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writes: What is the most painful thing so far in your life? After this earthquake, I felt so lucky, even so my life is full of pain. But, I was wondering to ask others, what are the worst things that have happened to you. Like relationships, or parenting, or financial, or health? And do you feel yourself lucky and happy on this point of your life. I would love to get answers. Myself, I'm struggling with a long term, but unhappy marriage, and sadly a lots of trouble with my son... Drugs etc. Very hopeless to help, because nothing seems to work. I have other problems, but these are the major ones and wrecking my life. What are your heart breaks? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2010): Thanks everyone,for sharing. Take care ,and good luck for all of you.
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reader, thickness  +, writes (21 January 2010):
 I was raped multiple times throughout my life, i lost my unborn baby recently, in n out of bad relationships but from all of this i learned to be a stronger person. Im very grateful for life cuz u never know when ur life is over. So every day im really thankful to be able to wake up breathing. I cant wait until the day i turn 100 so i can look back on my life n still b thankful:-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): The love of my life left me to satisfy her family. I felt nothing but unrelenting hurt, loss, loveless and abandonment.This led to feelings of inability to trust or love agaain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): The love of my life left me to satisfy her family. I felt nothing but unrelenting hurt, loss, loveless and abandonment.This led to feelings of inability to trust or love agaain.
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reader, meltedfire13 +, writes (20 January 2010):
my dad got into drugs and alcohol when i was about three years old and was never around. he was really selfish (for example, i had one of those electric barbie cars for kids and it broke. he said he would fix it for me, took it and never gave it back. and this happened multiple times.) and mean to my mom. he ran up all her credit cards, sold a bunch of stuff and she spent thousands on unsuccessful rehab. the last time i saw him i was 10 (ten years ago now) and that was a bad day itself. i havent heard from him since and i thought id feel better about it now but i dont at all, if anythings its gotten worse. its sad to think how little he cared about us to not even call or anything. and since he left its hard for me to completely trust anyone to stay around, which is probably stupid of me but if your own dad leaves then who wouldnt? my mom was still great though and made up for it. i couldnt ask for a better mom and i love her more than anything but its still just sad for me. its probably for the best that he isnt around when he acted so bad but i just really wish it never came to that.
and im sorry about your son, i hate drugs so much and can only imagine it being a million times worse seeing it happen to your own child.
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reader, SeXylOvE12 +, writes (20 January 2010):
 Last year I was dating a guy and I was over the top in love with him, almost to the point of obsession. Things got a little rough for a couple months, and i thought that we would work through it, but he ended up breaking up with me. That's when i knew what the term "breaks your heart" meant. It was literally a physical pressure and pain on my chest. It was awful because i didn't see it coming. However, now a year later I am doing well and have found another guy that I am in a healthy relationship with. My relationship with my ex showed me that you cannot lose your identity in another person, and that i need a balanced relationship, which i have found with my new bf. So, good things can come out of heart breaks.
I hope that everyone keeps the earthquake victims in Haiti in their prayers. God can work miracles.
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