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So yeah i'm only 16 and yeah i dont have very much experience but i'm only trying to give advice. Even if its not that good.
I think this is a good site because it's totally non judgemental and it's annonomus.
I like to help people with thier problems because it makes me feel good. I am very honest in my answers and i have firm beliefs.
Don't always listen to me though, sometimes you might think i talk a load of crap! But hey i'm new! I've never really done anything like this before.
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My boyfriend always wants to have sex, what should I do?
Q. What should i do?? My boyfriend always wants 2 have sex... And i dont wat should i do??...
A. 17 April 2008: Okay, tell your boyfriend you are not comfortable with him pressurising you to have sex. You need to be very assertive when you say this because it's likley he will just ignore you.
Good Luck! X
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I'm going out with my ex's friend, is this okay?
Q. I have a boyfriend of 5yrs. We have a crazy relationship. On then off, then on again. Just recently we had a problem where we stopped talkin to for a couple of days. I decided to accept an invitation to dinner with a male friend of mines. But now my ...
A. 17 April 2008: I don't think it's wrong for you to go to dinner with a friend. If you don't like him as anything more than a friend make sure he is aware of that. otherwise that would be a HUGE problem!
Then if you are still with your boyfriend explain to him t... (read in full...)
I would like to get to know him before I leave school, how to start the conversation? - I'm shy.
Q. Hi, I really like this boy in the year below me at school. Only im really really shy and not sure if he likes me back, im 18 and he is 17. He doesnt really know me right now, although he has acknowledged me at school a few times. Im leaving sch...
A. 17 April 2008: Well asking for a guys number can be a really hard thing to do when your really shy.
So heres my suggestion;
Find out what he is interested in, if you see him at break/lunch/class sit near him and cassualy bring up a conversation about his interest... (read in full...)
Should I tell her that I think her friend is gay, as I don't want her to get hurt?
Q. My friend likes this guy and I think he might be gay because of the signals he has been sending her, among other things that me and other people find obvious but she thinks he might like her, and she really likes him. They have things in common ...
A. 17 April 2008: Yes, i had a similar problem to your friends - i was attracted to a guy who was bi but veering more to gay. My friend just boldly put it that he was "DEFINATLEY GAY" I didn't get to bothered about it though.
I'd say asking the guy is definatl... (read in full...)
Am I wrong in how I am handling this?
Q. A few months ago I hired a new assistant that is a very young attractive single woman. I attend many trade shows to meet our customers and I think its a good idea for my assistant to come along too once a year as a learning opportunity. I brought ...
A. 16 April 2008: I think your wife is very insecure and needs your support. Not only was she angry and jealous she would also have been very hurt because she is not the young pretty woman who is getting all the attention. This is okay because everyone feels this ... (read in full...)
If we are to be friends, I must fall out of love with her NOW!
Q. How can I fall out of love with my ex. We've been apart for over a year now, and yet my heart still sinks anytime I so much as see a picture of her. She still wants for us to be friends, but even though we can only communicate through MSN, I still ...
A. 16 April 2008: Yeah, I don't think you can make yourself fall out of love,
You could tell her how you feel then asks how she feels about that;
I don't know if she'd think that would spoil your friendship or she'd be cool with it but it would atleast get it off y... (read in full...)
Freshman..Senior..Only sex..HELP!
Q. Alright. I like this guy he is a senior and i'm a freshman. He only wants me for sex. but see potential in our realationship. I don't want to tell him i love him because i'm scared that will frighten huiim away...what do i do to get him to like me ...
A. 14 April 2008: If he's only in it for sex forget him!!
Don't tell him you love him because he will use you just to get sex. Anyway love is such a strong word.
You cant make someone like you if they dont already. so just lay off him because you'll meet someone ... (read in full...)
How do I write a song?
Q. ok i have a question but it's not to do with relationships or love or sex etc. its to do with music. i play drums and really want to be able to learn how to write song lyrics has anyone got any knowledge or websites i can go to because i really want ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hiya.
I don't know any sites for writing lyrics or anything but i think when writing lyrics they should be meaningful. (well not always but the best are).
So yeah, you should just try writing stuff. I guess it's kinda like a talent because if y... (read in full...)
I've never went out with girls before, only boys. She plans to kiss me in public, I dislike the idea and don't know what to do!
Q. hey everyone I just got a girlfriend yesterday . It's kinda weird for me because she is the only girl I have ever liked and gone out with. I would be nervous even if I was going out with a guy but since she's a girl it makes it that much more n...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi there!
1. As everyone else has said, If you feel uncomfortable don't do it, tell her your really uncomfortable with kissing her because A) it's your first time and B) You her to publicly display you.
(I think she might be doing it to prove ... (read in full...)
He's self harming because of his girlfriend. What should I do?
Q. Well, I like my best friend but he has a girlfriend. I think he might like me but i'm not sure. He's self harming because of his girlfriend. What should i do? It's getting to me. ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi.
If your friends self harming and he's told you have a good long chat about it. Find out why. Its really important that you or someone listens to him.
(Why is he with his girlfriend if shes causeing him to self harm?? She is probably not... (read in full...)
Family and boyfriend problems are driving me to drink..how can I cope better?
Q. hey i dont know where to start with all this well my mum and younger brother are moving to spain next year theyve decided and my mum told me that i was to stay here and keep this house incase it all went worng . I know she doesnt love me and neve...
A. 14 April 2008: Hey im glad i could be of help!
What you could do is ask your mum to help you pay for the house or just get other students to live with you. It would be great company and things would be easier that way.
Mabye your mums is just jealous of you s... (read in full...)
What is the best way to meet new folk and make friends at university?
Q. Hi. Im off to university in September to study history and am feeling a bit anxious and nervous about making friends. I've had a bit of a bad time growing up and was severely bullied all the way through high school. After highschool rather than ...
A. 13 April 2008: Hii!
Dont worry ill be in your situation next year (ill be starting uni, i have only a v close group of friends and ive been bullied all my life)
Going to uni will ofcourse be both exciting and scary. all new experiences are but youll get th... (read in full...)
We broke up because he slept with my sister, but I want him back!
Q. i really need some help, i dont know what to do about the situation im in.. ive being goin out with my boyfriend for over a year now, (16 months) and i adore him! but last night i found out that he has slept with my 13 year old sister!!!!!!! he is ...
A. 13 April 2008: I totaly agree with the poster below me! You cannot throw away your sister for a slimebag of a guy. Just remember he slept with her. Hes alot older so was probably the one in control. He could be locked away for that. You dont need a guy like... (read in full...)
Tired? Sickness? Cold? Stomach Pains? Any suggestions.........?
Q. Hello my lovelies. =] This isn't really a relationship question, but just wanted a few ideas as I really despise going to the doctors. Over the last few weeks, I've been feeling very tired like to the point of only being able to stand for abo...
A. 13 April 2008: Hey. I know you dont want to hear it but you really should chechk it out with doctor. I kinda feel similar im ALWAYS ill, cold, tired, unable to work or concentrate, suffer from strong headaches and stomach pains etc. However you should take... (read in full...)
Family and boyfriend problems are driving me to drink..how can I cope better?
Q. hey i dont know where to start with all this well my mum and younger brother are moving to spain next year theyve decided and my mum told me that i was to stay here and keep this house incase it all went worng . I know she doesnt love me and neve...
A. 13 April 2008: Hey there, I don't think your sounding like a brat, I know its tough with your family situation you have the right to be happy and its clear your mums hurting you. Think about it like this if your mums moving and you get to live in her house... (read in full...)
I realize that he loves me even when he's not showing me at the moment, but I'm not okay with dealing with his actions.
Q. Okay, me and this boy have been together for almost 3 years - on and off, but do not go out...i am okay with that, but what i am not okay with is dealing with his actions. One day everything will be perfect, we will be happy and the next day he ...
A. 12 April 2008: oh.. they blanked out the word p r i c k
i dont think that will work either...
And my bad i thought you meant like he'd purposley blank him.
But yeah you do need to talk to him. He might just be unstable at the moment.
X... (read in full...)
I put her "under pressure" to join my church and now she need "space"!
Q. my fiancee and i were going to get married. we had a blissful relationship the only problem is i put her under pressure to join my church and gave her an ultimatum she wanted a break for a while to think and i involved her family now she h...
A. 12 April 2008: To be honest mate, i don't blame her. You cannot pressure anybody into joining religions. Come on man! we are allowed to pick our own religion. You have totaly screwed up. You should'nt have brought her family into it. It's not right. Wha... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself from calling my "nasty" exes? I'm weak when it comes to love...
Q. I was seein a couple of lads a while back (not at the same time!!!) who were nasty to me so I ended it. When it comes to love and stuff, Im very weak - always giving in, chasing them etc. But on this occasion, I have cut all contact for which I am ...
A. 12 April 2008: GOOD FOR YOU!! well done!!
Don't worry about it. These urges wont be around for long your only wanting them around so you can have fun so simply find somebody else doll!
Go out and meet new people, nice boys :)
Soon youll have forgotten about... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents we are back together? They don't like him!
Q. ive had this boyfriend for almost two years and we been going out on and off.last time he broke up with me he hurt me really bad and my parents dont like him no more for that but the thing is that now i am going back out with him and i dont know if ...
A. 12 April 2008: Okay well you could either tell them plain out. Try explaining whats going on and stuff because they will atleast appreciate that your telling them and keeping them informed. Be careful because if youve been in an on/off relationship wit... (read in full...)
Isn't his love for me supposed to keep him away from other girls?!
Q. i broke up with my b/f and now he wants me back.i want him back too But he kissed another girl and if they wern't on the dance floor they'd probably have had sex. I didn't see them,he told me after i broke up with him and he explained that was the ...
A. 12 April 2008: You could do much better. You dont need a sleezy man like this. If he says he loves you but would have had sex with another girl he has a poor understanding of love! Your only young so you have nothing to lose. The only problem is you still h... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with his child but he doesn't think it's his! Should I keep it?
Q. I'm pregnant with my bf baby and he doesnt belive it's his because he has only just come home after working away and that was 4 week ago i havent slept with anyone else and i'm under 4 week so why doesnt he belive me we have being arguing a lot and ...
A. 12 April 2008: Either prove to him the baby is his or let him go. If you abort the baby make sure you truly feel your doing the right thing, no regrets. If you keep it i hope for the best. If you really dont know what to do you could always go on Jeremy... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and constantly fear miscarrying the baby! How can I put my mind at ease?
Q. i am currently 16 weeks and 3 days pregnant to my boyfriend but every sudden pain i have i worry about my baby. i had my first scan when i was 12 weeks pregnant and the doctor said that my baby was healthy and growing well but i worry all a time can...
A. 12 April 2008: I dont know your chances of miscarrying but if it helps i think your just going through a regular paranoid state that all mums go through.
ask your doctor i'm sure he or she will reassure you that there is nothing to worry about.
Just try ... (read in full...)
My ex kissed me several times, although he has another GF. How do I stop ceding to this temptation?
Q. Hey Guys (: . Im 15 turning 16 =] Recently I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months. Our relasionship was nothing serious but I ended it cause it's our GCSE year at school and felt like I needed to concertrate on my studies. Wich i was to...
A. 12 April 2008: Okay so Im guessing you dont like him back then?
If not tell him!!!
Just be confident and meaningful!
dont take any bull!
If he won't leave you alone tell his girlfriend. tell her he keeps coming to you and tries to kiss you. Be honest say ... (read in full...)
I dream about my (older) ex, feeling lonely and empty as people my age are not as interested. Should I forget my ex? (parents disagreed to the relation)
Q. ok, about 6 months ago i was in a relationship with a 25 yr old guy when i was 15. we didnt do anything sexual or anyhting stupid, huggin and kissing was it. anyway my parents found out and now wer arent allowed to have contact with each otha at ...
A. 12 April 2008: Okay.
Your 15 in two or three years your feelings will change. It they years you will meet new people. Dont wait for the 25year old give these guys a chance!
To be honest In the two or three years this guy will also change he'll meet new g... (read in full...)
In my culture, relationship at young age is frowned upon, so how to manage my feelings?
Q. well im 16 and sri lankan and in our culture, boyfroends and girlfriends at a young age is mmm frowned upon. Currently i am in love, i want to be with her and so does she, however im not sure to continue this relationship as if we get seen by ...
A. 12 April 2008: Hey i dont want to offend you or your culture.
But i think it is important for people to experience love at your age for all good reasons.
If you tell your parents and they are not accepting you should stick up for yourself!
Really man, You... (read in full...)
Should same sex marriages be legal, in your opinion?
Q. Hey so my question is should Same Sex marriage be legal? I think yes, but I would like to know what you think....
A. 12 April 2008: Pfft, Yeah!
I'm not gay but sexuality should have no effect on marraige, Right?
I mean marrige is a bond of love etc so why should sexuality compromise it?
I would like to rant here but i wont!
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I want my soulmate back but don't know how to go about it, Can you help?
Q. My ex fiance and i split badly in January through someone else hasseling us for six months. I now hear she is in Wallsend again. How do i find out for sure if she is, and how do i get her back after all that was said in anger to each other? Can...
A. 12 April 2008: Okay so to find out youve got to find her.
go to Wallsend and try find her or get her phone number from a friend/relative.
Show her how much she means to you. Show her that you love her, show her how amazing she is and show her how she makes yo... (read in full...)
Do you only bleed a bit with your first intercourse?
Q. I had first time intercourse last night. We'd prepared well, and relaxed, and did lots of foreplay. We didn't expect too much. At first we fumbled and giggled our way through it!! But we enjoyed ourselves. I did bleed a bit but I expected it ...
A. 12 April 2008: Yea, that's common, nothing to worry about.
It might happen a couple more times but it's okay.
It happens to most people.
Good Luck X... (read in full...)
Still, a year on and I'm comparing potential daters to her, what should I do?
Q. I am a 25 year old male that has had a few substantial relationships in my day, but my last "girlfriend" simply stays implanted in my head. As we dated I found myself falling more and more deeply in love with her, but she didn't feel the same way. ...
A. 12 April 2008: Well, that's a tough one.
Listen, If you really,really like her show her.
You have to let her know and sometimes telling her just wont do it.
Show her just how much she means to you, show her how inlove you are and show her she is the BEST pers... (read in full...)
He wants a long break until we are married, but that's for about 5 years!!!!
Q. My boyfriend has recently asked for a long break which he wants until we're married! But that's for about 5 years, and i don't know how i'm meant to cope with it. I feel so lost and lonely and more than ever i need him by my side at the moment. I do...
A. 12 April 2008: I dont really understand how or why that would work.
It's probably better if you do talk to him about it because he more than likley will feel the same way.
Atleast talk to someone! Because it will atleast make it easier and less stress ful f... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant and I don't know what to do, please help me!!
Q. Okay, I am only 13 years old and I recently had unprotected sex. My period was about a week before the sexual intercourse. And i'm so stressed because i'm bleeding unregularly and i'm afraid that i might be pregnant or even worse have a STD. It...
A. 12 April 2008: EEEK!
Well i'd recomend you to go to a doctor and find out if youve got an STD.
I think you have to wait a few weeks before taking a pregnancy test.
You should talk to a trusting adult (it might be difficult but trust me it would help!)
If... (read in full...)
What is the true meaning of love?
Q. What is love? \\...
A. 12 April 2008: I dont think i could tell you that because i dont know!?
I dont think love is definable.
It's hard to say if it even exists.
mate, if you ever find out gonna tell me?
X... (read in full...)
I realize that he loves me even when he's not showing me at the moment, but I'm not okay with dealing with his actions.
Q. Okay, me and this boy have been together for almost 3 years - on and off, but do not go out...i am okay with that, but what i am not okay with is dealing with his actions. One day everything will be perfect, we will be happy and the next day he ...
A. 12 April 2008: Hmm... well your guy seems like a bit of a p**** (Sorry) If he loves you he would not make you feel bad or invisible. Yes he may love you, but does he respect you? I'm guessing he gets you down from time to time so really is he worth it. i d... (read in full...)
Why is he so selfish in bed, I do everything - but get nothing in return!
Q. My boyfriend is so selfish in bed, our sex is praciticly a routine. I do everything for him, i want to be a good lover to him and i put his pleasure first. He asks me to wear sexy outfits and underwear when we have sex, which is fine with me. He ...
A. 12 April 2008: Well tell him how you feel.
if he still wont do whatever it is you ask refuse to do things for him.
i know you tried but this time dont give up just use his pathetic excuses.
If not tell him he's a bad lover/bad in bed that will make him w... (read in full...)
Does he have feelings for me and what should I do about my feelings for him?
Q. I have a huge infatuation with a work colleague but we are both in 6-8 year relationships. I can't be sure if he is flirting with me or if he's just being friendly - he winks and smiles at me, we often exchange prolonged eye contact, he stares at ...
A. 12 April 2008: Okay well it sounds like he does like you.
Now (be careful)because he could just be flirting for fun.
First talk to him about his partner fact is he might be ready to chuck her for you.
if something does seem "Off" with his relationship tha... (read in full...)
Neither of us want his ex at OUR wedding, but we're under pressure to invite her!!
Q. So here goes- it may be a bit of a long one! My fiance and I are due to get married this summer. His ex g/f who he has been broken up with for nearly 10 yrs has moved back to our small town in the last few years. My fiance and her family had stay...
A. 12 April 2008: Oh now that is tough. she sounds like a right bissim!
I totally think you are the one who should be allowed happyness on your big day. I mean its your frickin wedding!
I understand there is alot of pressure and well, awkwardness that... (read in full...)
He went to a stag do - and came home with foundation all over his top, do you think he cheated on me?
Q. I have been with my partner for 6 years we have two kids together and a house. He had gone on a stag do and came home with foundation all over his top. (around the armpit as if he was hugging some one). When i confronted him he said he didn't know...
A. 12 April 2008: well this is a tricky one.
If you really dont believe your guy you lack trust which is not a good thing to lack in a relationship.
If he is being honest then you wouldnt be so suspicious prehaps you should ask around at the club.
And loo... (read in full...)
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