A
female
age
36-40,
*ottascrewlose86
writes:I am friends with this guy that I really like. We hang out a lot and he seems to like me as a person. We went out a few times and I told him how I felt, how I wanted to be more than friends with him. He said that he only wants to be friends. Is it possible to win him over without annoying him or making him feel uncomfortable? I really like him and want to treat him really special. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): A woman most of the time can be turned around but when men make up their minds from my own experience thats pretty much it. It hurts like hell but better know early than later. Don't make him the focal point.....branch out and meet other people. You will see things differently
A
female
reader, gottascrewlose86 +, writes (16 February 2008):
gottascrewlose86 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys!!!=)
...............................
A
male
reader, Chris060690 +, writes (16 February 2008):
honestly it happened to me u need to be wanted dont give it to him easy and if he is not interested in you look for another guys jusy be cool dont act all into him hes gonna eventually get scared be friendly and cool =)
...............................
A
male
reader, polarkite +, writes (16 February 2008):
 If he said he wants to be friends then that's what he means. Respect his decision. I don't think there is a way around this. It sounds like he values your current friendship a lot, and doesn't see things going much farther than that. Value what you have with him.
...............................
A
female
reader, sue88  +, writes (16 February 2008):
Why not just enjoy being his friend, you never know where it could lead to, the more he gets to know you as a person the more he may grow to like you as something else.My opinion, lads being lads, once they see you loose interest in them they start to show interest in you. (bare in mind that probably only works on me, sods law and all lol)Take care and hope you get what you want.Suex
...............................
|
