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writes:Hi(this is long so sorry) i meet this guy last month through a mate and thought he was very cute,anyway he had a g/f and thought nothing else of it,then last week he split with her,my mate who is good mates with said he liked me but nothing would happen as i would not like him(ive noww told him i do) He said he doesnt want to rush into a relationship because of his recent split and to get to know me(ive meet him 3 times so far)weve been to the pub twice with my best mate and her b/f- his mate. last nite he took me home after a drive and talk and said that he does like me a lot and likes me even more everytime he sees me. i also said hes not that sort of person who rush into the sex part he said can wait a week or months which i thinks good. he then started touching like stroking my arm, is this normal? at the end of the night i wanted to kiss him but was scared because he said he didnt want to rush into anything,anyway im going into work with him 2moro just to talk more, any advice what to talk about, im new to relationships and if it does happen he will be my first ever b/f. Also does the stroking of the arm mean he was showing affecting or that he wanted more last night?Please any advice Reply to this Question
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 he was probably being affectionate, and was letting you know that although he may not be ready for sex yet, he is defo interested in you. just remember that kissing is far off from sex and is natural so dont be afraid if it does happen. you know he likes you, your going to be spending time together, so dont be surprised if he is affectionate with you! as for the talking, talk to him as you would any normal friend! take an interest in him and what he likes, get to know him so that you can both feel more comfortable around each other
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reader, sue88 +, writes (16 February 2008):
He was probably showing affection to you to let you no he's interested in you.
If he has just split with his ex dont rush into anything you dont want to be a rebound for him, have him go back to her and you end up broken hearted. i may well be wrong but go into this with your eyes open and dont rush, it might be hard but becareful.
Here's a tip, be yourself and dont try to be something your not, its not attractive.
Good luck
Sue
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 Talk about anything under the sky.Talk about your pet topics or which you have some expert on.
Ask questions here and there about him .Ask like a reporter for a story . LOL!
Stroking your arm could mean different things to different people. It could be a reassurance or just like stroking your arm or could mean anything or nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): right well if he said 'taking it slow' he meant it, but if he is stroking your arm well that means he wants more that what you are already. It is normal for a guy to show you he wants you by stroking your arm. Maybe ask him tomorrow, then you will find out. If he says he really wants to take it slow, then you go slow. He defo wanted more the other night so give it to him on your next date, but ask him before you do it!!!
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