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writes: Here's the problem: Last night I told the guy I fancy I liked him over Yahoo and he finally asked me to go out with him :D Then today in school he totally dissed me, and my mate said to him "I heard you were going out with Manda. I think that's great!" and he replied "Yeah well I don't". After someone else asked him this, he said that I asked him out. Not that I wouldn't ask him out, but I don't see why he's being so immature. It's really bothering me and he won't talk to me. Some advice plz? vx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006): Dear VX, I have been in almost the exact same position...only in my case, the guy I liked hadn't asked me out at all-it was just his friend that had gotten my number out of his cell phone and decided to play a cruel joke on me. He asked me out (acting like my crush), and I, of course, said yes. Well, the next day, I had told some of my friends about his phone call, and I was just basically on top of the world. As you can imagine, I was completely hurt when I found out that it was only a joke. Anyways, enough about me. I agree with Sam on this issue. This guy is being a real jerk. Maybe it was a friend of his playing a joke on you like what happened to me. Or maybe the guy is just trying to get you all hyped up just so he can see you get hurt. Guys can be like that sometimes. I would suggest that you just talk to him about it and see what happens. If he truly wants to go out with you, he will admit that, yes, indeed, he DID ask you out.Good luck, girlie!~Sarah~
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (22 February 2006):
 Unfortunately, sometimes guys seem really great until you get to know them a little. This guy is doing you a real favor by showing you his true colors before you get in too deep with him. Don't beat yourself up about it, most guys just mature more slowly than girls, so eventually he will realize what an idiot he is but for now there is not much you can do to change him. Good luck.
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reader, sam12344321  +, writes (22 February 2006):
 hi there, i think this lad is being a little stupid, you don't need someone like that, but if you really like him then i think you should get him on his own at school and ask him why he said that, he could of been showing off in front of his friends, trying to make hiself look big, i know this isn't much advice but i hope it can help :)
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reader, Sweetie Pie +, writes (22 February 2006):
 Well,if i was in ur shoes i would probably start dissing him right back!But that would be immature as well.Try talking to him and if he ignores u ask one of his friends whats up and why hes acting this way.If u tried ur best and he is still treating u like sh**,dump his a** and make him regret it!!! Yours Truly, Sweetie PieBest of luck!!!
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reader, beenthere +, writes (22 February 2006):
yes he is being immature. any guy who really wants to go out with you would not be behaving like this. i don't know why he has done it but just forget about him because he is not worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): Well I hate to stereotype boys in high school, but the majority of boys in high school [laughs] do these sort of things. It happens everywhere. They want to look like they're cool and wanted, so they say and do things like that. They are very inconsiderate and think it's awesome that girls are after them. They may act differently in private or away from prying eyes, but geez, do you really want to go out with a high school boy?Little high school boys - can't live without them (why?), and can't live with them. [sigh] Don't talk to that immature little boy. Why would you pursue him anyway? Cuz he looks cute? Fantastic. Wait until you're in college. Some little boys grow up to become men.
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