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writes: What do you do if you fall in love with someone from another country? I met him last year on vacation and we've been in touch since then. I'm absolutely in love with him, but we live in two different countries. What can I do? I feel so lost.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): I know exactly how you feel. I've just done a google search under "What do you do if you fall in love with someone from another country?" I first met him about four and a half years ago. After I returned home I was in a nightclub and a middle aged old woman came and sat next to me. She told me she was psychic and that "I would never find happiness in this country and to move to another country".
We met up again a couple of times during the following year and the relationship seemed to develop further during the following year but I decided to end it about three and a half years ago. However, I have recently returned from the holiday and we met up again. However, the feelings hadn't died, they were just lying dormant. This holiday has rekindled them again and I'm slowly coming to the conclusion that I've fallen in love with him.
So, I'm in the same boat you are basically!!!
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reader, Sweetie Pie +, writes (24 February 2006):
 I feel so bad for u.The guy u love lives in a different country! Well if i was in ur shoes i'd feel lost as well,but do u know if he loves u as well? Because u might be wasting ur time falling in love with a guy that doesn't even love u as well. If he does love u though thats a tough situation.The best advice i could give u is write and talk to him as much as u can, but if it just hurts too much not to actually see or talk to him then move on.It might hurt at first but u'll get over it.Hope This Helped!!!
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (24 February 2006):
 Move! Falling in love long distance is not easy and you need to get to know him and see if he loves you etc,. this will be almost impossible from a distance so why not see if you can at least have a holiday with him with a view if all went well to a longer term living agreement, you dont have to move in with him, maybe just live nearer but check all this out as moving to another country is fraught with problems let alone danger and you really should be sure that you just cannot live without him and that he is "the one".
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