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writes:I am stuck in the middle of two guys, one of them i am going out with, and really loves me honestly i couldnt ask to be treated any better. the other is one of my bf's mates who i love more than my bf. I think that life is too short to spend it with the wrong person, what do you think?? Reply to this Question
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reader, lushlass93 +, writes (18 February 2008):
 whoever you love more go with you should think about who will be bettrer in the long run i also think life is too short to spend with the wrong person so if you need to take a chance and choose this other lad it may be that you will stay with your current boyfriend and it will fizzle out and you could of lost your cahance with this other lad make a decision take a chance and see where it leads you because whatever you do there is always another decisionto make it what life is about taking chancesgood luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): yep i agree you need to be true to you if you ain't happy you need to free urself so that you can be with the one you love as life is way too short.....
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (16 February 2008):
Obviously your boyfriends mate is not his mate or he wouldn't cross this boundary. Sounds like he is jealous of your relationship with his mate and wants to break you guys up. You could possibly end up with neither of them. If your boyfriend finds out he will dump you and fight him so you would wreck your relationship and his friendship. Think about what you want to do here but I would tell your boyfriend how you feel. This is messy and I can not see a good result either way. Keep your boundaries and if it is your boyfriend you want then tell this mate of his to find his own girlfriend. If it is his mate you want then break up with your boyfriend and allow yourself time before you do anything with his mate.
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reader, iAintYourAunt  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 I think you should be with the one you love most. But, he has to feel the same way of course. Also, you may lose the other guy as a friend, is this something you're willing to do?
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reader, sue88 +, writes (16 February 2008):
Live your life each day at a time, life is to short not to be lived.Its definately to short to spend it with the wrong person, but make sure you know for sure it is the rite 1 you choose in the end.Good lucksuex
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