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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:i met a guy at a bar 5 days back.He came to talk to and gave me lots of compliments and we both had a good time talking, drinking etc.He said he was new in town and didn't have any friends and I offered to hangout.He took my number and then text me the same night ( we were not drunk)" it was really nice to meet you tonight, you seem really down to earth and i'd definitely like to try and hangout sometime soon, good night" I replied saying "it was so nice to meet you and definitely i'd like to hangout sometime".Now five days have passed and i have not heard from him.Should i text him or wait for him to text/call?
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reader, uroboros  +, writes (5 February 2012):
nope, do not text him, it's his turn now!
men don't think like women do, believe me he does not intend to keep u waiting, he has simply forgotten to text you, if he keeps silent over the weekend just let it go.
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reader, herself +, writes (3 February 2012):
forget him. he isn't going to call. he was a stranger anyway. and he was nice and polite about it. but promising to call and not doing it is pretty standard to avoid an awkward conversation.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (2 February 2012):
 Let me think today is Thursday, You met him Saturday. You offered a "Hangout". By definition hanging out requires no prior arrangements. You should hear from him Friday or Saturday. He is thinking weekday stuff now. Tomorrow afternoon his attention will shift to Weekend stuff. Really us guys cant think of two things at once.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (2 February 2012):
 Five days is nothing to a guy. Believe me he isn't sitting at home thinking 'Ok Im gonna keep her hanging for a few more days' He may have forgotten altogether.
Give him a week, if he hasnt called, ditch his number so you can't obsess over the situation.
You could drop him a 'hi how are you' text' if he doesn't answer then at least you know he's not that into you.
Don't take it personally, because really you don't even know the guy. He may even have a girlfriend.
Don't sweat it, if you don't hear from him, forget it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2012): No harm in texting but if he doesn't answer, leave it at that. Try and keep things in perspective: he's just a guy you met in a bar, so why are you counting the days?
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