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writes: I am 13, 14 in May, and I am so depressed. My biological dad, that I never got to know but wanted to, hung himself 3 years ago and now my mum and dad I now have are splitting up. And my nana and grandad died in a fire a few weeks ago and I am an only child so I don't have no one to talk to. I feel so lonely. I have just been dumped and this lass that found out about my dad hanging his self keeps telling me to go shag my dad. I cry every morning when I wake up and every night when I go to sleep. My auntee has just lot 2 babies and is telling me all the time I am only 13. I don't need all this pressure. What can I do.
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reader, eï? Sophie eï? +, writes (11 April 2006):
 hello darling
I'm really sorry about your losses, and i know what you could be feeling right now, my mum died on the 22nd of february this year. I stil get upset about it but i have my good and bad days and ups and downs. Firstly i used to bottle my emotions in, and thats when i mostly got upset when i didn't tell anyone how i felt. Your right too much pressure and the sad things that have happend in your life is a lot to take in at 13 and you will have a lot of things going round your mind atm. If your parents are splitting up, they are doing it for a reason, because they are unhappy, talk to them about how you feel, write a letter, send a text, email them, however you choose to tell them how you feel you need to tell them, so they can help you out. Thats the main hurdle and i hope it goes well if let them know how your feeling. Talk to a teacher about this girl who is saying cruel things, you don't need things being said like that right now. Maybe you could get some counselling or any other form of help, if you can't talk to your parents convide in someone you trust.
Only time will heal your pain from your losses, but even if their not with you 2day, they'll always be in your heart 4eva my darling. I just want to mention, your such a strong person you have been through alot and that takes a rock like you. If your feeling lonely, spend sometime with a friend of someone close you know. Hope its ok, im here if you need me [email address blocked] xx
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reader, minty +, writes (10 April 2006):
 things will get better soon, i too lost my dad last year, it was a terrible december 4 me my best freind died on the 1st thursday then my dad the nxt thursday then my grandad, it will get better 4 u if you let kepp your chin up , minty
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 BABE
I feel for you.
My Dad died 3 years ago, and although I am old enough to be your Mum it hurts more than I can ever say.
I think you need to find a trusted teacher that you can talk to. Somebody who will be willing to listen and help guide you in the right direction for the help you so obviosly need. You dont say what country you are from...please follow up with some more info. I would love to be able to help, even a little bit.
Big hugs all the way to you.
xxx
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reader, Sweetie Pie +, writes (9 April 2006):
 I feel so bad for you hun...
Dont think you dont have no one to talk to cause all these agony aunts here are here for you and me.You'll be suprised at how well they cheer you up.Also dont think about the negatives in life all the time cause believe it or not there are some positives.You might have it bad but there are people out there who have it way worse than you.
What you can do is register to dearcupid and talk to an agony aunt you feel comfortable with.You can private message them so no one else will be in your businnes.
Cheer up hun things will get better...
Sweetie Pie
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