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writes: I have a boyfriend of 5yrs. We have a crazy relationship. On then off, then on again. Just recently we had a problem where we stopped talkin to for a couple of days. I decided to accept an invitation to dinner with a male friend of mines. But now my boyfriend and I are back talking. And I'm feeling a little weird about going out with this friend. Do you guys think its wrong for me to go out with my friend? By the way, this guy really likes me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): thats hard! I fancy my maes ex but one of my other mates goes out with him and they had a massive argueement!
the mistake they made is they didnt make sure wheather it was OK with them
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reader, tick-tick-boom  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 I don't think it's wrong for you to go to dinner with a friend. If you don't like him as anything more than a friend make sure he is aware of that. otherwise that would be a HUGE problem!
Then if you are still with your boyfriend explain to him that your only having dinner with a friend. Just to make sure he's okay with it because you don't want him getting all jealous and not talking to you.
But if you are really uncomfortable about going out just don't go!
Well Good Luck and enjoy your evening out! X
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reader, honestheart +, writes (17 April 2008):
By the fact that you say this guy likes you, it would be unfair to carry on going out with him while you are still with your boyfriend as it would give him the wrong impression. You need tosit down with both guys and talk seriously. Do you see a future with your current boyfriend? Sometimes if you love someone you have to let them go in order to get on with your own life, especially if the relationship is as crazy as you say it is. You will also need to talk to the other guy and just tell him that you can't promise a future together. It is never a good idea to jump from one relationship to another or have two at the same time. Relationships take a long time to get over if you should decide to end it and it's always best to take time out to get to know yourself again, especially if you've been part of a two-some for 5 years. I'd suggest taking some time out from bth guys, spendsome time by yourself until you can get your head round this.
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