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writes:Ok i left my husband over a year ago after a bad marriage, i then dated a few men who ended up being complete liers anyway!! i met this man a month a go he's lovely i love him very much and he loves me but now he has asked me to move in with him, i do want to but i know my mum will give me a hard time because i haven't been seeing him long, he has put his house up for sale so we can buy a house together what do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, Unique1  +, writes (30 July 2007):
Honestly, i think that it is way way way too early to move in with someone after a month...To truly get to know someone you need much longer than that! I dont think it is a good idea, and i can see where your mom is coming from...I would suggest, for your best is to hold off...You can stay with him for few days weekly and stuff like that but moving in with someone is a big step.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
Your mum only worries about you sweet because you have had a bad time in the past, she only wants the very best for you doesn't she????
Why don't you go round to your mums with your new fella and tell her that you love him very much and what your plans are, tell her you understand how she feels and you know that she will always be there for you but this is something you need to do life is too short....If you feel this will end up in a terrible row then ask your mum to go out for a meal with you both and try it that way its harder to row in a public place, just be honest with her I am sure she will come round when she realises this guy is so different to the rest,
Good luck babes,
Love Donna xx
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