I've been with her for 6 years but how do you know if she's the one?
Q. HI Im wondering if i with the right person.Im with her a few years and we plan on getting married.Every day I have moments that i think she is not for me and other times im happy.I think im 65 to 70% happy with her.Is this enough to spend your life ...
A. 15 August 2012: no, she's not the one. if you're not 100% happy with her don't get married. shame you've wasted 6 years of her life pretending she is the one.... (read in full...)
Why does my 50 year old boyfriend sleep with his mother?
Q. Is it normal fort a 50 some year old guy to choose to sleep in the same bed with his Mom when there are other beds/sleeping arrangements available? My boyfriend makes a habit of doing this and I find it creepy....
A. 17 July 2012: that is weird, he's a grown man. you should ask him why he does that.... (read in full...)
I found his latest sext offensive!
Q. Hi, me and my LDR boyfriend have recently started sexting which I started (weve been together 7 months and started having sex after 4). I recently received a text saying how(this has been edited) he "can't wait to p***d a vi****** into you and hear ...
A. 8 July 2012: "sexting" is ment to be dirty! if you feel uncomfortable with it tell him, but i wouldn't read too much into it if i were you, those are just words, not actions.
take care!
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A guy told me the other day . If I really love him, I must reduce my weight ? Why would someone say like that ??
Q. A guy told me the other day . If i really love him, I must reduce my weight ? Why would someone say like that ??...
A. 13 June 2012: if he really loved you he wouldn't say that!... (read in full...)
Ladies: shaved or natural 'downstairs' on a guy?
Q. Ladies thoughts opinions needed: When you are about to have sex/or oral with a guy for the first time and see his thing, is hair down there a turn off? is shaved more a turn on? or trimmed? also what about hairy thighs? shaved? leave alone? I am...
A. 6 April 2012: trimmed is nice and neat, shaved looks just weird.... (read in full...)
I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?
Q. I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of ...
A. 29 March 2012: " She is miss half of her teeth, covered in scabs that she will not stop picking, rarely showers and is an alcoholic."
you say she's also dumb and narrow minded.
hahaha, even seeing you've kept her as booty call only i see you must have been wel... (read in full...)
Is my vagina supposed to look like this?
Q. Okay, This is more embarresing then anything and I amd soooo scared. See my friends are all doing stuff with there boyfriends and everything but I'm to scared because... I'm scared it looks diffrent.. I have wodered why mine have these skin flaps...
A. 27 March 2012: its normal for inner labia to be bigger than outer labia, some girls have it, some don't. when you're ready to get intimate with the right guy, believe me the last thing he will notice is the size of your labia :) ... (read in full...)
I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?
Q. I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of ...
A. 25 March 2012: instead of telling him how much of an arsehole he is just focus on the question he asked people.
tell her gently u wanted to have some fun and thought it was obvious for her as well, DON'T USE THE WORD REBOUND!
make sure she understood u... (read in full...)
Is there a good way to remove pubic hair?
Q. quick question, is there a best way to remove pubic hair? if i shave it i get wired spots there ...
A. 24 March 2012: i think waxing is one of the best and longest lasting, but it hurts a lot as your skin down there is really sensitive.
personally i would recommend laser removal which is much more expensive than wax, but totally wort it - u need to repeat it at l... (read in full...)
Why wont the guy I'm dating add me to facebook?
Q. The guy im seeing wont add me on facebook. We've been dating 4 months and after our 3rd or 4th date I added him but he didnt accept. I got angry one night and took it up with him and he told me the reason he didnt accept is because it still said he ...
A. 21 March 2012: why are you even bothered?
it's just a social network, who cares wether you're friends on Facebook or not, if you are together in real life.
if you really want him to add you again just ask him to do it :)... (read in full...)
Can you strictly take care of physical needs and not harm the friendship?
Q. hey,, i have a friend,, but she's just a friend , we are both singles, and we do not love /crush each other. is it right for us to have sex, just for our physical needs, will it hamper our relationship, if we dont get mentally involved. plzzzz rply...
A. 21 March 2012: don't go for it, both of you will get harmed somehow.... (read in full...)
Sex hurts..
Q. I lost my virginity about a month ago. since then, i've had sex about 4 times. the problem is that i have pain during penetration. he can get it all the way in but he is not able to thrust because it hurts me. will this go away or is there something ...
A. 21 March 2012: this will go away when you're relaxed and aroused. make sure you're comfortable and make him concentrate on you more.... (read in full...)
He unfriended me, and I found him on another site and sent him a message
Q. I have fallen in love with a guy I met online. I have only spoken to him online. I really liked him and a few weeks ago I wrote to him on IM and he asked me would I write to him in a few days. He said if we kept writing to each other everyday...
A. 18 March 2012: hello,
sorry to tell you, but what you've written here sounds childish. as far as i can understand your feelings about that guy (although i think you only think and want to believe you love him, more than you actually do), i really don't know why ... (read in full...)
Is this masturbation pattern normal?
Q. Well, I'm 17 and i have a problem. I masturbate every night. I constantly think of my gf, especially of the days we have sex. I went on a college tour and i didn't masturbate. I went on a trip and i didn't do it. Only at night when im most ...
A. 18 March 2012: i wouldn't say it's a bad thing, after all you're only 17. the only thing i'd be bothered with is that if you masturbate so often you will get used to this kind of stimulation and may stop getting any pleasure from being intimate with your ... (read in full...)
What can I say to just make her stop?
Q. Hi all.. Last weekend my friend and I got into an argument. It wasn't the first one and I was overall fed up with her bullsh*t, so I told her I'm done with her and got an app on my phone to block her. Well, I can still see what she says as long...
A. 17 March 2012: adults do not end friendship the way u did. u say she was your friend so treat her this way, regardless on what she did she deserves a conversation and at least a few words to make sense of what happened.
at least text her back explaining how u fe... (read in full...)
My friends say I should DEMAND he remove the old pictures!
Q. Should I have a problem with this?: Basically, my boyfriend of 7 months has a few of photos of him and his ex on his myspace page that he hasnt used in about 3 years. The photos are just normal, friendly photos like if you didnt know she was his...
A. 17 March 2012: he hasn't been using that page since 3 years, i assume he broke up with his ex few years ago too? so where's the problem.
you are right, don't make this such an issue! and certainly do not listen to "everyone", this is your relationship.
take ... (read in full...)
How often do you see your boyfriend/girlfriend in the average week?
Q. Hi Dearcupid, I was wondering how often you see your boyfriend/girlfriend on average? My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost four months and we only see each other once a week, usually on Saturdays. Sometimes he will text me ...
A. 15 March 2012: i see my partner everyday, as we recently moved together.
before it happened we would see each other few times a week, and spend weekends together at his place, or mine.
before things got serious between us we used to go out every weekend.... (read in full...)
Ladies, is a 4.25" penis big or small?
Q. Ladies, do you consider a 4.25 inch erect penis to be big or small? Do you have experience with this size? If so how did you like it? ...
A. 15 March 2012: i think it is quite small but not the size of it is the most important thing. technique counts!!:)
oh, and well hung guys really suck in bed sometimes.... (read in full...)
Should I change my gender for the sake of love?
Q. The girl I love is bisexual and prefers girls. I am considering getting a sex change for her if it is what she would like. Should I do this? There's truly no one else in the world for me....
A. 4 March 2012: Hello!
My answer is NO, you shouldn't!
First of all your a minor and your parents would have to agree, secondly it's risky as every other surgical interference. Gender changing is not changing a haircut, u can't turn it back when you're bored or... (read in full...)
Do you shave your "part" before you have sex?
Q. I asked my friend if you should shave your "part" before you have sex and she didn't know. So Im asking this site,do men like it unsaved, or shaved? I got a boyfriend and I need some advice here before we get more intense....
A. 1 March 2012: i've got a laser treatment and only left a thin landing stripe, everything else is hair free.i really like it as i'm not a massive fan of pubes.
i had to repeat the lasers 5 times every 5 weeks each.
my partner likes it this way, or the stripe w... (read in full...)
Where do 30-somethings go on dates?
Q. Hello all.. I m back in the dating game at 32 and have met a new guy so far we have been out for a drink but i am rubbush at ideas at what things to do next.. cinema, meals ?? but then what? i want to have some fun and interesting ideas but i'm in ...
A. 29 February 2012: go for a nice meal, not too expensive tho - it's only your second date:)i'd go to some place with karaoke and try my luck with singing. who knows, you might share a passion for singing in public!:)... (read in full...)
Gift for partner's mom?
Q. hello aunts and uncles, my partners mother invited us for a birthday dinner at hers and i really don't know what gift would be appropriate for her.(we can't get something together as he has already given her a gift) please note she's in her lat...
A. 29 February 2012: thank you all!i decided to go with a tea cups set, which was really nice, unfortunately there was another person who came up with tea cups as well :)... (read in full...)
Could my baby look like my lover?
Q. If a woman is pregnant and sleeps with another man can the baby have features of the man who is not the father?...
A. 21 February 2012: hello, the child will inherit your and its dads features, that is how genetics work :)... (read in full...)
I absolutely adore this lady but she says she feels no sparks. What do I do?
Q. i've met this woman 8 months ago.we're both separated and get on brilliant.she has 4 wonderful kids and i have 1.at first we were friends and still are but i have strong feelings for her and she knows that.she even told me 3 weeks ago that she was ...
A. 12 February 2012: u know, if there's no sparks there's no relationship, u share something that's called friendship.
either there is chemistry or there isn't and u can do nothing about it i'm affraid.... (read in full...)
What are the best tips top get to sleep and sleep well without medication?
Q. I have never slept well, not for years . And I just accept that this is how I am , but can anyone give me any good tips on how to get some uninterrupted sleep? 4 to 5 hours seems to be my limit. I talked about it to my doctor but he seems to thi...
A. 11 February 2012: some tips that work in my case:
-try to go to bed relaxed, no stressful thoughts and so
-for me it is better to have lights off, if u prefer dimmed lights or bed side lamp leave it on, but i'd suggest going to sleep in the dark
-remember... (read in full...)
Do you think he likes me? By his body language?
Q. Hello! :). I know this may sound stupid but I am head over heels with this guy so I'm just asking. :) I'm a 15 year old girl in 9th grade. We just started new classes and in my 2nd block I have Spanish 1. Well, this boy sits in front of me on th...
A. 11 February 2012: hello, by his body language i can tell he liked you, try hanging out sometime and see where it goes for you:)... (read in full...)
Should I question my girlfriend about her past relationships prior to proposing?
Q. I am thinking I want to get engaged to my girlfriend. We have been living together for some years now and it just feels like it's time to make it official. I don't know very much about her romantic past. I know she had a boyfriend who che...
A. 11 February 2012: u might slip the question during one of your small talks if you really feel the urge to do so, but if she answers briefly, or doesn't answer at all let it go. she has a past and a right to keep it to herself, just respect it.
good luck.
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Why did he suddenly start ignoring me after a night of affection?
Q. I've really liked this boy at my school for nearly a year now, but we haven't spoken much. I became friends with him in september as he seems like such a lovely, funny guy. Last night i was at friends party/gathering and i spoke to him quite al...
A. 5 February 2012: boys this age are just being like that all the time, after what has happened the other night he is in sort of "bak off" stage, when he'll simply.....back off a bit.
right now i can't tell if he likes you back, you need to wait a while. let's see ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't tell everyone we are dating and has some flirtations with male friends.
Q. My girlfriend stays out regularly and sometimes comes back as late as 4am. Sometimes she goes to see a friend who has a flat a few miles away. I work full time so I generally feel tired as I don't sleep so well when I don't know where she is or ...
A. 5 February 2012: so she flirts with others?
maybe that's just the ways she is and it's absolutely harmless, nevertheless u either accept it or leave her, because she won't change. many men and women are like that, just flirty with others, which means anything, they... (read in full...)
How do I deal with being rejected by the woman I love?
Q. I've liked this girl for a long time, we dated a like a year ago in college, but it didn't work out cause of school. We've been friends since, I've tried to rekindle dating but she's either always seeing some jerk or she tells me she only sees me as ...
A. 5 February 2012: she does not want to be with you, face it.
all you need is time, believe me it WILL get better in a while.... (read in full...)
It's been 5 days.....should I text him or wait?
Q. i met a guy at a bar 5 days back.He came to talk to and gave me lots of compliments and we both had a good time talking, drinking etc.He said he was new in town and didn't have any friends and I offered to hangout.He took my number and then text me ...
A. 5 February 2012: nope, do not text him, it's his turn now!
men don't think like women do, believe me he does not intend to keep u waiting, he has simply forgotten to text you, if he keeps silent over the weekend just let it go.... (read in full...)
How do I respond to a secret admirer text?
Q. Hi, I just received this text: Hey :) How's it going? - your secret admirer xxx and am rather stumped on how to reply (or if I should at all). Does anyone have any ideas on how to respond to this situation? ...
A. 5 February 2012: call this number and ask who it is.... (read in full...)
I regret being so shallow about a guy's height
Q. I turned down an opportunity to be with a guy who was committed and a good person. The main reason I walked away because of his height. He is 5 ft. I am the same height and petite. All I can think about is the life we could have had together. Bu...
A. 5 February 2012: if he was really "the one" for you, his height wouldn't put you off.
there's not much you can do right now, just go on with your life and i'm sure there's a special person for you somewhere.... (read in full...)
A guy I recently met just told me he is being set up with the gorgeous daughter of a family friend
Q. Hey so I met someone recently, let's call him 'M'. Anyways we hit it off great, we oovoo every night and we text most the day. When we hang out, which has been once officially since we met about a week ago as he moved in with his dad (which i...
A. 5 February 2012: you don't have a very high oppinion of yourself , do you?
don't read too much into what he told you. even if his dad wants him to hook up with the girl next door, it doesn't mean he wants to do so. i assume he's about your age so he is an adul... (read in full...)
G/f dumped me after she lost weight saying we aren't equals!
Q. I really need help. my girlfriend of 4 years dumped me about a week back. this girl meant everything to me, I thought she was my soulmate. I've travelled around the country for this girl because of her job, disregarding my ambitions for hers. when ...
A. 28 January 2012: what a selfish person she is....
seeing what she did, i think she didn't care for you from the start. maybe when she was "bigger" she thought men don't see her as attractive and stayed with you because you were "safe", right now she feels bett... (read in full...)
Too much friction when I'm on top!
Q. When me and my boyfriend have sex we seem to have a friction problem he does not shave, but I do shave and any time I am on top he will eventually say ouch from feeling the friction. It usually happens even if I am cleanly shaven ,but defiantly when ...
A. 27 January 2012: stop shaving start waxing, the hair grows thinner and more delicate, or get a laser hair removal.... (read in full...)
Going to his house to do oral...does he like me?
Q. Hi um recently I've been talking with this guy and he is in my science class. I've known him for two years now and were friends. Not close but were friends. And recently we've gotten much closer than ever. It started over Christmas break. He texted ...
A. 23 January 2012: nope, but he likes your orals.... (read in full...)
Does he deserve a second chance after he lied about wearing a condom?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a couple of months. He's nice to me, although he has a bit of a problem telling the truth. He does not like wearing protection as he says he doesn't feel anything and the rubber irritates him. I finally agreed t...
A. 17 January 2012: you know, pregnancy is one thing and some kind of disease is another. you didn't say if he ever got tested and shown you the results.
if you had unprotected sex with a person you don't trust entirely get checked right away!
and no, you can't tr... (read in full...)
My older girlfriend wants to settle down but I don't feel that attracted to her anymore, what should I do?
Q. I have been dating this girl for almost a year and a half, she is 5 years older than me and maybe this September we will be going our own ways. She may be in other cities pursuing school. I have to option of completing my degree where she would ...
A. 16 January 2012: you can't wait until the results, you really should tell her now, that's only fair.
she will be hurt, and she will suffer, but if you care about her as you said you need to be honest.
explain her that you want different things in life, and you ... (read in full...)
Four year age difference. is it too much? Do I go with it? I think she loves me already
Q. Is there anything wrong dating a girl 4 years older than you are. I am 22 and and this girl is 26 and i believe she does love me because anytime we are together she likes touching me,she'll like to rub her hands around my body. At times she'll t...
A. 16 January 2012: the older you get, the less important the age different becomes, and less visible. she is just 26, you are both in your "mid twenties", i wouldn't be that bothered :)... (read in full...)
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