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I'm 12 and just had my first kiss. Are things moving too quick between us?

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Question - (20 March 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2011)
A female , *weetie Pie writes:

Hey guys, as you all know I'm 12 and in the sixth grade and I just wanted your opinions on something...

You see my boyfriend and I broke up about 2 or 3 weeks ago and got back together last week. When I was texting him a couple of days ago and asked why he broke up with me last time. He said it was because we were just acting like friends. We didn't kiss, hug or anything like that.

My response was you could have just told me that. I would have understood. Then I asked when he would like to kiss. He said he wanted to kiss next time we see each other, which would be Saturday. I said ok then we started talking about it for a while. I found out that he already had his first kiss so I told him I wouldn't know what I would be doing since I hadn't had my first kiss yet. He understood and said it would be easy.

So when we ment up with each other on Saturday we were completly quiet and didn't say a word to each other. So after about 20 minutes of nothing I text him, do you still want to kiss? He read the message closed his phone and asked me do you still want to? I nodded my head yes and he leaned in and kissed me, but it was sorta short which made me a little upset but I got over it.

Later on after our 'date', I text him if I said I love you would you say I love you too? He said in his message the answer to your question is yes. Then I text him back I love you...Then he text me back I love you too...

And my problem with this situation is I think I'm going way too fast in this relationship, but I really don't know because I feel right about what I'm saying and doing. And I really want your honest opinions on this and please explain your answer so I know exactly what you mean.

Thanks for your help. It means a REAL lot to me...

SWEETIE PIE:-)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2011):

I'm 12 and just had my first kiss a few weeks ago and it was amazing me and my bf have been dating 4 almost 4 months now and we take things slow don't do anything we don't want to and are totally in luv. If this is how. Your relationship is then your not moving too fast at all, as long as your not having sex or doing anything that might affect you later everything is perfectly fine

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A male reader, d4u04 United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2006):

d4u04 agony auntI think you're going as fast as you think you are darling, if you think it's too fast, then it is. Slow it down if you thinks it'stoo fast but if you think it's not then just stick to kissing and holding hands and stuff for now, don't let him or anyone pressure you to have sex for example... and on the different ways to kiss, you can't really teach kissing because everyone does it differently, just try to relax and it will just flow because if you try to hard to have a good kiss it just comes across as trying to hard and not really working anyway

hope this helps x

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A female reader, Sweetie Pie +, writes (20 March 2006):

Sweetie Pie is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Sweetie Pie agony aunt Also can you guys tell me different ways me and my boyfriend should kiss?Because right now the way we kiss sorta sucks...

SWEETIE PIE

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