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Should I wait for him to sort his head out or just move on?

Q.   My ex just split up with me, told me he didn't know if he felt the same way anymore and didn't want a girlfriend. We have been together about 5 months and it was a big shock to me. Though i do think he still cares about he told me he still really ...

A.   2 February 2010: move on. He doesnt want you but he doesnt want anyone else to have you? what sort of friend is that? The best way to move on is to focus on someone else, if he see's that you are actually happy instead of pretending and broadcasting then maybe ... (read in full...)

When should I give him his prezzie?

Q.   Dear Cupid, My fiances' birthday is the day after Valentine's Day. Okay, my question is: should I give him his Valentine's Day gift(s) on his birthday, or just give him everything on Valentine's Day? ...

A.   2 February 2010: No i wouldnt make Vday related to his brithday. Valentines day should be about both of you, and his birthday should be a seperate occasion :)... (read in full...)

Feeling sad! I don't think my boyfriend is the one but don't want to end it either!

Q.   Im in my mid twenties, living at home, have a good steady job and a boyfriend of 7 years. I am now utterly depressed. My boyfriend and I were about to fill out a form for a flat but i just broke down in tears and couldn't face doing it. Problem is, ...

A.   26 January 2010: Soooo you would rather lead the poor guy on and move in with him when you know he's not the one? Your only delaying the inevitable. If after 7 years your still not sure if hes the one, then he isnt. Its going to hurt but its not going to be the end ... (read in full...)

He said that I was better off without him for the moment.

Q.   I am really sad at the moment...im 40 and my boyfriend is the same age, anyway we had a great time on friday and last night he said he was thinking about me on email...we were still exchanging emails and he thought i was in a funny mood with ...

A.   26 January 2010: how long have you been seeing each other? When a guy says "your better off without me" i never believe it. If hes not with you then its usually because he doesnt want to be, sucks to hear but better to lose a lover than love a looser! :)... (read in full...)

Having dreams of incest and now I can't look my father in the eye, what do I do?

Q.   I've had the same extremely disturbing dream the last couple of nights. My dreams consist of my dad and I... doing something really disgusting with each other. Committing incest. In my dream last night, my dad wanted to go again and I screamed o...

A.   26 January 2010: Dont worry about it For a long time your father was the main man in your life and as you grow subconcouisly you test out your feminine flirty side with him because its safe and of course he wont respond. Its nothing to worry about, the dreams w... (read in full...)

I want plastic surgery to 'fix' my breasts, but I'm lacking in funds! Do I have to wait?

Q.   I'm 19 years old and I've been struggling with having underdeveloped breasts since i was 12. I've researched it a little bit and I'm pretty sure that i have hypo-plastic breasts. I really just want to be normal like every other teenage girl. I know ...

A.   26 January 2010: Your 19 years old, you dont need to hide it from your parents. However what does worry me is that you say you want it done as soon as possible? Surgery is not something you should rush into. Your only 19, you are still growing after all so i woul... (read in full...)

How can I get him to "unleash the beast?!"

Q.   Ok, I tend to be a sexually "dominant" person in bed. I like control in the bedroom. It's a lot of fun and a turn on for me. However, I do like to be challenged with man-handling and all things that come along with male domination (minus demeaning ...

A.   26 January 2010: First off i cant help but notice when you ask him what he wants he says he likes everything you do and you accuse him of not being able to choose. Then when he asks you - you say anything?? He probably doesnt know where to start, and maybe he does... (read in full...)

Is it a good sign she doesn't want to talk about women I'm involved with?

Q.   I've been getting back in touch with a friend of mine through email. There was a lot of sexual tension between us when we worked together last year, but things never materialized for various reasons. She drops hints about men she's been invol...

A.   26 January 2010: It could mean shes interested and does not want to talk about you with other women. Perhaps she is trying to make you jealous with talking about those other guys or perhaps she just see's you as just a friend. There's only one way to find out for ... (read in full...)

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