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writes:ok i met this guy we get along really well an have hooked up a few times, i like him alot... iam a slim good lookin girl an he is kinda a big boy, an for some reason im lettin that get in the way an keep thinkin what other ppl are goin to say, how can i get over this because i really do like him!!! xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny  +, writes (7 January 2008):
 At the end of the day what other people say and think is irrelevant, all that matter's is what you think. My advice would be to stop worrying what others are thinking about you, and just concentrate on what you think of others. If you like this guy, and you get a good feeling about him then go for it.
All the best x
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reader, sue88 +, writes (7 January 2008):
hey, not a great space to be in is it. ya no what i done. everytime some1 looked or started to stare. i smiled and made a grab for his hand. i was once very shy and it made it harder, but do that a few times and smile, look to them as though you really dont care and soon enough you'll do it without even realising it, thats cos you really are just enjoying being with him.
if you like this guy, whats it to do with any1 else. strangers aren't important in your life are they? you'll probably never see them again. best of luck and hold ya chin high.
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reader, hello1 +, writes (7 January 2008):
 People will look and think, she can get a better guy. But your old enough to not worry about what other people think. If you really liked him, you wouldn't care.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 January 2008):
 For he is a jolly big fella! Is other people's opinion more important than yours? Can other people give you happiness?
Do you want to be sad and others happy or you happy and others sad?
Love him for what he is...Damned with what others think. You don't live by what others think. If you do, then you are spineless.
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