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Am I in the friend zone, or is she being sexy?

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Question - (5 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I made a joke to my female friend listing all of a particular girl's sweet, lovey-dovey qualities and then saying they made me want her (the girl) to give me a blowjob.

My friend jumped right in saying that the guy she's dating doesn't like blowjobs at all but she really enjoys giving them and handjob/blowjob combos.

We rarely talk about this stuff. Does this sound like friend-zone chatter? or is she trying to be sexy?

Additionally, I showed up for a party she was hosting ( I had been invited but not planning to attend) and the guy she was dating was there. She'd been telling me about his faults earlier so it was a little awkward and she didn't introduce us, I had to do it myself. She seemed flustered.

I left pretty early. The next day she sent me an email saying she was really glad I came and saying she TOTALLY didn't expect me to show up which I thought was odd. She also mentioned how nice it always is to see me.

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A female reader, SeXylOvE12 United States +, writes (5 February 2010):

SeXylOvE12 agony auntHow close of friends are you to this girl? Because if you are very close then she may just feel comfortable talking about it with you. But if you aren't that close she's probably flirting with you. She was obviously very happy that you came to her party. If an email thank you like that isn't something that she normally does then she may have interest in you, especially since she got flustered when you introduced yourself to her boyfriend. I'd be careful around her since she has a boyfriend. If she continues the way she's acting then you should talk to her and tell her that you feel like she's coming on to you. If you're interested tell her that nothing can happen until the boyfriend is gone.

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