He's in the military and I don't know how to tell him I'm pregnant
Q. I'm 20years old and at the moment I'm a military girlfriend I just recently found out that I was pregnant and I don't know how I can tell him in a matter of his 8months in training and also can someone give me some parenting tips for a healthy ...
A. 7 August 2010: Is the baby his? You should tell him even if it's not. I would tell him over the phone and not through a letter if you can. You don't want him to come home to an 8 month pregnant girlfriend, or a new baby he didn't know existed. Trust me, he'll be ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is stunning, and this causes problems in public, what should I do?
Q. Hello all. I've been with this girl for 2 months now, she is stunning, but this is a bit of a problem because whenever we go out, there is always someone staring at her behind or her legs or something, and if they aren't just staring, they'll say ...
A. 13 July 2010: I think that yes, you should try to build your confidence. It would be a good thing for you both. But, i wouldn't get too offended when the situation comes around. The guys are commenting on how hot YOUR girl-friend is. Next time a guys says "hey ... (read in full...)
Physical attraction vs Personality? What to do...
Q. I've recently found myself in a rather sticky situation. This is concerning the man I have been seeing for last 5 months. Its recently become quite serious and we have mutually agreed to be monogamous with one another. However, I find myself doub...
A. 14 April 2010: Have you been physical with him and found that you still aren't attracted to him? Because if that's the case i would really question the success of this relationship. Speaking for myself, physical attraction is important in a serious relationship. ... (read in full...)
Will it hurt?
Q. If ive been 'fingered' quite a fair few times over the last few years, will it still hurt having sex for the first time? ...
A. 14 April 2010: Do you know if you have torn your hymen yet? If you haven't then it might hurt a bit and bleed a little.
Every girl is different. The first time i had sex my bf was over 7 inches and it didn't hurt for me at all, just felt a little uncomfor... (read in full...)
I'm scared of getting pregnant at 14, but I really want to have sex!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together 7and half months, he means everything to me and we've started to touch each other but i do want to have sex with him but we're not sure, im scared of gettin pregnant at 14, but do you think im pushing to far ...
A. 14 April 2010: Honey, you're only 14. You really should wait. I was 17 when i lost mine and i wish i would have waited longer. It will change your relationship with your boyfriend. Neither of you are emotionally ready for such a personal encounter. You may think ... (read in full...)
She suffers from depression, and doesn't think anyone can love her, but I do. Would a shock tactic make her see how much she means to me?
Q. My best friend and I are both 26 (I'm male, she's female). We have been best friends for 12 years and I see her maybe 3 or 4 times a week. I'll pick her up from work, we go shopping together, basically we appear like we are a couple but have ...
A. 12 April 2010: I think that you should kiss her properly, but don't go for more than that. If you do she'll just relate you to those other men that she slept around with.
I know what it's like to be in her situation and my boyfriend at the time wrote me a list o... (read in full...)
If I watch lesbian porn does that mean I am a lesbian?
Q. dear cupid, I regularly watch lesbian porn. i am a girl aswell. I dont know if i'm a lesbian or not because i'm still attracted to boys. But not attracted to girls. i don't know what to do! help!...
A. 10 April 2010: If you're attracted to men and not women then you're not a lesbian. At most you could be bi, but i doubt it. I think you're probably just captivated by the strangeness/wonder of girl on girl action, which is quite normal.... (read in full...)
Is this classed as rape?
Q. if a male is 17 and a female is 15 and they have sex and get pregnant, is it rape?...
A. 10 April 2010: No, it's not.
Unless he actually did rape you.
Statuatory rape would only apply if he was 18. Because he would be an adult having sex with a minor.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend makes fun of my boobs
Q. My boyfriend has this obsession with boobs. He is constantly grabbing mine. In the beginning, when we were first dating.. he grabbed mine and said "These are D cups". He claimed to be an "expert" in boobs. The last woman he was with before me ...
A. 7 April 2010: C cup? I only wish i had a C cup! I have a B cup, and my boyfriend has never complained. He loves me for me and doesn't care what size i am.
I was even thinking about getting implants (for me, not him) and i was gona get a C cup. You are very nor... (read in full...)
How can I get him to be dominant in bed?
Q. My guy tends to be sexually submissive. How do i get him to come out of his shell and man handle me? I've tried telling him enough that won't hurt his ego, but I don't know what more there is for me to do or say. Help! How can I get him to be ...
A. 4 April 2010: We've been together for 6 months. And no, I wouldn't consider myself delicate or fragile lol. We've talked about it a little bit and he's starting to come out of his shell. It's slowly, but hopefully surely.
Honestly, I can't see him role-pla... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to swallow
Q. my boyfriends been trying to get me to swallow, but im so nervous ill puke or something, because I have heard nasty stories about it. i was told this joke: do you know the difference between like and love? spit and swallow.. it made me feel bad. ...
A. 5 February 2010: You can tell when he's about to come when you feel the bottom of his shaft starting to "pump it out."If you can't tell just tell him to tell you when he's about to cum. Go down as far as you can and relax your throat muscles. It should go right down ... (read in full...)
I've just realised me and women see things differently
Q. I need some insight. From women especially...(guys feel free to share if it has happened to you...) It's a little long winded, I apologize for that but I want to be thorough. Here's my situation. I am engaged. Totally in love... My fiance and I...
A. 5 February 2010: Here are some ideas i got off a website that may help you. Exercise more. Physical exercise releases endorphins into your body, which elevate your mood, and getting your blood pumping will make your feel invigorated. Conversely, if you work out ... (read in full...)
Am I in the friend zone, or is she being sexy?
Q. I made a joke to my female friend listing all of a particular girl's sweet, lovey-dovey qualities and then saying they made me want her (the girl) to give me a blowjob. My friend jumped right in saying that the guy she's dating doesn't like blo...
A. 5 February 2010: How close of friends are you to this girl? Because if you are very close then she may just feel comfortable talking about it with you. But if you aren't that close she's probably flirting with you. She was obviously very happy that you came to her ... (read in full...)
What size condom?
Q. I was wondering what size condom i would get if my penis is 7.25 inches long, give or take a little, and about 5.20 inches in girth...
A. 4 February 2010: You should be fine with regular condoms. Try the trojan ecstasys they work wonders!!!... (read in full...)
I've tried to use a tampon but it just won't go in.
Q. Omg!!!! I am a 13 yr old girl. Iv tried to put a tampon in and it just won't go in. Iv read the directions but I don't understand the pictures all they show is the tampon out then in...
A. 4 February 2010: You're probably having trouble finding your vaginal opening. It's in between where you urinate and your butt hole. The best way to find it is to go exploring. Feel around with your fingers. If you still can't find it try spreading your labia (vagina ... (read in full...)
Any boy I talk to, just seems plain nothing comparing to my ex.
Q. I just CANNOT forget my ex, we broke up a few days ago. Even though we fought a lot, when we didn't it was perfect! Any boy I talk to, just seems plain nothing comparing to my ex. I love him to pieces, I sometimes wish I could just call him like old ...
A. 28 January 2010: it's only been a few days!! If you were that in love with your ex then it's going to take weeks or months to get over him, not days. You need to give yourself more time to recover. I think that you should take some time for you to find yourself ... (read in full...)
What can I do to really turn my boyfriend on?
Q. hi, i was wondering.... what can i do to turn my bf on?? is there any peticular thing that turns a guy on?? thanks x...
A. 27 January 2010: Ears are surprisingly very sensitive. My bf goes crazy when i lick, nibble, or breathe on his ear. Maybe start out kissing his neck (which should also get him going) and then whisper something like "baby, i want you" in his ear. The warm breathe ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to "unleash the beast?!"
Q. Ok, I tend to be a sexually "dominant" person in bed. I like control in the bedroom. It's a lot of fun and a turn on for me. However, I do like to be challenged with man-handling and all things that come along with male domination (minus demeaning ...
A. 27 January 2010: haha handcuffs are a good idea! I never thought about that!... (read in full...)
How can I relax in order to orgasm?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had amazing sex on saturday night, I've never cum from penatrative sex before but i felt i was getting close on saturday. However once i realised this i focused on it too much and was unable to orgasm. How can i keep myself ...
A. 26 January 2010: This info is all from www.clitical.com. It's a great site dedicated all to female pleasure. Check it out!
Top 10's for Female Orgasms
1. Take charge. Many women are taught that orgasms are out of their hands. If they have a lousy lover, the... (read in full...)
Is it normal for there to be several openings in a girl's hymen?
Q. Is it normal for there to be several openings in a girl's hymen? (Before sexual intercourse.) (Mod Note - Op's own title) ...
A. 26 January 2010: I'm a bit confused about your question. What do you mean several openings in a hymen? A hymen is a stretch of skin that is often torn during sexual intercourse, it's commonly called "popping a cherry." However, it can easily be ripped with a tampon ... (read in full...)
Even though we used protection I am paranoid now about being pregnant
Q. Well ok I'm 22 years old. Last time my period ended was on December 25. I lost my virginity on the 7 of January. my boyfriend and me had sex three days in a row.. but every single time we used a condom we even checked before and after condoms ...
A. 26 January 2010: I'd say wait another week and if you don't get your period take a pregnancy test. If you used a condom every time then your chances of being pregnant are slim to none, but if you're like me you don't want to wait to know these things. If you co... (read in full...)
I can't get my b/f to orgasm
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. We've gotten to fingering/handjobs, but I have a problem. I haven't ever given handjobs before, and I seem to be really bad at it because I can't get him to come. He can always get me, and I'm ...
A. 26 January 2010: Have you tried using a lubricant of any kind? That would really help. If you're planning on sticking to hand jobs lotion is fine, but for oral I'd buy a flavored lubricant.
Ask your bf what he likes. Don't be shy! You do want to get him to orgas... (read in full...)
I have had sex with my cousin but I cant decide if I love him
Q. i cant decide if im in love with my cousin. he is everything to me. we started talking about 4 years ago now and we are extremely close. we have done alot of sexual things. im 14 almost 15. i would do anything from him. i few weeks ago he told me he ...
A. 26 January 2010: It's not normal to have sex with your cousin.
How closely related are you to him? Because if you're first or second cousins what you're doing is illegal.
In my opinion, thinking anything sexual about someone you're related to is wrong, but i ... (read in full...)
My son's 18 year old friend wants to have sex with me - I'm 45! What do I do?
Q. I'm a 45 year old woman and I have a eighteen year old son. My son has a friend who is also eighteen. Yesterday I found out he is possibly going to Iraq within a month. He told me he's had a huge crush on me and that he wanted to have sex with me ...
A. 25 January 2010: absolutely not!!!!
Think of what an alienation to your son that would be!! Think how awful it would be if the boy lied to you and said things to your son about it? Would your son ever speak to you again??
If he's 18 and has a crush on you im ... (read in full...)
How can I get through to him?
Q. Ok everyone i need lots of help. I was kinda seeing this guy but then we stopped talking, (it was all down to an ex of mines.) Anyway i had not heard from this guy until sunday when he texed me something very random then again he texed saying soz ...
A. 24 January 2010: The best thing that you can do is try. If you don't explain yourself then he will never know what really happened. Maybe try sending him an email that way you can explain the whole thing uninterupted. Or ask him to meet you for coffee and tell him ... (read in full...)
Is there a problem with the age difference?
Q. hey people. ah i'm really young like 13 turning 14 and i'm dating a 18 year old. is there a problem?...
A. 24 January 2010: That is quite an age difference. I don't know about where you live, but in the US that's illegal, so make sure your parents are okay with it. I don't think it's a good idea that you're with him, but i can't tell you what is right or wrong. Make ... (read in full...)
Terrified she might be prego!
Q. i touched my penis and touched my girlfriend's clit with same fingers... i didnt ejaculate but a drop of precum might have reached her clit, it happened yesterday.... and her periods date are from 15th feb.... so if she gets her period on time, will ...
A. 24 January 2010: Your girlfriend is most likely not pregnant. I wouldn't worry too much. Wait for her period. If it's a couple days late then she might want to consider taking a prenancy test.... (read in full...)
How do I French Kiss?
Q. how does french kissing work?...
A. 23 January 2010: It's actually pretty easy and not what you'd expect. I remember thinking that it's going to be an amazing experience and you'll get totally lost in the moment, which really isn't true. Kissing is a lot of fun, but you don't "get lost in the moment" ... (read in full...)
I want my married lover to leave her husband for me
Q. I am having an affair with a married woman. If you are reading and feel the need to tell me to stop or find someone who is not married, you can keep your comments to yourself because I don't care. We are both crazy in love for one another. She ...
A. 23 January 2010: I don't agree with this situation, so all I'm going to say is, watch out. She cheated on her husband with you, so who says she won't do it again? People find their "soul mates" and it still doesn't work out for a lot of them. Proceed with caution, ... (read in full...)
My Wife's Boss wants an affair with her
Q. My wife attended her work Christmas party and her boss said he wanted to have an affair with her and other comments, such as her body it so hot he want to Fuc* her etc. I was furious and confronted her boss. He said it was all in kidding....
A. 23 January 2010: You definitely are not over reacting, at least i don't think so. His behavior is really inappropriate, especially in the work place. That's not even considering the fact that she's married. Try having a serious conversation with her about it at a ... (read in full...)
Guys, how do I get him not to pass out after an orgasm?
Q. My boyfriend and i have sex quite a bit, and it's usually at night because that's when we're with each other. I'm a night owl, and he stays up late, but not as late as i do. Oftentimes, he'll orgasm and be very tired and just want to crash ...
A. 23 January 2010: Faraday - I would love it if you personal messaged them to me!... (read in full...)
What is the most painful thing so far in your life?
Q. What is the most painful thing so far in your life? After this earthquake, I felt so lucky, even so my life is full of pain. But, I was wondering to ask others, what are the worst things that have happened to you. Like relationships, or parenting, ...
A. 20 January 2010: Last year I was dating a guy and I was over the top in love with him, almost to the point of obsession. Things got a little rough for a couple months, and i thought that we would work through it, but he ended up breaking up with me. That's when i ... (read in full...)
Guys, how do I get him not to pass out after an orgasm?
Q. My boyfriend and i have sex quite a bit, and it's usually at night because that's when we're with each other. I'm a night owl, and he stays up late, but not as late as i do. Oftentimes, he'll orgasm and be very tired and just want to crash ...
A. 20 January 2010: Faraday - That's true. And he usually does make me orgasm at least once beforehand, but there is just something about intercourse that's so much better than fingering or oral. It's the closeness, intimacy, and the feeling of him in me that i love.
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Is his height hampering my ability to orgasm??
Q. Okay, so my old boyfriend an i had great sex. I can only get off in certain positions, but he used to make me orgasm all the time. My new boyfriend has pretty much the same size and shaped penis, but i don't get off nearly as well with him. My old ...
A. 18 January 2010: Thanks. I think that you're right with me not feeling as secure with my new boyfriend, but that's improving. We've gotten a little inventive and I've found some things that work for me. Thanks for your help!... (read in full...)
I feel betrayed and cheated. Did she cheat on me or not?
Q. So here's the story: I started to hang out a lot with this girl last year (I've known her for a while from college). She still had a boyfriend but he was to leave her after four years and eventually she cheated on him with me. We had a wonderful ...
A. 18 January 2010: Hmmm.... well do you love her enough to get over it? Technically i wouldn't consider it cheating because you weren't committed to each other at the time. I'm not saying that it was okay, but it's not "wrong" either. I think that you need to talk to ... (read in full...)
How can I change this mentality he has about me?
Q. I've been with a guy for 3 years now, however, I have doubts about the relationship. When I first met him, I wasnt living a good lifestyle (I was Bi-sexual, and had a lot of guys), and because of him I changed for the better, I stuck with him ...
A. 18 January 2010: Does he know that you've changed? Do you speak it? Do your actions show it?
You need to have a serious chat with him and tell him that if he doesn't start listening to you and trusting you you will have to end the relationship. Tell him that you... (read in full...)
Penis Pumps - Worth it? Or not?
Q. Hi I've been looking into getting a penis pump - does anybody have one and are there any long term gains from using one? And any problems with them...? What do you think ladies? Any explination would be helpful!...
A. 18 January 2010: All I have to say is, oww. If you're just looking to increase your size go with something like Extenze.... (read in full...)
I see him every day but we don't talk but he is all I ever think about
Q. Ok,i have a bit of teenage drama and need some advice,my best friends was great but i'd like more opinions...so i met a guy and he knocked me down totally in love. I never told him. Well,we kissed the last day of school and now were in diffrent ...
A. 18 January 2010: No problem :)
No i haven't thought about becoming a therapist, haha. I'm glad that you appreciate my advice. Let me know if there's anything else that i can help you with.... (read in full...)
I see him every day but we don't talk but he is all I ever think about
Q. Ok,i have a bit of teenage drama and need some advice,my best friends was great but i'd like more opinions...so i met a guy and he knocked me down totally in love. I never told him. Well,we kissed the last day of school and now were in diffrent ...
A. 18 January 2010: Well, you could just start out with what have you been up to since i last talked to you, it's been a really long time. And then go from there according to what he says. It's ok to be nervous about seeing him again. Just be yourself, talk a... (read in full...)
I see him every day but we don't talk but he is all I ever think about
Q. Ok,i have a bit of teenage drama and need some advice,my best friends was great but i'd like more opinions...so i met a guy and he knocked me down totally in love. I never told him. Well,we kissed the last day of school and now were in diffrent ...
A. 16 January 2010: Well when you see him sometime say hey we haven't hung out in a while what are you doing tomorrow night? Bring up something fun to do to make him interested, since just hanging out and watching a movie or something can get boring and awkward.
What... (read in full...)
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