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writes:I have been with my partner for 6 years we have two kids together and a house. He had gone on a stag do and came home with foundation all over his top. (around the armpit as if he was hugging some one). When i confronted him he said he didn't know why it was there and shouted a bit, he then left for a friends and came home an hour later telling me he had spoken to one of his friends he went out with, and his shirt was the same. We have argued all day and now he is full of apologies...as i've told him i want him to leave. He says that a girl was coming up to him, but swears that nothing happened, and he cannot prove to me that nothing happened. What should i do? My gut says he's cheating, but it also says he wouldn't do something to ruin what we have - which has been a great relationshipPlease help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Yea, he wouldn't do something to ruin what you have if you were to know about it. Obviously he did not think you would find out about it..I can bet that 100% of men would cheat on their partners if they knew for a fact that their partner would not find out. It is not in human men's ability to be with one woman forever and not at least want to stray. It's just thier nature. If you asked me, I would say he cheated on you. It can't be proven however but that really sucks that you can't trust your partner. By the way, why is it that you have 2 kids and a house together but you are not married? That says a lot right there about his commitment level to you. There is not much you can do because I don't think he is going to admit to what really happened. But I would seriously question your relationship and his commitment to you at this point.
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reader, tick-tick-boom +, writes (12 April 2008):
 well this is a tricky one.
If you really dont believe your guy you lack trust which is not a good thing to lack in a relationship.
If he is being honest then you wouldnt be so suspicious prehaps you should ask around at the club.
And look out for signs, it's probably nothing.
You shouldn't make any huge decisions you might regret. think about it.
Most importantly talk to him without any raised voices, try be calm and nice
Good luck X
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