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writes:Ok,i have a bit of teenage drama and need some advice,my best friends was great but i'd like more opinions...so i met a guy and he knocked me down totally in love. I never told him. Well,we kissed the last day of school and now were in diffrent schools i see him everyday but we never have time to talk and he's all i think about,ill see him next school year and also my best friend's party this summer...please tell me what to do or say!
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reader, SeXylOvE12 +, writes (18 January 2010):
 No problem :)
No i haven't thought about becoming a therapist, haha. I'm glad that you appreciate my advice. Let me know if there's anything else that i can help you with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYour right thats execellent advice thanxx a million,that makes me a bit more confident..have you thought about becomeing a therapist? Lol..once again THANK YOU!
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reader, SeXylOvE12 +, writes (18 January 2010):
Well, you could just start out with what have you been up to since i last talked to you, it's been a really long time. And then go from there according to what he says. It's ok to be nervous about seeing him again. Just be yourself, talk about the things that you're interested in. That's how you're going to find things that you have in common. I cannot stress enough how important it is to be genuine. If someone doesn't like you for who you are it's their loss. You don't want to find yourself in any relationship and feel like you're lying to yourself.Do you have his phone number? You could try texting him, that's up to you on what you think. If you don't, next time you talk to him say hey it's been a while we should get together and hang out again sometime... that's a way to get it :)Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you thats actually really helpfull,the thing is wev'e been distant for such a long time i don't know him anymore? how do i start a conversation with him? What do i say?
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reader, SeXylOvE12 +, writes (16 January 2010):
Well when you see him sometime say hey we haven't hung out in a while what are you doing tomorrow night? Bring up something fun to do to make him interested, since just hanging out and watching a movie or something can get boring and awkward.
What you're talking about sounds a bit more like infatuation than love, so make sure you get to know him before you jump into anything.
Also, don't come on as too eager too soon. Yeah, flirt and let him see how u feel about him, but don't tell him anything too deep right away or you'll probably end up freaking him out.
Anyways, go for it! Take a chance! If you don't you'll regret it later.
Good luck to you! ... let me know what happens
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