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Is this masturbation pattern normal?

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Question - (18 March 2012) 11 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, I'm 17 and i have a problem. I masturbate every night. I constantly think of my gf, especially of the days we have sex. I went on a college tour and i didn't masturbate. I went on a trip and i didn't do it. Only at night when im most relaxed. I feel like this is a bad thing. Is this normal / a good thing?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2012):

I think it is normal I Do the same thing.

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A male reader, unknown2u United States +, writes (18 March 2012):

Once a day is certainly less than I did it at that age. I did go on a school trip one time and only managed enough privacy to do it once in the two weeks.

Everyone is different, and your 'normal' may differ from someone else's. As long as it's not interfering with anything you're fine.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (18 March 2012):

person12345 agony auntNormal. Most guys I know say they don't masturbate on school trips. It would be more of a problem if you masturbated every day and then when the school trip came, you struggled not to masturbate.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (18 March 2012):

Danielepew agony auntI have the feeling that you are a perfectly well-fuctioning seventeen year old.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (18 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntsounds perfectly normal to me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2012):

Yes this is normal and not bad at all so don't feel like it is. Masturbation for guys can help them learn control on when or how soon they cum. I'd say it's only a bad thing if you masturbate to where you give your penis a friction burn.

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A female reader, uroboros United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2012):

i wouldn't say it's a bad thing, after all you're only 17. the only thing i'd be bothered with is that if you masturbate so often you will get used to this kind of stimulation and may stop getting any pleasure from being intimate with your girlfriend.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2012):

Miamine agony auntDaily masturbation at 17... all sounds normal.. However, I would prefer for you to cut it down, you should be able to survive a day without sex. Try for every other day instead, and just allow your self to feel frustrated on the no-sex days. Frustration is uncomfortable, but you can do it and it will help you learn lessons about sex and self control.

If you can't do it every other day, then try to keep at least 2 days sex-free in the week. But daily (or more frequent) masturbation is normal in my part of the world for teens. Because you see it as a problem, I am recommending a solution which I think will be useful to you and which will fit into what your society probably calls normal.

Don't worry and obsess about sex, or that will be a bigger problem than you masturbatory habits. If during the sex-free days you find yourself obsessed, I suggest you pick up some type of sport which will leave you too tired to think about sex at all.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (18 March 2012):

DoubleM agony auntSounds a bit frequent, but at your age, probably not especially abnormal. Cut back on the pornography, if you use that. You would probably cut it down to two-three times a week.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2012):

Don't worry it is very normal at your age and yes normal also to imagine your gf or any hot female when you are doing it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2012):

perfectly normal especialy at your age

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