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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My friend likes this guy and I think he might be gay because of the signals he has been sending her, among other things that me and other people find obvious but she thinks he might like her, and she really likes him. They have things in common and he asked her to go to a show with her, and she is all excited thinking that it's going to lead to more, but I am really convinced that he only likes her as a friend. She has told me that she flirts with him and he never shows interest or flirts back. She thinks he's just being oblivious to the fact that she's flirting. I don't think so. I really think he is gay. As a matter of fact I don't see how she can't see it herself. She even married a gay man in the passed and was in denial about him being gay even after he told her he was. Should I tell her that I think her friend is gay because I don't her to get her hopes up for nothing?
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reader, tick-tick-boom +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Yes, i had a similar problem to your friends - i was attracted to a guy who was bi but veering more to gay. My friend just boldly put it that he was "DEFINATLEY GAY" I didn't get to bothered about it though.
I'd say asking the guy is definatley a good idea. That way your friend will not be mad at you and she won't embarras herself infront of her guy friend.
Good Luck! X
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (17 April 2008):
 yes i agree with miss kin ask your friend . Then if he is tell him to tell your friend before the feeling develop in to something eles.
If hes not then let them get on with it.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (17 April 2008):
 It's nice that you're concerned for your friend. Some girls have this problem - that they find themselves attracted to gay guys.
Maybe instead of blurting it out to her - cos she may take it the wrong way, especially if she has made this mistake before, perhaps you could ask her friend if he's gay? Just outrightly as him, and if he says yes then you can tell her.
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