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writes:dear cupid,I regularly watch lesbian porn.i am a girl aswell.I dont know if i'm a lesbian or not because i'm still attracted to boys.But not attracted to girls.i don't know what to do!help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2011): I watch lesbian porn all the time and im a girl it turns me on but im not bi or lesbian. So if thats what turns you on and you like to watch it. it doesn't always mean you lesbian.
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reader, natalieejanex  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 ok. being bisexual, i kinda understand. straight people, you probably don't understand. just because gay/lesbian porn turns you on, doesn't mean to say that you are gay or bisexual. it just turns you on, it gets you off, that is all. if you can have a relationship with the same gender and be emotionally as well as physically attracted to the same sex then you are more than likely either bi or gay. people need to realise that sexuality is not a choice and sexuality isn't just determined through watching gay/lesbian porn or being physically attracted to the same gender. also, it could just be a sexual fantasy. chances are you are probably straight but until you keep your sexuality open and play around and experiment, there isn't really any other way to know. but ask yourself this. do you see yourself in a long, loving relationship with another girl? would you make love with another girl? being bi or gay, isn't just about sex or porn or gender, its about liking/loving a person and not thinking or caring about their gender but about their personality and who they are as a person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): If you don't like girls you not a lesbian maybe you watch lesbian porn because you feel more comfortable watching girls than guys because you are one
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reader, Bunnybabes100 +, writes (12 April 2010):
So what if you watch lesbian porn, you may just find it more exciting than different sex porn.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 If you watch one too many , you may one day be tempted to try it with girls or meet a lesbian who has a hot for you.
For now, you are not attracted to girls but who knows what's in the future.
Your sexuality may change as you mature and sometimes you will only know your real sexuality some where down the road.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): There's porn, and then there's reality. If you don't feel yourself attracted to the real flesh and blood women who you know, you aren't a lesbian.
And by the way, you would be amazed at the number of straight men who enjoy gay porn, but would never look twice at a man in real life.
Don't forget - when you switch off your computer, that's where reality begins.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 No. Girls just look nicer. What you like is perfectly normal.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 if you watch the cosbys does it mean you're black?
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reader, lautnerlove +, writes (10 April 2010):
 okay then. no your not a lesbo. lesbo's are atracted to females you said you wern't. you might think your the only girl that does that but your not.i would try and stay away from it for a little while though porn is addicting
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reader, pipsta +, writes (10 April 2010):
Its perfectly okay to enjoy watching lesbian porn if you are a girl, and it doesn't make you a lesbian.
There are a number of reasons why you may find lesbian porn more arousing/exciting that guy-girl porn;
1) the female form is appreciated by men and women alike, and does not sway your sexuality.
2) Girl-Girl porn is usually more sensual than guy-girl porn, as straight porn usually consists of the man doing what he wants to get pleasure, and not much else, whereas girl-girl porn usually is more intimate and focuses on the girl/s pleasure, so women do find it more attractive than some sweaty old guy thrusting like crazy.
My g/f of many years enjoys girl-girl porn or individual girl porn (which I find really awesome), but is certainly not a lesbian.
I hope this puts yor mind, somewhat, to rest! :)
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (10 April 2010):
 No, I dont think it makes you a lesbian, ... if you're not sexually attracted to women then that is that, and your not a lesbian.
Perhaps what you like about watching it is the visual of things that get done to you (by men) rather than the idea of you yourself giving or recieving with a woman. Maybe you just appreciate the beauty of the female form without actually want to get too up close and personal with one.
Don't stress on it!
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reader, SeXylOvE12 +, writes (10 April 2010):
 If you're attracted to men and not women then you're not a lesbian. At most you could be bi, but i doubt it. I think you're probably just captivated by the strangeness/wonder of girl on girl action, which is quite normal.
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reader, Dekten  +, writes (10 April 2010):
Why does it attract you? Is it the "taboo" aspect? Or what? It's an interesting thing to figure out for yourself.
Don't get worked up about it and just relax and enjoy. If you're in a relationship with a guy, he'll probably find it very exciting that you watch this material with you.
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