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writes: please people, i could use your advice.i hav become close friends with a girl i am really starting to feel more for her, we almost went out a while ago but i didn't feel like it would work out. now i'm the one who just feels that we would be good together, but she just went out with somebody and he just dumped her. she is sending me seriously mixed signals whether we should or shouldn't go out. should i bring up the subject or just let it lie at least for now???pleease help im at my wit's end here! Reply to this Question
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reader, i-love-you +, writes (6 April 2006):
 thats a hard one because you really like this girl but you dont want to losse you friendship with her na dif you guys went out and if you break up(hopefully you dont if you do) then it would be weird and you lost a great friendship but who know cause after you could just think that it was to weird and and just be friends or she might be the one. now i think that it all matters to you and she must have some fellings for you if you guys were going to go out at one time. but i think wat it all comes down to is that in a few years when you look back and you didnt do anything how would you fell? would you regret it? and wat do you really think! now i know this is hard but i would do it, you would feel alot better and i know it is hard cause i dont really know you but. i think that if you dont then you will go insain, well if you ever want to talk just messeg me, im here and try to tell me how it all works out. best of luck and make the dision u think is rite, i say go of it but i know it is harder to do it then for me to say it.
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (5 April 2006):
 I think that if you tell her now how you feel, knowing she's just been dumped you may end up catching her on the rebound.
I would remain good friends with her and I'm sure given a little more time she may be ready to embark on a new relationship. The mixed signals she's been giving you may be a sign it's too soon for her.
When the time is right, and if you stay close with her you'll know when that is, approach the subject of you two becoming an item.
Having just been let down by one guy she may be reluctant to go out with anyone else just yet, and a good friend such as yourself is just what she needs right now to keep her mind off the break up. Take it slowly and remember she could still be hurting from her last relationship.
Play your cards right and you could get what you wish for, it could take a while though, so be patient.
Good luck!
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reader, Sweetie Pie +, writes (5 April 2006):
 Sorry bout ur prob britrock121.It sounds like u really messed up wit a girl ur falling for now.Since u say she was in a relationship but now her bf dumped her she could be only playing wit u cause maybe she nos u like her so she thinks she can fall back on u if things dont go smooth wit her ex.Or she may still like u but doesn't want it to seem obvious.I hoped i helped and if not accept me as one of your friends and u can private message me wit ur prob in more detail.HOPE ALL GOS WELL...Sweetie Pie
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