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*ucilleLucie
writes:Dear Cupid, I've been dating my boyfriend since Febraury 14th :).It's been 77 days, but the thing is while spring break which was 3 weeks ago. People dared him to sqeeze a girls breats, and he did.. He always flirt in my school. Im a little tired of it, but dont really know what to know do?? I asked him why you do it ? he just shrugged. It's like sometimes he tries. sometimes he doesnt. My friends are saying you should break up with him, but I dont want to but sometimes I do, I always ask him if wants to and he always says no.. So im kinda confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2012): sounds like a player to me
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth  +, writes (2 May 2012):
 What he did amounts to molestation. If saying sorry is enough to excuse such an offence, if you want to stay with a molestor, please go right ahead.
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reader, LucilleLucie +, writes (2 May 2012):
LucilleLucie is verified as being by the original poster of the question Haha Thanks, but what if he said Im sorry for everything.. I want you and all... He said he will try
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2012): He does it because he can. Isn't that obvious? Your whining about it is still giving him permission to do it, you're just saying that after he does it he just has to put up with your attitude for a time.In ten years time he'll be sleeping with other women, he'll come home to you, you'll cry and shout, and he'll be thinking "doesn't matter, had sex". That "doesn't matter, ..." is what he is thinking now when he shrugs -- he's not stupid enough to let you know what he is actually thinking.If you want him to stop then telling him to stop needs to be backed by heavier consequences. So tell him to stop flirting with other girls, to stop feeling them up, and to get some backbone and stop being pushed around by his friends. Otherwise you'll drop him.And if those things don't improve, well he has shown his (small) worth, so drop him.One of the traps of young dating is a lack of confidence where you don't realise just what a catch you are. You then put up with a lot of puppy love nonsense rather than looking after yourself and walking away. Don't become one of those "why does she put up with him" girlfriends. It is not a happy place to be. Boyfriends are meant to make your life happier, if they aren't doing that then flush them from your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2012): Hi. What he did is very inappropriate. And it would still have been very inappropriate even if he had been single and not dating you at the time. I think your friends are right and you should let this boy go. He has no respect for you and your friends cant have much respect for him now! If he would molest a girl for a dare, what else might he do for a dare? He doesnt sound right to me. I would move on without him if I were you.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (1 May 2012):
 You don't need his permission to dump him, he groped another girl! Did he even have her permission? Either way, dump him. If someone dared him to kiss her, would he? Do you want to stick around to find out? I'm guessing no.
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reader, Sinful_thinker89 +, writes (1 May 2012):
 You' re between the age of 13-15 focus on school and move on
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reader, YouWish +, writes (1 May 2012):
 Did you ask him how he'd feel if you squeezed another guy's penis? I'm guessing his reaction to that wouldn't be a shrug.
Besides, this guy is bad news if he can't respect a girl, both you, and the woman he groped. Not a good quality in a guy at all. Best to break up with him 2 1/2 months in. Don't ask him if *he* wants to break up when you're the one with a problem! You break up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2012): Ask him for a break & if during that time he does anything stupid such as grabbing a girl's ass or kissing, BREAK UP WITH HIM. I've been through this. My bf cheated on me & i talked to him & we broke up & im glad i did because i geard shit about him after we broke up. He played ne because while we were dating he flirted w| other girls & btw he went to another school, A PROBLEM! But i trusted him so it didn't matter & now i know that i shoud've never trusted him.
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth +, writes (1 May 2012):
He sounds like a total creep to me. And what he did amounts to molestation and a total lack of respect for someone else's body. What are you thinking? Dump him!
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