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writes: Hi. Im 12 and this girl i like is 13 (She is only a few months older.) well anyway, she is really really pretty, and i want to ask her out. The only trouble being that i am scared she will reject me, and will tell her mates and i will be a laughin stock. Can you help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2006): Hey,First off go for it...You have nothing to loose,and you will feel better afterwards. Everyone gets rejected, it's life. Also you can still be great friends after you have asked someone out. For example, I asked out a girl when I fancied her, we are now (a few months later) best friends, and I do not fancy her, but I love her. Not as a GF but as a true friend. We trust each other, and she actually has a BF now. I am fine with it, and prefer it this way to GF/BF.So good luck!
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (8 March 2006):
 Try and make it casual - find something she is really into (sports, music etc) and try and organise something around that - ie. if she really likes a certain sporting team, wait until your team plays hers and suggest a bet where the loser buys lunch or suggest a group of people, including her come over and watch the game at your house.
This will help you get to know her better, get to know her friends better and give her an opporunity to know about you.
The fact that it is casual helps take the stress out and the pressure.
Give it a go! Good luck
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reader, Aussie +, writes (7 March 2006):
Hi, you are young so rejection to you would be the worst thing that could happen, but on the other hand if you don't take the risk, you will never know... so I would grab the bull by the horns and ask her, if she says no, you have lost nothing, so keep that one in mind... even if her friends tease you, you can either ignore them, or retaliate, I would ignore them, knowing you gave it your best shot.... you have nothing to lose.... good luck
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reader, Dolly +, writes (7 March 2006):
Well I think what some eye contact at her and smile when you see her then ask her out,if she rejects you you might not feel so bad.
love dolly
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reader, ask phoebe  +, writes (7 March 2006):
 I think you should drop a few hints around her and flirt with her a little to find out if she likes you. if all goes well then you should go for it and ask her out. just be yourself around her and don't be scared of rejection.
It doesn't matter what other people think of you, what matters is what you think of you.
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reader, Sweetie Pie +, writes (7 March 2006):
 Hey sorry about your prob,but to tell you the truth every one gets rejected.Its part of life.Its either bad news or good news.And it sounds like you really like this girl and she'll probably regret not going out with you sooner or later.Being a girl i would definetly tell my mates about you asking me out.Its called gossip and girls love doing it.So take a risk and ask her out.You never know she may say yes.
SWEETIE PIE:-)
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
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