Is life kinder to the beautiful people?
Q. Is there really something extra, something good and wholesome and beyond the shallow things in this world? I don't think so anymore. For the last few years, I've been wondering why I've felt so down. I think I might have figured it out, so I wil...
A. 22 June 2008: you cant say you wish you never existed. remember, everyone is put on this earth for a reason and to serve a purpose.
growing up i was ugly. i was, i too found it really hard to make friends and have a life, i then left school got a job, lost the... (read in full...)
My husband wants our marriage to work after both of us cheated but I feel numb due to the many problems!...
Q. Maybe you can help me out. My husband was involved in many affairs in the past that I never knew about and was abusive. When he did tell me during a emotional breakdown I was already having, it threw me into a very messed up state of mind that I a...
A. 3 May 2008: Take your time and dont rush this is your marraige what is suppost to be till death. If he aint the one for you get out and move on its only fair on you and him. You do need to be sure so take a bit time away and decide at your own pace.
You s... (read in full...)
If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?
Q. If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?...
A. 16 March 2008: It really does depend on who he is as a person, if he is a caring loving man probably not, i think if they find the right person they cant cheat there inner person wont let them (its called love).
Be careful what you do tho
sue
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Is there something wrong with me because I've never had a boyfriend...
Q. Well, I am 13 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. All of my friends have had several boyfriends but me none. My friends say that I am pretty and I am as cute as them and my personality is great so why have they all had boyfriends and I ...
A. 16 March 2008: Dont be in such a hurry to grow up, your only young, my first boyfriend wasn't untill i was 16, thats still young. enjoy this time of your life, once its gone its gone. being with someone isnt all roses it can get very complicated too.
Best ... (read in full...)
I'm having seconds thoughts. How can I convince him to put off the wedding?
Q. Me and my other half have been togather three years we have our wedding planned for four months time. Recently i have been having second thoughts. We got together when i was in a very bad time and it's just recently i have been getting back to ...
A. 28 February 2008: Change your age, my god i was gonna say.
You should now be old enough to no what you want and dont want, take a little bit time have a long hard think, if you come to the conclusion you definately wanna hold the wedding or stop it, do so, dont mes... (read in full...)
How do I tell this girl I really like her?
Q. ive liked this girl for over a year now. i liked her alot. i went away for a while and thought i was completely over her but ive gone completely MENTAL! i luv her so much. we are gud friends and i wana ask her out. i dnt wana play any game just want ...
A. 28 February 2008: Try not to plan when your gonna do it, you'll get so nervous and probably screw it up,
Relax talk to her casually and let it come out when your ready and you no your not gonna scare her away lol
Good Luck
Sue
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Could you give me advice on how to broach the subject to him without embarrassing him or making him feel worse?
Q. I started dating my 34-year old boyfriend (he's a friend of my brother's) when I was 15, and we've been seeing each other for about a year now. I've been really happy with him so far, and I feel like he's not only my boyfriend but a casual friend as ...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi there, i'm seeing someone with the same age difference, it's very complicated and just the age thing was an issue in itself. I'm a little older so it may be looked at differently, even i think 15 you shouldn't have, he definitely shoul... (read in full...)
The father of my daughter sexually abused me, I'm so scared our child will be next. Could I obtain full custody or have him visit under legal surveillance, you think?
Q. Hey I have a question regarding custody. I am 18 years old and I have a five month old daughter. I have recently filed for child support and sole legal and physical custody which I already have because we were never married but I want it to stay ...
A. 24 February 2008: Any child should remain with the most resonsible parent, unfortunately that doesnt always count, however with his past convictions and especially if you have reported him yourself for what he done to you, i doubt very much he will get any say in her ... (read in full...)
I continued writing to him, yet he did not answer, what could he be thinking?
Q. hi all i posted yesterday but am telling you how it continued, because im so confused. ive been with my husband for 13 years we have children together. ive felt for years that things have been very one sided and that i wasnt respected so nearly a ...
A. 24 February 2008: Hey i think what you said is fair enough, but do leave it there. be strong give it a week or 2 if he's gonna contact it will be within then, and if you contact him you might just blow that chance. if he hasn't got in contact with you by then, am ... (read in full...)
I'm still living with him but he's told me he doesn't love me anymore. How do I leave him and move on with my life?
Q. Time with friends, not with me. Now we break-up but we still living together because he cares about me and I can't leave him cuz I love him so much and that's the reason I'm still living in the same house. But it hurt me a lot because all the time ...
A. 23 February 2008: Love should be easy flowing, effortless and amazing. love is DEFINATELY NOT 1way love street. He dont love you? So why does he want you around? Men are a different species but dont let him walk all over you, have a bit self respect and walk... (read in full...)
Does age really matter?
Q. I am 16 and for the last few months have been spending a lot of time with a neighbour and family friend. He's an amazing mentor and we read philosophy and poetry together. I've never been as close to anyone and he's my best friend. I know he feels ...
A. 23 February 2008: My opinion age doesn't matter however it depends on the ages. Tigerlily says it all, i totally agree.
Becareful what your doing and Good Luck
Sue
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I want that whole boyfriend girlfriend thing but it feels that it's never going to happen for me.
Q. I have not had a boyfriend yet, I am 16 and I went out with someone because I felt sorry for him, I had one bad experence with a guy that was older then me when I was 12 and I haven't gone out with anyone since. I want that whole boyfriend ...
A. 23 February 2008: There's nothing wrong with you, your a teenager, its normal. I bet all your friends have boyfriends or are so confident in themselves they no they'll have 1 soon, am i right? Ever heard of things happen for a reason? you may not be a believe... (read in full...)
How many more nights am I going to have to go home alone?
Q. How many more nights am I going to have to go home alone? I've been out tonight and have had a very fun evening. But every time I go out and have fun, I always end up alone in the end. Tonight I ran into a girl who used to fancy me. We even kiss...
A. 23 February 2008: BE A BLOODY GENTLEMAN!
Sex sex sex, not meaning to be nasty here but it's men like you that gives them a bad name.
In my opinion any woman (or man) who decides to go off with someone and have sex without even knowing them has no self respect,... (read in full...)
How do I politely deny their invitation to go on a date?
Q. I regularly work in the evenings at my parent's family business. Of course, I get customers who are in their 20's, 30's, all ages. I'm 18, and some of the men have giving me their numbers,or myspace..or shown some sign of interest, such a...
A. 23 February 2008: why not use there (men) own lines against them, everyone hates that lol try the line "its not you , its me, i'm so sorry i didn't mean to lead you on." see how they bloody like it.
Men (not all i no) lead us girls on all the time then kick us ... (read in full...)
He's told me he doesn't want to be more than friends but we still "do stuff"!!!
Q. Hello, I am 19 and at college. Over the last 2 years I have grown really close to one of my guy friends and for the last year I have been really attracted to him. For much of this year he flirted with me and even though I knew he liked another gi...
A. 22 February 2008: Keep away, don't let him use you. it's already wrote on this page what i would say so take the advice, Wouldn't it be nice for you to be in control of when and where for a change rather than when he wants it. Take charge and you never know... (read in full...)
How do you convince your partner to give you a blow job without actually asking?
Q. Do most women enjoy giving a blow job or do they do it because their mate pushed them to? How do you convince your mate to do it without you asking and many times giving you the ultimate rejection?...
A. 22 February 2008: Shy kids get no sweeties lol I agree with AskEve bring up your wants when the moment is right and hey prestoe at least she knows, and leave the choice up to her. Hope all goes well for you Sue x... (read in full...)
I don't know if he's being truthful and find it hard to trust him now...
Q. Last May 2007 I found 3 text messages on my husband's phone flirting with a woman, when I asked him he said it was just banter with a work colleague. He told me she worked in one of his nearest depots and only saw her ever few months and I believed ...
A. 22 February 2008: WEll maybe nothing did happen, but maybe something did! I would say keep a VERY close eye on him for a little while, take it from there. If nothing comes up you trust him, trust doesnt just appear over night. if something does, i think you no wha... (read in full...)
My partner tried to choke me and I'm wondering if I should give him another chance... he says he'll never do it again.
Q. My partner tried to choke me on one occasion and I am wondering if I should give him another chance. He says he loves me more than anything but he panicked and he's so sorry and says he will never hurt me again. He wants to get married - we were ...
A. 22 February 2008: Hi there, i once had someone do that, he promised never ever again but sure enough it happened. This may well just be in my case but are you willing to risk it, take a think especially on if he'll do it again. you should find your answer. Good ... (read in full...)
Should I risk my marriage for the girl at work??
Q. I'm a married man but there I'm tempted to cheat on my wife with a gorgeous brunette in my office. Shes cute, funny and has a gorgeous bum. The only problem she has a serious boyfriend and I'm married. She flirts with me and I flirt back, we h...
A. 20 February 2008: You're thinking about cheating on your wife, you can't love her that much can you? If it wasn't this girl from work it would be someone else. Is your marriage worth it? Is this girl worth it? Take a long hard think, weigh up the pro's and con's ... (read in full...)
Have you ever told someone you loved them, but you didnt? why?
Q. Here is a question i asked early this morning, i'm putting back on as i wasnt as many answers as i can. How many of you out there have told a girlfriend, boyfriend, fiance, wife, husband you loved them but really you didn't? Just curiosity,...
A. 18 February 2008: Hi there thanks for your answers, no am not doing it myself or being lied to, at least i dont think so lol
I was reading some of the questions on here and found 1 saying that a girl had her boyfriend say it then didnt have anymore contact with her... (read in full...)
My first possible boyfriend. What does all this stuff mean?
Q. Hi(this is long so sorry) i meet this guy last month through a mate and thought he was very cute,anyway he had a g/f and thought nothing else of it,then last week he split with her,my mate who is good mates with said he liked me but nothing would ...
A. 16 February 2008: He was probably showing affection to you to let you no he's interested in you.
If he has just split with his ex dont rush into anything you dont want to be a rebound for him, have him go back to her and you end up broken hearted. i may well be ... (read in full...)
How to get her back? If not, what is there to do?
Q. Okay, here's the story, ever since first year in school I've known this girl she was cool and I thought she 2 nothing like love or anything but when we had to do scottish dancing in first year I chose her as my partner then we did'nt speak for a ...
A. 16 February 2008: God sounds like you love this girl. i cant tell you how to get over someone dont think anyone can, time is a great healer and sometimes the only thing.
Your young and you will love again dont worry, you only have to see a pretty girl soon and you'... (read in full...)
Is she Marriage Minded But Options Open?
Q. My girlfriend and I are discussing marriage and I am planning to pop the question, however, as we just took new jobs that keep us apart Monday-Friday. Question 1: Is this too much time apart for a couple? Question 2: She recently told ...
A. 16 February 2008: How long have you's been together? and is this work thing here to stay or temporary? I think it is to much time apart and if she is saying things like that it sounds that she thinks it is too, Sit down have a long chat and come to a conclusi... (read in full...)
Do you think I could win him over without annoying him??
Q. I am friends with this guy that I really like. We hang out a lot and he seems to like me as a person. We went out a few times and I told him how I felt, how I wanted to be more than friends with him. He said that he only wants to be friends. Is it ...
A. 16 February 2008: Why not just enjoy being his friend, you never know where it could lead to, the more he gets to know you as a person the more he may grow to like you as something else. My opinion, lads being lads, once they see you loose interest in them they sta... (read in full...)
I think life is too short to spend it with the wrong person...what do you think??
Q. I am stuck in the middle of two guys, one of them i am going out with, and really loves me honestly i couldnt ask to be treated any better. the other is one of my bf's mates who i love more than my bf. I think that life is too short to spend it with ...
A. 16 February 2008: Live your life each day at a time, life is to short not to be lived. Its definately to short to spend it with the wrong person, but make sure you know for sure it is the rite 1 you choose in the end. Good luck sue x... (read in full...)
Is this man worth my time?
Q. I am in a almost 2yr realationship. My partner has taken a 2wk trip with his ex since I have been with him. He shortly after that broke up with me to go back to her. After he tried that for awhile he came back to me, relizing that she was not ...
A. 16 February 2008: well no he's not, i may sound harsh here but believe me i no what i'm talking about, in my opinion no he's not, if you have asked him not to see her for the obvious reasons he should respect your wishes and do so if he wants to be with you. i'm ... (read in full...)
How can my wife and I bond closer the way we did before?
Q. I need a little help:( I am a 28 year old man who has been married for 6 years. I have a wife and a 5 year old son who I love with all my heart. My problem is, since my wife gave birth to our son she has had problems with her temper and anger...
A. 13 February 2008: Its valentines day, why not book a table get a baby sitter and have a nice night out just the 2 of you, make the whole thing a supprise and just totally enjoy one anothers company.
Maybe to see the nice soft side of you in a romantic light fo... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he truly does love me?
Q. I'm new to this but I have been with my boyfriend for a month and a week today. I really truly do love him he says he loves me but I really can't tell if he does? We agree and disagree some time but I still do love him and it's usually over stupid ...
A. 9 February 2008: remember the cher song, its in his kiss?
it really is, trust your instinct girl.
best of luck.... (read in full...)
I am cold all the time, even in the blazing sun. What is wrong with me?
Q. i'm just wondering does anyone out there get really cold n i mean freezing cold. what ever the weather even blazing sun shine i'm cold. i'm never able to get a warm, i work in a kitchen and still cold. my boyfriend hates me touching him som...
A. 9 February 2008: hey i looked up that rynauds disease its very similar, it says you go white then bright red. i go white, very white but not red, it also says about pain, it dont hurt i'm to numb to feel it. thanks for your answers but if any1 thinks it may be... (read in full...)
How do I walk away from someone I love so much?
Q. hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...
A. 8 February 2008: hello1 this is for you. unlike some i do have a heart and i do love this man, have you ever heard of easier said than done. you cant just up and walk away from some1 you love. i hope 1 day you understand what i'm talking about and maybe you'... (read in full...)
How do I walk away from someone I love so much?
Q. hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...
A. 7 February 2008: hey thanks guys, i'm still at the same place i was then its getting more complicated all the time. any advice needed especially people whos been in a similar position. thanks.... (read in full...)
He's a big boy and I'm letting it get in the way. How can I get over this?
Q. ok i met this guy we get along really well an have hooked up a few times, i like him alot... iam a slim good lookin girl an he is kinda a big boy, an for some reason im lettin that get in the way an keep thinkin what other ppl are goin to say, how ...
A. 7 January 2008: hey, not a great space to be in is it. ya no what i done. everytime some1 looked or started to stare. i smiled and made a grab for his hand. i was once very shy and it made it harder, but do that a few times and smile, look to them as though you ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or walk away?
Q. i'm new to all this. i need an objective opinion. i'm in a complicated and unpopular position. i started to see a married man a year ago. he has kids but not to his wife. they arent happy, hardly ever see each other and havent slept together in over ...
A. 2 January 2008: hey thanks but i got 2 replies 1 stay 1 go, i'm still no further forward. thanks for taking the time to answer but any1 with advice you'd be a great help. thanks.... (read in full...)
What would you say, how young is too young?
Q. Right then, I'd just like to ask your opinions on "how young is too young"? I'm 22, and have feelings for a younger girl, she's 15. I don't care about sex, I just have loads of feelings at the moment for her, I feel like she's too young, she ...
A. 31 December 2007: there is only you that knows you. i would say age is just a number but remember she is still a child in the eyes of the law. if you spent time to get to know her (more) she would probably feel alot more comfortable around you. and vice versa. (that ... (read in full...)
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