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writes:so here's the deal: i'm a girl, i don't find my friends who are girls attractive in a sexual way or anything, i do with some guys. but i do fantasize about kissing and doing stuff with other girls and often picture them when masturbating. i've seen porn of a man and a women having sex but it didn't turn me on. i watched lesbian porn and it did, i also watched a girl pleasuring herself on porn and i had an orgasm. i also saw two gay men having it off with each other and also got turned on. im confused. is this normal?? am i a lesbian? or am i bi or something? please help, thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): no it doesnt mean your gay or bi, it just means thats what turns u on, its perfectly normal lots of straight women watch lesbian porn however is this the only reason why your questioning your sexuality or do u feel like you might be gay or bi? x
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reader, StraightTalker +, writes (21 December 2009):
Maybe you find the female stuff more if a turn on coz you can relate to it more beinhg female yourself. IT doesnt neccesarily mean you are bi or gay but it wouldnt be a bad thing if you were. Just go with the flow, let yourself get turned on by whatever and eventually you will see what turns you on most! Sexuality isnt just about what turns you on. for example women may turn you on but could you actually fall in love with a woman, set up home and get married etc?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): yes i see where your coming from.
i get turned on by women and all but also by guys.
your not alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): I am 25, and remember well being a young teenager.
i promise you that it's just your hormones that have gone wild. If I can give you one bit of advice - discover yourself on your own. There is a big difference between fantasy and reality - reality can be harsh at times, so take things slow. You have ages to figure out who and what you like. And things will change as you go into your late teens. Don't worry about it too much. :)
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (20 December 2009):
 at 13 i didnt kno what porn was but i was born before internet was invented,I suggest you just go with the flow see what plays out in time you will no exactly what you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): don't worry too much about it. I'm a guy and i am going through this too. I don't know what is causing it but I would wait and see what happens. If you do become a bi or a lesbian don't think about it. Things are just the way they are :)
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