reader, LifeSaver94 United States +, writes (15 December 2009):

Yeah from my perspective he likes you. I act very similar to what you say he does. And yeah you don't have to wait forever. Just until you feel that there is no future relationship. But just dint sit there until he does. Try to hint him in somehow.

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A female reader, witch-fire United Kingdom +, writes (15 December 2009):

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witch-fire agony auntoh and i should note- he still doesn't have a clue about my feelings!

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A female reader, witch-fire United Kingdom +, writes (15 December 2009):

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witch-fire agony auntso you really think that I should wait for him?

and yeah, I really like him, we hang out all the time; and the silent treatment has now ended, but we are still just friends. I don't want to wait forever, but I'll wait a while for him.

and from what I've wrote you reckon he really likes me? and thats a guy's honest opinion?

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A male reader, LifeSaver94 United States +, writes (15 December 2009):

This is the peson from the first post I decoded to make a account just in case you had fitter questions about this. And I thought I would ask the public a few questions as well. And just in case you can't see the screen name it's LifeSaver94. I couldn't really think of much other than that. Haha. Wow. Once again Goodluck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009):

Well I'm a guy and I have to say since I'm a guy as well I could probably figure him out on what you tell in your question. For starters if this guy knows you like him from your secrets being revealed somehow and still talks to you and you said acts strangley around you he probly does like you. And if he smiles when he sees you around the halls and you can't stop and talk that's a good sign because I smile and say hi every time I see the girl I like. Then to wrap this up ou should wait for him to ask you. Because I know if a girl asked me out that would be awkward. The guy is suppose to ask you out. And if you ask him out and he happens to say yes your relationship won't last long. But it will most defenitley last longer if he asked you out. So if you really do care and like him you will wait or him. I've been waiting for the girl I like to break up with her boyfriend for almost 2years. Some times I regret it but I know it will be worth it at the end. Well I hope this info helps you out and I will probly never be able to respond because this isn't a real account it's just a answer page I went to too help you out. Good luck!

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