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writes: Hey how are you guys doing?Havent posted on here for a while....Well here comes the problem...I have this really great guy friend{we'll call him bob}.And everyone thinks that me and him look like a great couple they even say we act as if we go out BUT i go out with his friend{we'll call him aj}.Me and aj have broken up 3 times but have been dating for like maybe 7 or 8 months. Bob and i started to be friends soon after he found out i go out with aj.I always thought of bob as my friend and nothing else but today i realized i had a MAJOR crush on him.I felt really bad and guilty cause i love my bf and dont want to hurt him but these feelings for bob i cant hide...Last time someone told bob i liked him and that i wanted to go out with him he said no{it was a joke just to get me pissed though}.Today he was really weird and i dont know why me and him usually talk and laugh at each other but he basically ignored me and i did the same to him.He looked at me during the day and i caught him a couple of times doing this...He has a lot of girls as his friends though {me and my friend even think hes a pimp}.So could i just be another girl or could i be the one for him?I want to know really bad if he likes me with out him finding out i like him or even know i want to know but i also have my awseome boyfriend who i love so much and who i would never want to hurt...What Should I Do???Please Help! SWEETIE PIE:(PS I'm 12 and in the 6 grade same wit bob and aj just thought i should add that...
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reader, Sweetie Pie +, writes (25 April 2006):
Sweetie Pie is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey guys like to give you an update on the situation...
Bob and i talked today as usual but a little weird now since i found out i like him.Well during lunch me and my friends sit at this table and bob just sits at the table without a word.I asked him why he chose to sit here he said cause there is nowhere else to sit.Could that be him lying?Also a kid or two started bothering me about bob and one kid went up to him{dunno what he said}but i heard bob say she goes out wit aj and they just kept talking.
I also can NOT stand myself liking another guy besides aj.What shall i do?Should i go behind aj's back and have one of my friends ask bob if he would go out wit me?
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reader, cam  +, writes (25 April 2006):
 hey i rekon u gotta figure out wat u want the most if u lyk bob so much it's not really fair 2 go out wif aj. but if ya still luv aj and u dont want 2 break it off then u need 2 forget the feelins u hav 4 bob. u need 2 decide wat u want the most if it's aj then u cant let u'r relationship wif bob be anymore than freinds. but if it's bob then u should break it off wif aj and try start a closer relationship wif bob. while that would hurt aj it would hurt him alot more if u wernt honest wif him.
good luck wif everything
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