Help!!! Where IS the G-spot???
Q. Hi I'm just wandering if it's possible for a womans g spot to be literally JUST inside the entrance to the vagina. When I have read about it before it's always described as being 3 to 4 inches in. The only part of my vagina that feels different and ...
A. 20 February 2011: Hmm, I'm not sure if I would describe it as a "bean" shape...I have always read that it is a good few inches up but I only have to go literally 1/2 a centimetre in. So ya think this could be it then? I'll work on stimulating it in different ways to ... (read in full...)
How can I help my girlfriend go from oral orgasms to penetrative orgasms?
Q. I have a question regarding my wonderful girlfriend who is amazingly beautiful, very sexy and has a stunning personality. I can make her cum using oral sex. It's like a long build up and then a fantastic release for her. My problem is that she...
A. 20 February 2011: I can't orgasm from penetration either and from what I know most women can't. As for her not being able to orgasm again, I think thats pretty normal too as I can only orgasm once. Have you ever touched or had your girlfriend touch your penis after ... (read in full...)
Ladies if a guy lacks in looks but is dynamite in bed, would you still date him?
Q. Girls, If you knew of a guy who was incredible in bed, TRULY amazing, like he could give you many intense amazing orgasms and could go for as long as you needed, would that make you start flirting with him and trying to get with him on that fact ...
A. 11 January 2011: To fancy a guy just because people say he is good in bed is not only shallow because attraction should be based on more than that, it is also ilogical! Just because what he did in bed works for one person doesn't mean it would work for the next ... (read in full...)
Is 21 too young to have a baby?
Q. I'm just wondering... is 21 too young to want a baby? I've been with my bf for 4 years.. we live together and lately ive been wanting to have a baby, thats all i think about all the time... parents wouldnt like it too much i know that... i dont hav...
A. 14 December 2010: Age is not the only aspect of whether to have a baby or not. Its about where you are in your life. Some 21 year olds like you have a stable relationship, own place etc etc. some are single etc. You need to evaluate where YOU are in your life and use ... (read in full...)
I'm female and I can't last during sex!
Q. okay so i am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 20. I have been with him since i was 15 years old and i love him very much. It was a sort of love at first sight kind of thing. We became sexually active 8 months after we got together and he has alwa...
A. 14 December 2010: An hour or two is actually a very long time I dont understand why you're worrying about not lasting "long enough"!
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Female orgasm
Q. what does it feel like when you have an orgasm--for females that is...
A. 31 October 2010: Its quite hard to describe.
You know when you get butterflies in your tummy when you really like someone? Well imagine that same feeling but in your clitoris instead of your belly.
You didn't write much info about how far you had gone sexually... (read in full...)
Am I masturbating correctly? Please help!
Q. Hi, I've never used this site before but I just wanted to know if I'm masturbating correctly. I am a virgin and when I masturbate I usually just play with my clit which gives me a really good feeling which I assume is an orgasm. The thing is when ...
A. 28 October 2010: It's normal for the clitoris to get sesitive and painful after orgasm. Mine does too.
As for multiple orgasms? I have been sexually active/masturbating for years and am very experianced and have NEVER experienced a multiple orgasm. Dont listen when... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm having orgasms.
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend a year now. Im not sure if i have experianced a orgasm? When his played with my clit ive had a amazing sensation that i feel i cant handle and the feeling of needing to wee? But i feel like it could go further, have i ...
A. 14 October 2010: Yep this sounds like an orgasm :-)... (read in full...)
Can a girl simply have weak orgasms?
Q. I've always been kind of disappointed with the results when I masturbate. I watch or think about something to put me in the mood and can get to what I think is an orgasm through manual clitoral stimulation only (because I'm not comfortable fing...
A. 13 October 2010: Don't worry this is normal! I am EXACTLY the same! I've been masturbating and sexually active for years and I have NEVER experienced an intense orgasm alone or with a partner. They last around 2 seconds. That's the clitoral orgasm for u lol!
T... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble having an orgasm!
Q. Okay I really need some help with this because quite frankly its driving me nuts :( i have been having sex for a good number of years, and never really bothered much to consider my own pleasure. Sex has always been pretty standard for me, have had ...
A. 15 September 2010: I think you may be getting confused as to what an orgasm is and what it should feel like...It sounds to me like the intense feeling you describe IS the orgasm. What are you expecting after the "intense feeling" and the "shuddering"? When you pull ... (read in full...)
Am I unable to have an orgasm?
Q. Alright so, im a 16 year old girl and sex nothing new to me i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we have been intimate before and but i cant tell if ive had an orgasm, like ive read all the signs of having one i never have to pee, like the ...
A. 24 August 2010: To be honest I think what an orgasm feels like is more about perception than physical feeling. I have DEFINATELY had orgasms but it only lasts a few seconds.I get a "nice" tingly feeling in my clit but that is all that it is - "nice". And then I ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about her sexual past
Q. I've recently found out some things from my girlfriend of nearly a year's sexual history which have made me think. I'm 23 and she's 30. We met and she was married, we started out having an affair and very quickly she separated from her husband and ...
A. 19 July 2010: Its up to you to decide whether you trust her or not...its a tricky one really. Its easy to think along the lines of "she's done it before and she'll do it again"
I have never had an affair like your gf, however I have had sex with many more peop... (read in full...)
Why was my orgasm during sex the same as when I masturbate?
Q. I was having sex with my boyfriend and I was on top and I got an orgasm, but it felt like the same orgasm I have when I rub myself, it wasn't that intense, lasted about 20 seconds and I was done. I was wondering if this because of my clit maybe ...
A. 14 July 2010: Im a bit confused by this, is orgasm supposed to feel different if you have sex? I think this is totally normal, orgasm is orgasm whether its through sex or masturbation. I can only speak for myself but orgasm feels exactly the same to me however I ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I've felt an orgasm yet!
Q. I'm 17 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 2years now. I love him,and I feel very comfertable with him and I know he dies too! I don't know if I've felt an orgasm yet? This feeling when we are having sex sometimes is my vagina throbbing ...
A. 29 June 2010: That sounds like an orgasm to me... (read in full...)
What should an orgasm feel like?
Q. Hi, this question is for females. This is a very intimate question and i don't want any nasty comments etc so if you find it disgusting then just don't answer. I would just like to know what orgasm should feel like to a woman? I have been masturba...
A. 30 May 2010: hi that was me that posted that last anonymous one...I forgot to log in lol!... (read in full...)
Need help climaxing.
Q. I'm a 17 year old girl and I've been masturbating for a while now. I mean, I don't know if it's even considered that because all i do is rub my clit till "orgasm". I've just recently tried fingering myself. I only can use one finger because it's so ...
A. 1 March 2010: Ok my first peice of advice is not to compare yourself to porn. Ever! Porn is not in any way real and the orgasms the people have are completely overexaggerated. I am 24 and have been masterbating for years and have been sexually active with a ... (read in full...)
Half the time I ejaculate with little to no sensation! What can I do?
Q. I am a guy and have no problem ejaculating or reaching ejaculation. But I don't always have an orgasm. I definitely do about half of the time and its great, but the other half of the time I ejaculate with little to no sensation. What can I do? ...
A. 4 February 2010: I have this problem too but im female. Sometimes I sort of orgasm, but its so weak I can barely feel it and thats the end coz im not lucky anough to be able to experience muliple orgasms! Sometimes I feel MORE frustrated after sex/masturbation ... (read in full...)
Your average sized guy...
Q. How are us average sized guys meant to reconcile the fact that the average sized girl can take more than 50% volume of dick that we have? Our goal is to give maximum sexual pleasure, and in almost all cases, bigger is better (up to a point) (don...
A. 27 December 2009: Can i also add that i have had several sexual partners of all shapes and size ranging from about 12 inches down to about 4. so I KNOW what im talking about. I can understand why men feel anxious but women have just as much pressure on them to be ... (read in full...)
Your average sized guy...
Q. How are us average sized guys meant to reconcile the fact that the average sized girl can take more than 50% volume of dick that we have? Our goal is to give maximum sexual pleasure, and in almost all cases, bigger is better (up to a point) (don...
A. 27 December 2009: You have been watching too much porn and need to chill out. As a woman i was actually a bit offended by this article as you seem to think you know exactly what women think. Everyone is different and yes SOME (the MINORITY) women like big cocks, some ... (read in full...)
What's my sexuality?
Q. so here's the deal: i'm a girl, i don't find my friends who are girls attractive in a sexual way or anything, i do with some guys. but i do fantasize about kissing and doing stuff with other girls and often picture them when masturbating. i've seen ...
A. 21 December 2009: Maybe you find the female stuff more if a turn on coz you can relate to it more beinhg female yourself. IT doesnt neccesarily mean you are bi or gay but it wouldnt be a bad thing if you were. Just go with the flow, let yourself get turned on by ... (read in full...)
Is my compulsion to make women orgasm an addiction?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm a 28 year old man and I think I'm addicted to making women orgasm. When I'm with a woman I'm intimate with, I just crave making her cum. It really turns me on, but I actually feel almost compelled to do it. I love, LOVE going...
A. 19 December 2009: As long as you dont force women to do stuff they are not comfortable with and know when to stop then i think you are just a considerate lover :-)... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of my boyfriend's anatomy!
Q. So recently I realized that I'm constantly feeling envious of my boyfriend's sex organs. I don't know what to do, it is a constant obsession that actually interferes with my life. I'm incredibly satisfied in bed, always, and have an orgasm every ...
A. 10 December 2009: I think you are normal, everyone has this curiosity about how it would feel for the other sex...Maybe some counselling wouldn't go ammis not for this specific problem but maybe you have a hard time letting things go in general and tend to let things ... (read in full...)
Did I just experience an orgasm?
Q. I need your help girls. I need to know if this was an orgasm or not... when my bf would finger me on my clitoris I would start getting short breaths and making noises and breathing heavily and very very fast and I would grasp him very very tight... ...
A. 25 November 2009: Yes this was an orgasm! The clitoris gets extremely sensitive afterwards and this is why its hurting you.... (read in full...)
Jealous of a vibrator. Will she get used to the thicker girth?
Q. This may sound ridiculous but I really cant help feeling like this. When I met my girlfriend she had never had an orgasm with any partner and she believed she couldnt have one. she also said that her previous partner didnt even know or probably ...
A. 25 November 2009: You shouldn't worry because female orgasm has got nothing to do with penetration, its all about clitoral stimulation.... (read in full...)
Help! I can't orgasm!
Q. Hi. I am wondering if you have any advice for me - I can't orgasm. I enjoy sex, foreplay and masturbation and have a few sex toys and vibrators, but nothing seems to make me come. I get to the point where I feel like I'm about to come, I get a hot ...
A. 25 November 2009: Erm...you describe a warm tingly feeling that dissappears...this sounds like an orgasm to me. You are probably getting mixed up with these descriptions you read about the female orgasm feels like (long lasting, shaking, soul cleansing etc etc...) ... (read in full...)
Sometimes during orgasm, I pass out.
Q. when im having sex, sometimes i have mulitple orgasms. on an occasion that that does occur, sometimes if the orgasms are too pleasurable they can make me pass out. is this something occurs to many people or is it something i should be concerned ...
A. 16 November 2009: Yes i have heard of this before in women that orgasm over and over again. but i agree that maybe a trip to the doctor would be a good idea to put your mind at rest. As for describing your orgasms as "too pleasurable"...You lucky thing! I cant even ... (read in full...)
I seem to be missing out in the orgasm department big time!
Q. I'm 24 in a stable relationship with a man who i am very much in love with and feel totally comfortable around him. i have been sexually active since i was sixteen and had my first orgasm at about 8. my problem is that i seem to be missing out in ...
A. 16 November 2009: hi everyone, thank you for all your answers so far! as for the g spot thing...its not that i dont have one as i made it sound, it would seem that just cant feel it thats all! My boyfriend can feel the ridged bit inside when he feels for it (he is ... (read in full...)
My orgasms aren't really that great...
Q. Okay I'm having quite a big problem here. My orgasms aren't really that great, nd ive tried experimenting but it seems like they're just over so quick! its like, 5/6 seconds of a nice feeling, but then i dont even feel satisfied. Everyone else ...
A. 15 November 2009: Im 24 year old female and mine only last about 1-2 seconds. I wish i could get 5 seconds! i get this nice but mild tingly feeling in my clitoris and its the same whether its with a vibrator my fingers my partner etc...I have been sexually active ... (read in full...)
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