Does my bf want sex with my sister after our threesome??
Q. I gave my bf a threesome and a bj with my sister and both times he touched her first (guess he thought I didn't notice,but says he didn't) now its like when she comes over he looks in her direction frequently and when he talks to me he will turn to ...
A. 23 March 2008: I don't really know why you chose your sister do do it with. You knew she would come around.
Your bf very possibly might look at he because he liked what he saw. Ii think it was a mistake to do it with her and than have her come around the hous... (read in full...)
Do men ever go for a girl with personality over looks??
Q. I'm not ugly, i have been told i am pretty and i have a unique personality but my problem is there is always someone who is hotter!!!! I know men should really go for personalities but ,most of the ones in thier 20s go for pure hotness and i dont s...
A. 23 March 2008: Well...i am 22 and always hear about how hot,classy,sexy i look.... Most hot girls (not me :) ) are too stuck up and think the sun sits on their a$$.I heard that from so many guys and guys don't like that. As far as your question, yes guys can go ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has discovered internet porn, and now he's very distant with me
Q. have a bit of a problem. i started teaching my boyfirend of one year computers 4 weeks ago. he started going on the net and ever since he has changed. i know that he is looking up sexy videos and it is really meaking me paranoid. he has become very ...
A. 23 March 2008: If anyone here, i have gone through so much problems with my ex because of his porn viewing and things of that nature. I can tell you that unless he understands that is is seriously hurting you and your relationship AND unless he cares, he is not ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 22 March 2008: Hello everybody- i was the one that originaly posted this question. It has been a long time since i logged on to this site and i see many answers were added.
To young lady that wrote on March 18- I really appreciate you writing your story. I... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 22 March 2008: Hello everybody- i was the one that originaly posted this question. It has been a long time since i logged on to this site and i see many answers were added.
To young lady that wrote on March 18- I really appreciate you writing your story. I... (read in full...)
She moved to another country for me, but now it's not working out so well
Q. My girlfriend and I started dating at 21, and moved in together a year later. We lived toghether during out last year at University. We're now 25 and have been going out for four years. For the first 3 years we were very close. Nothing could come ...
A. 20 August 2007: If you realize all those good qualities about her than why are you thinking of letting her go? Your job is not the most important thing my man. I know many guys that left their girls, wifes because of job or career and many hwo came back crying ... (read in full...)
Should i be worried about his friendship with his ex?
Q. I'm finding it hard to deal with my fiances relationship with his ex girlfriend. Their breakup was amicable and they are still friends, she lives in another country and doesn't come over here very often. I feel really insecure because she was the ...
A. 20 August 2007: personally, it would bother me too. I never had a bf that kept all that from his exes. My last bf had college graduation pics where his ex (love of his life) happened to be. They dated a the time. At first i asked him to delite pics she was in but ... (read in full...)
He knows that I hate porn... so when he came home with two videos on his mobile phone I hit the roof!
Q. Hi..... I have a little prblem.. It may seem silly to most but to me its a big deal.. I hate porn or any form relating to porn weather its a girl stripping or full sex I just hate it. My views on this is if a guy or a lassie has pron in thei...
A. 8 August 2007: Wow, you know my man used to say that but he was lil betther than that. I had a problem even if he would watch it once in a while (even if every guy does) so he told me its reality, part of being a man... However, even somone with his opinion who ... (read in full...)
I'm furious about pornography!
Q. The statement that some women make that they have no problem with their man watching porn as they know he CHOOSES to be with them seems ridiculus to me...Dont these women realise that their man probbly has as much chance of being with a porn star as ...
A. 8 August 2007: I hate the fact that my bf watches porn but they all do so i had to except the fact that once in a while he will do it. They all will. I would rather hear him tell me the truth than lie to me and say he doesn't when he actually does. I dont think ... (read in full...)
She's having second thoughts about our relationship and now we're taking a break - it's driving me nuts!
Q. OK my relationship with Jill started on the wrong footing - she still loved the man she was with but they drifted apart and we were all vulnerable (i was ill) when our relationship began, it was not a clean break from her ex but as it happene...
A. 8 August 2007: Personally, i have never beleived in getting back after month or two.... By than, i'd probably go nuts myself thinking whether we will or not. I think i would be better off thinking we wont get back and move on. Two months is a long time and you ... (read in full...)
I think my wife slept with her boss even though she denies it. What do I do?
Q. i have a problem and I need help. My wife has a weakness for entertaining men. We have been together for two years and we keep on fighting. Lately I've heard that she slept with her boss and when I asked her she denied it. I love her very much. I ...
A. 8 August 2007: Hey,
Why do you keep fighting? Is it most of the time or just recently? If it is a lot- i can bet you that sooner than later your marriage will go down. No relationship with much figting ever worked.
As far as her cheating with her boss, how su... (read in full...)
My wife is accusing me of visiting a dirty website when I didn't!
Q. My wife found a dirty website on our computer and thinks it was me that looked on it but it wasn't. She is going mad at me and says its like cheating. Even if i did look at other girls in that way is it classed as cheating? Is my wife over reacting? ...
A. 8 August 2007: Hey,
I H-A-T-E the fact that my bf wtched porn. I was probably very similar to your wife if not worse. However, it took me and him time to realize that every once in a while he will do it. It is what most guys do. Now even if you did look at it and ... (read in full...)
We have sex 3 times a week... how many times is it therefore normal for him to please himself?
Q. Can someone please tell me what would be "reasonable" and "normal" number, for a guy in a relationship (have sex about 3 times weekly or even more when schedules are not so busy) to mastrubate? Lets say we have great sex three times a week. What ...
A. 7 August 2007: Alright, thank you for your help everybody. I do know that everyone is different! All i wanted is to see some average number (reasonable and normal) for a 27 yr old guy with "high sex drive" as he says who does have sex with me when schedules are ... (read in full...)
My bf found out, I thought he was cheating with his exgf! Now he wants to talk..is this relationship salvageable?
Q. I was convinced that my boyfrind had gone away for a few days with his ex. I snooped on him and all the evidence led me to same conclusion. He has made me feel very insecure about his long term ex eg. she doesn't know about me, he avoids places she ...
A. 6 August 2007: I think you should tell him the truth BUT also let him know that HE SHOULD NOT have her pics rotationg on his pc!!!! He is with you now, no way i would have my bf having slideshow of his ex! Thats insane! Tell him you were suspicious and are sorry ... (read in full...)
I don't know how I would be able to deal without my boyfriend!
Q. I am 22, and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. During these 5 years, he has always lied to be about his “addiction” to weed and chewing tobacco. Before we started dating, he knew that i would not date someone who smoked etc…Everytime i would ...
A. 6 August 2007: God, I had the same problem. I never dated anyone that smoked, especially weed. I hate the smell of it,the way it makes people look and act. I just HATE it! I met my bf and he knew my opinion on it. He said he used to do it once in a while and wasnt ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 6 August 2007: I tried to talk to him about it and all he says is that i am crazy and that any normal girl would be okay with it. He is completly ANTI- the idea of hearing anything opposite of what he thinks. We agreed to go to sex counseling but he now is ... (read in full...)
I'm seperated from my wife - should I stop the porn and masturbating?
Q. My second question of the day...I'm new here! For the past year, I have been seperated from my wife, and we are in the process of getting a divorce. Even before that started, I have had a habit of looking at porn--and masturbating to it--fr...
A. 6 August 2007: I think that you might have a problem. Why did you start it back when u two werent separated? Did you not have enough sex? I think that there is a problem with that. I never get why are guys into it so much...If you loved your wife and cared so ... (read in full...)
I'm missing a person to love! When will I stop worrying?
Q. I am 22 years old and have a steady job in the military, I am attractive and down to earth! I do amazing things in life and love everyone....but for some reason i am missing something! A person to love!!! Why is it so important to find that? When ...
A. 6 August 2007: We are girls and we do that.... You probably have friends that are married or are thinking about it and it makes you think abou it and want it even more. Maybe your craving to love and be loved because you know its beautiful thing and would make you ... (read in full...)
Married for a year, no longer in love with my life. In love with someone else!
Q. I've been married for a bit over a year and find myself no longer in love with my wife. I find myself in love with someone else who I know has feelings for me but because I'm married I haven't persued this individual as much as I would like. I went ...
A. 6 August 2007: Your decision would definately destroy her completely! Iif you care that "deeply" as you say, why are you thinking of leaving? I can assure you one thing: If you leave and one thing goes wrong with your "new" darling, you will find yourself wanting ... (read in full...)
I'm finding it hard to cope with being away.
Q. please help, i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 17 months, i love her so much, but i find it so hard to cope when i am not with her, she lives in the uk and i am in germany with the british army, i was beggining to deal with with it, however ...
A. 5 August 2007: You must really love her.... It is hard because your used to being with her, maybe talking more often...just having her there. It is natural- you miss her presence and simply her...With baby on the way, its even harder because you want to be there ... (read in full...)
I hate sex at the moment, whats wrong with me?
Q. I found out my boyfriend was chatting to some girls on AOL chat, what about or wether it got sexual,lets face it,i will never know. However he went on a couple of seedier sites ect and i had to have a look. And i feel like a weirdo. Not only has...
A. 5 August 2007: It would hurt me too... I know how you feel... I felt hurt and was dying, sad, angry when my bf was looking at porn.... I didn't feel like having sex, i didn't want it...I felt like if porn satisfies him than he wont have me.... He notices and ... (read in full...)
Please can you help me get some direction in my life
Q. I have been married for the past 18 years and love my family very much. Recently my wife moved out of the house because we were having some finanacial problems but I think that there's more to that. I have been trying very hard to bring my family ...
A. 31 July 2007: Yeah, more information needed....What was your relationship like before financial situation?Has she ever done anything suspicios? What else does she say when you tlak to her about it? Little more info... (read in full...)
Is this normal that my boyfriend should be as close to his ex???
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He has a few friends that are females. One is an ex girlfriend. When they get together it's to help her around her house. Mowing lawn, cleaning patio etc. she then makes him dinner as a thank you ...
A. 31 July 2007: In my opinion it is not. I would never be involved with a guy that is that much involved with his ex....Looks like your boy still might have little something for that girl! Seriously, it is little over the top. I have a problem if there is any cont... (read in full...)
Is it healthy for us to go out seperately?
Q. my fiance says it is healthy for the both of us to go out alone with our friends.Is that true or not?...
A. 30 July 2007: Ocassionaly it is, but i am not sure how often he think is okay/healthy....My bf and i have always gone together...me and him, or us with my friends, or us with his friends. He knew i didnt like him going alone so we mostly went together. However, ... (read in full...)
My mum will give me a hard time.
Q. Ok i left my husband over a year ago after a bad marriage, i then dated a few men who ended up being complete liers anyway!! i met this man a month a go he's lovely i love him very much and he loves me but now he has asked me to move in with him, i ...
A. 30 July 2007: Honestly, i think that it is way way way too early to move in with someone after a month...To truly get to know someone you need much longer than that! I dont think it is a good idea, and i can see where your mom is coming from...I would suggest, ... (read in full...)
I need to know how to stand up, wipe the tears and put a smile on my face.
Q. I need some help. How does one stand up and wipe their tears off and put on a happy face in the time they need do regardless if they feel broken down?...
A. 30 July 2007: You know, i just did that. It felt like the hardest thing i ever had to do. I felt like falling apart and i still do! I had to leave my bf of over two years few days ago. All i do is think of him and every thought of him makes me cry. My days seem ... (read in full...)
Why did he get married if he wanted to chat to other women?
Q. I discovered pornographic stories, written by my husband for other men and women, on his pc. He had asked for photographs of their wives (or them if they were female). This was the third time I had cause to wonder what he was doing on the pc. The ...
A. 30 July 2007: That is not okay at all... I would be out of the door already, i am surprise you have stayed and put up with that. It is form of cheating my dear. He really needs to stop that and i mean STOP. Not lie or find another pc to do it from. It is hard ... (read in full...)
Do you think that I can trust my wife with this man in our life?
Q. In May 2006 my wife of eight years began having an affair with a coworker. I confronted her a few weeks later and she said that their secret relationship was over. Throughout the rest of the year I correctly suspected that their affair was ...
A. 30 July 2007: Honestly, i dont think i could forgive or trust someone who cheated on me again. I dont know how you do that! Ask yourself, do you want to live your life worrying if she will cheat on you again or do you want to find someone perfect who will lov... (read in full...)
I'm his wife, yet he loves his first fiancee more.
Q. my husband and i have been married almost 2 years, together for 4 1/2. about a month ago he announced he wanted a divorce. apparently he found the "love of his life" a woman that had been his first fiance, 27 years ago. i was unaware that we were ...
A. 29 July 2007: Hello, that must be so hard on you. One of the worst things in life is to love and give your all and not receive the same in return. I was in that situation before and will never forget it. If you want to move on, for your best- you have to leave. ... (read in full...)
He's spending up to an hour, sometimes 3 times a day, looking at porn... !
Q. ok, porn and sex question folks. my husband of 9 months and i generally have a decent sex life. we're pretty experimental and i'm the vocal, very enthusiastic type who actually REALLY likes having "porn" type sex. i'm fairly kinky, and he DOES ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hey... well well i had a similar problem and honestly understand how hurt you might be. You have to have serious talk to him. I guess i would understand if you two were doing the long distance relationship and he did it once a day but your married! ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to have asked for the expensive ring back?
Q. I just bought a $3K ring for my girlfriend and then she announces she is moving out after 10 months. I asked for the ring back and that offended her? Am I wrong to have asked?...
A. 13 July 2007: I dont agree that it was okay to ask for it back. You bought it and gave it to her MEANING it was no longer yours. Dont buy things to people if for some reason you will ask to get it back. Personally, i hate that. If i buy something for someone-its ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a period to be late after starting on the pill?
Q. i started the pill at the beginning of this week as this was the week my doctor highlighted in my planner. i was due to get my period about the 10th/11th of this week and now its like 2-3 days later and there is no sign of it at all. is this normal ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hey, i started a pill few days ago myself. My doctor told me that the pill will most likely change my period and the time it comes. So, probably thats whats happening with you. However, just to be sure you can take a pregnancy test so you can get it ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that he's cut down on his text/calls?
Q. Hi, I've asked questions before, but I'm still confused. I've been with a guy for 6 months. Due to circumstances in his life, he said he can't give me the time I deserve. He said that his feelings for me haven't changed. He needs some time to sor...
A. 13 July 2007: Well, sometimes there is a lot going on and just because he texts and calls less doesnt mean his feelisngs change. Maybe he is just more busy or he needs to get his stuff/life organized. My boyfriend and I used to call every 2 hours and texted in ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to make our relationship public. Is this normal?
Q. Hello, I have recently started dating a guy whom I have met a year ago. We share the same friendship circle. He doesn't want to make our relationship public. Is this normal? And why should he want to do this?...
A. 13 July 2007: To me, it is not normal. If you are in a relationship and share same friends, i dont know why he wouldnt make it public. Is he afraid of somehing? Either way, you are not a thing he needs to hide. You are his girlfriend and he should want to show ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 13 July 2007: For the girl that wrote on July 13:
I think that there is something wrong with how your bf is acting. He should be all over you! Personally, i would be concerned if my bf watched gay porn. No offense, but i think there is something wrong with tha... (read in full...)
I'm doing all the work during sex! How can I make her feel more comfortable about doing more?
Q. me and my girlfriend have a great sex life but she expects me to do everything she even said she was nervous and i under stand that how can i get her to get in to doing something i want done to me, gently?...
A. 28 June 2007: Alright... Can you tell us more about your relationship such as how long have you guys been together? Is she shy by nature, is she comfortable with you from what you know?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 27 June 2007: Thanks everyone for helping and giving your opinions.... One more thing for the male reader (annonymous)- My bf would get mad disrespected if i look at guys and mastrubate- it would bother him bad.... But he doesnt understand why i get bothered.... ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 27 June 2007: I would like to thank this male reader... However, he misunderstood. I am very attracive (people tell me all the time)... and not jealous by other pretty women but the fact that he watches them - why cant he just mastrubate without watching them? i ... (read in full...)
Update: I want to go on holiday with my female friends and my gf doesn't like it.
Q. (@dearCupid: sorry if this question is the same, but something doesn't seem to work. I also could not make an update on my previous question. The computer didn't recognise me a the one who originally posted the question. So I do it this way.) Hi! ...
A. 27 June 2007: Alright.... NO WAY in a world i would be fine with my boyfriend going on a vacation with three/four females....NO WAY! First off:YOU, out of respect and to be nice shouldve invited her to go with you (even if she isnt the part of your group- she is ... (read in full...)
After illness, my looks deteriorated and he went on a date with another girl
Q. I have known my boyfriend for 4 yrs now through the internet. I was in a relationship when I get to know him and broke up with my ex few months after knowing him. The break up with my ex have nothing to do with my boyfriend. My boyfriend an...
A. 27 June 2007: Hello, this is very sad.... Your man shouldn't have gone on that date (and yes it is a date) -the only reasonable explanation is not because he was angry- but to get you back (if you did the same, which i am guessing you did not)... So that poor ... (read in full...)
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