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*hitney-x
writes: Hey Guys (: . Im 15 turning 16 =]Recently I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months. Our relasionship was nothing serious but I ended it cause it's our GCSE year at school and felt like I needed to concertrate on my studies. Wich i was totally fine about (:But About 2 weeks ago He started dating this girl, and asked if I was ok With it, and I Didn't have no problem. So Last weekend I went shopping and bumped into him, and we just started talking casually about school and what we were doing on the weekend . Totally randome we thought it would be fun to go on the feris wheel, so we went on there and we were still talking about school etc, then out of nowhere he leaned in to kiss me, and stupid me I responded.I told him that it shouldunt happen again because It's not fair on His girlfriend, and he agreed. But then Last week in school Its happend every day, I ask to go to the toilet, he follows then we just start kissing.I KNow this is Cheating and I Feel really bad, because i speak to his girlfriend and she's lovely and really sweet. So How can i stop this fling? before it goes too far And people start finding out? Because i Really Don't want them to break up cause of This? So How do I Say Enough Is Enough? PLEASE HELP =[ Thanks x
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reader, tick-tick-boom +, writes (12 April 2008):
Okay so Im guessing you dont like him back then?
If not tell him!!!
Just be confident and meaningful!
dont take any bull!
If he won't leave you alone tell his girlfriend. tell her he keeps coming to you and tries to kiss you. Be honest say you dont want it but you felt you couldnt stand up to him.
Good Luck! X
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reader, Variety +, writes (12 April 2008):
Don't respond to his advances! Obviously if I guy kisses you it is understandable that you might kiss him back...but you know fully well this is going to happen: its not as if it is the first time he has kissed you now.
If you know when he is going to try it on then avoid those situations. Don't go to the toilet in lesson times - if you are doing your GCSEs then you should be able to go at appropriate times (lol!). Then he can't follow you somewhere when people aren't around.
You broke up with him. And it doesn't seem like it was ever that serious. But if you want to keep kissing him then tell him to get rid of the girlfriend. If not then tell him to stop...ignore him if you have to until he gets the message.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (12 April 2008):
you just have to come out with it I guess...just tell him you don't want to hurt his girlfriend or get hurt yourself. but do it when the girlfriend can't listen in. but it needs to be done face to face.
good luck
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