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writes:hey i dont know where to start with all thiswell my mum and younger brother are moving to spain next year theyve decided and my mum told me that i was to stay here and keep this house incase it all went worng . I know she doesnt love me and never has i know she blames me for my dad leaving when we were young and the fact my brother has autism . I know its hard for her and she takes it out on me. II do alot for my brother but anything i do is never good for her she deosnt seem to remember that i have a life too and unlike her i cant talk to anyone about whats going on in mine . To be honest i do hate her i always have .Even tho im training to be a nurse and want to move to boston in americait would have been nice to have been asked . Instead of just throwing me asideI can look after myself and always have i dont know why this is hurting me so muchPlus theres the fact this guy i really like things happen between us but we arent going out maybe its a good thing tho because you just get hurt right.I just cant seem to stop getting drunk to forget about thingsi just want to run away and get rid off this all but its not that easy.i know i sound like a bratbut can anyone help me?.
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reader, tick-tick-boom +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Hey im glad i could be of help!
What you could do is ask your mum to help you pay for the house or just get other students to live with you. It would be great company and things would be easier that way.
Mabye your mums is just jealous of you so prove to her you will make something of yourself, dont mess things up youll regret it forever.
Sometimes its real good to cry. It does help. But try not get upset ALL the time. Plus im sure once your mums moved youll be much cheerier. All things will end good!
Keep up with running. i once used to be a good runner but like everything else i couldnt be bothered.
About the guy, it's okay, he might not be that great anyway. If you like him tell him. You'll find loads of other guys in your life so its okaay!
I really hope things go well for you!
Good Luck! X
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey me again.
thanks i guess your right she would be out the way
but how she expects me to keep a 3 bedroom flat alone as a student alone i dont know.
I know im stronger than this but i cant stop crying and im not the crying type i guess it hurts because shes supposed to be my mum right ?.
I know shes jealous because im making somthing of my life unlike she did but thats not my fault i never asked to be born.
Thanks so much runnings helped me take my mind of it its healthier than drinking anyway how long itl last i dont know.
And the guy i dont know what will happen with him i think maybe its a drunken thing to him but not to me,
thanks alot.
xx
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reader, tick-tick-boom +, writes (13 April 2008):
Hey there,I don't think your sounding like a brat, I know its tough with your family situation you have the right to be happy and its clear your mums hurting you.Think about it like this if your mums moving and you get to live in her house she will be out of the way. Nice! As you say you can look after yourself it wont be hard for you. You will be happier (trust me).However move to Boston if you want to don't let your mum hold back your dreams! Also dont turn to drink. It causes more misery. im sure youll have heard this before but find something else to take your mind off things. (I reply to peoples probems because it makes me feel better!:))You shouldnt feel like youll always be let down by everyone, This guy could be the best thing that will ever happen to you dont throw away your chances. And remember if it doesnt work out then its OKAY. Your only young.Good Luck! X
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